BDSM Test - Whose done it?

[Ali Katt]

I've looked and I couldn't see a thread about this. It wouldn't surprise me if it was covered on UKE, but I can't log in to that site.

External Link/Members Only

Here's mine.

Hidden Image/Members Only

[fastnet]

Took the test, didn't tell me anything I didn't know.

[vw]

I can sense some fruits answering questions until they hit the 100% dominant.   

[pewpewpew]

I got 100% rigger and 96% sadist. Interesting

[bearcat69]

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
99% Brat tamer
98% Brat
94% Ageplayer
86% Voyeur
82% Pet
76% Daddy/Mommy
73% Dominant
71% Rigger
70% Exhibitionist
69% Experimentalist
65% Degradee
64% Owner
62% Sadist
61% Non-monogamist
60% Degrader
58% Primal (Hunter)
58% Submissive
56% Masochist
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Slave
48% Vanilla
41% Master/Mistress
38% Rope bunny
37% Boy/Girl

 

I knew I'd strongly get switch  I'm all about experimentation and trying different roles in the bedroom. But whilst I am switch, I am slightly more dominant and sadistic than I am submissive or masochistic, but it is never about a owner/slave kinda dynamic for me. The stronger daddy result is interesting though, not quite sure what to make of that. I guess if I had to be put into one of those categories that would be the one. I am often described as a bit dad like. I am a father and a husband afterall. I would definitely rather that than slave/master or hunter/prey kinda roles, and I'm definitely not a boy 

The 99% brat tamer and 98% brat result is interesting, bit contradictory, but does kinda make sense to me. I do enjoy a bit of a naughty, flighty, in a not too serious kinda way, dynamic to sex, and I can happily switch between those two roles. I definitely do like being petted too  and I am certainly voyeuristic. Ageplayer? Well, I wouldn't deny I enjoy fucking a hot 18 year old or a still sexy but older than me MILF occasionally.

[bhudda]

what is a rigger?

[bearcat69]

what is a rigger?

Somebody, usually a dominant, that gets a thrill out of tying up their sexual partners.

[bhudda]

Somebody, usually a dominant, that gets a thrill out of tying up their sexual partners.

ta. I have had some fun times doing that in the past ... I'm getting too old and impatient (and mean with my money) to do it these days. I guess that makes me an ex-rigger (or an out-rigger?) 

[bearcat69]

ta. I have had some fun times doing that in the past ... I'm getting too old and impatient (and mean with my money) to do it these days. I guess that makes me an ex-rigger (or an out-rigger?)

Yeah, I can particularly empathize with that.

When it comes to discussions of BDSM and punting, an expensive punt will be one of the first thoughts that comes into my mind.

As much as I'd enjoy tying up prossies and playing BDSM type games and roles with them, it's something I personally very rarely do in my punts, and will usually just have a fairly vanilla punt, unless something of that nature just kinda happens unprompted, for precisely the reason of money and effort I can't be arsed with. BDSM is something I have dabbled more than a fair bit with in my civvie sex life though.

[Waterhouse]

Did it much earlier this year... no real surprises or anything I didn't already know.     

[mrhappypants]

I am consistently struck by how vanilla the predominant punting market is, much more so than I would have guessed in my prepunting days.  I would have thought paid sex would be more varied (kinky) but it doesn’t seem that way. 

I wonder if it is worth have a thread dedicated to exotics?

[Stevensmiles]

Did a similar test years ago when it was on another forum. Didn’t surprise myself.
If I play any kind of fetish roles then it’s usually submissive. The next time it might be the opposite.

I know several people who live their lives around their BDSM play and are happy to do that. Cuckold play for instance.

There always will be a market for the more kink and adventurous of us out there. But as has been said. Looking at most of the profiles around the vanilla is the norm.

I agree there might be enough interest for a new thread regarding the topic.

Gives those “I’m a man, I fuck hoes and that’s that” a chance to use their vocabulary skills 

[Herts_Outcaller]

I like to be in charge.

But I'm not that kinky

Hidden Image/Members Only

[theoldmaggot]

Usually a vanilla guy myself... 



Hidden Image/Members Only

[Jonestown]

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Switch
99% Brat tamer
98% Brat
94% Ageplayer
86% Voyeur
82% Pet
76% Daddy/Mommy
73% Dominant
71% Rigger
70% Exhibitionist
69% Experimentalist
65% Degradee
64% Owner
62% Sadist
61% Non-monogamist
60% Degrader
58% Primal (Hunter)
58% Submissive
56% Masochist
56% Primal (Prey)
54% Slave
48% Vanilla
41% Master/Mistress
38% Rope bunny
37% Boy/Girl

 

I knew I'd strongly get switch  I'm all about experimentation and trying different roles in the bedroom. But whilst I am switch, I am slightly more dominant and sadistic than I am submissive or masochistic, but it is never about a owner/slave kinda dynamic for me. The stronger daddy result is interesting though, not quite sure what to make of that. I guess if I had to be put into one of those categories that would be the one. I am often described as a bit dad like. I am a father and a husband afterall. I would definitely rather that than slave/master or hunter/prey kinda roles, and I'm definitely not a boy 

The 99% brat tamer and 98% brat result is interesting, bit contradictory, but does kinda make sense to me. I do enjoy a bit of a naughty, flighty, in a not too serious kinda way, dynamic to sex, and I can happily switch between those two roles. I definitely do like being petted too  and I am certainly voyeuristic. Ageplayer? Well, I wouldn't deny I enjoy fucking a hot 18 year old or a still sexy but older than me MILF occasionally.

Which is the one that tells you how far up your own arse you are ?

[Amelia Andrews]

No surprises there .. at all

Hidden Image/Members Only

[mrhappypants]

No surprises there .. at all

Hidden Image/Members Only

Good on you for publishing this.  I think making this known means you are likely to get bookings from punters who more naturally play to your own tastes and preferences. 

One SP I rate very highly suggested that the reason I enjoy her so much is that our kinks coincide..

[Ali Katt]

I like to be in charge.

But I'm not that kinky

Hidden Image/Members Only

I need someone to bring it out of me. I usually do GFE type stuff.

[Ali Katt]

No surprises there .. at all

Hidden Image/Members Only

I had a look at your profile and I have found Scorpio women to be more dominant than many other starsigns, even the ones who say they are submissive play rough. I don't know if there is anything in that.

[bearcat69]

Which is the one that tells you how far up your own arse you are ?

I donno mate, but it's probably the same one that tells me why you're taking my comment so seriously.

My thoughts on the test were deliberately meant in a bit of a tongue in cheek kinda way. Generally speaking, I find sub/dom culture a bit comical, especially those who take it too seriously. It's amusing to me, if anything. But, I mean, we do all have our own preferences and personality, and I am fairly self aware of how I am in bed, for what I would have assumed are pretty obvious reasons, i.e.; I embrace how I am in order to try to maximize my enjoyment of sex. As the test/website will tell you, switch people match best with other switch people. But sometimes they also enjoy playing the sub role with a dom or the dom role with a sub. To be frank, absolutely fine with me if you wanna think that makes me up my own arse.

[JamesKW]

I am consistently struck by how vanilla the predominant punting market is, much more so than I would have guessed in my prepunting days.  I would have thought paid sex would be more varied (kinky) but it doesn’t seem that way. 

I wonder if it is worth have a thread dedicated to exotics?

Different phsycologies involved,most punters on this board whether going with a sub or dom will expect to get penetrative sex out of it.BDSM is not about that it is more about the fore play and either being conpletley submissive or dominant,it is all about mind games.Both groups will get into either a dom or sub space whilst they indulge,thats why they use safe words to snap them out of it.Alot of truly submissive women (not the paid for ones,or those dabbling) are often fairly over weight and have mental issues,well that's what I observe at fetish events.

[JamesKW]

I like to be in charge.

But I'm not that kinky

Yes,thats normal anyway, most men like to be incharge in the bedroom and most women are submissive.In the BDSM world it seems to be the same except there maybe a little tying up or spanking involved,so not that different from what they call the vanilla world.There seems to be more women submissives than dominants and a lot of the men like to think they are dominant.

[TailSeeker]

I've looked and I couldn't see a thread about this. It wouldn't surprise me if it was covered on UKE, but I can't log in to that site.

External Link/Members Only

Here's mine.

Hidden Image/Members Only

I've done it, and luckily they're improved it recently. More accurate now.

Although that said, none of my reviews have ever commented on me being a brat. Mostly as I know a guys are generally not comfortable with it (the brat sub is one of the rarest sub types). Who wants someone who'll pick a fight and insult them? I'll keep that for my civvie shags.

Hidden Image/Members Only

[bhudda]

I've done it, and luckily they're improved it recently. More accurate now.

Although that said, none of my reviews have ever commented on me being a brat. Mostly as I know a guys are generally not comfortable with it (the brat sub is one of the rarest sub types). Who wants someone who'll pick a fight and insult them? I'll keep that for my civvie shags.

Hidden Image/Members Only

I just did it as well - and seems that we would be a perfect match - except I exceed your age limit 

[TailSeeker]

I just did it as well - and seems that we would be a perfect match - except I exceed your age limit 

I don't have a fixed age limit. My oldest incall is on their 60s, youngest is 19.

But I'll admit, it is weird fucking someone old enough to be a grandad. I think most people share that. I just happen to have my grandparents being in their early 70s, so I know I have to be slightly flexible, but keep them to outcalls, then if suits move to incall. Or a free social meet first.

And honestly the test isn't that good. They rate brat on how much you talk back. But a true brat is completely different, or at least my style of brat, it's not just talking, but physical as well. It's why we're the rarest sub type, many claim it, but few actually are.

[JamesKW]

They rate brat on how much you talk back. But a true brat is completely different, or at least my style of brat, it's not just talking, but physical as well. It's why we're the rarest sub type, many claim it, but few actually are.

Just act like a teenage girl that has never grown up.

[Ali Katt]

I've done it, and luckily they're improved it recently. More accurate now.

Although that said, none of my reviews have ever commented on me being a brat. Mostly as I know a guys are generally not comfortable with it (the brat sub is one of the rarest sub types). Who wants someone who'll pick a fight and insult them? I'll keep that for my civvie shags.

Hidden Image/Members Only

I've met girls who have been bratty both as escorts and on civvy streets, but it was more playful banter rather than any sort of roleplay.

I always see the brat type as relating to ageplay particularly LG, but I'm guessing this isn't the case as your chart shows.

[TailSeeker]

I've met girls who have been bratty both as escorts and on civvy streets, but it was more playful banter rather than any sort of roleplay.

I always see the brat type as relating to ageplay particularly LG, but I'm guessing this isn't the case as your chart shows.

I think it is mostly thought of as associated with that, but I tend to find lg's are more princesses.

I have no interest in acting like a little kid. It's more that I prefer physically resisting and fighting, along with some really below the belt insults. Mostly to ramp up the intensity and get the level of aggression I enjoy. But I tend to play lower level as few are honestly that comfortable going that far, and it is also important to keep an appreciation for vanilla and lower level kinks. Otherwise you end up only being able to get off that way.

[Ali Katt]

I think it is mostly thought of as associated with that, but I tend to find lg's are more princesses.

I have no interest in acting like a little kid. It's more that I prefer physically resisting and fighting, along with some really below the belt insults. Mostly to ramp up the intensity and get the level of aggression I enjoy. But I tend to play lower level as few are honestly that comfortable going that far, and it is also important to keep an appreciation for vanilla and lower level kinks. Otherwise you end up only being able to get off that way.

I think we are sort of looking for the same thing, but we go about it in a different way. I want to feel something deeper like I am pushing myself and my boundaries, usually I find girls to despondent or even passive, someone can be submissive without being passive, it's the lack of sexual energy with some girls that really annoys me. I don't want to feel like I am doing all the work and need to feed off them. I do do vanilla GFE stuff more often than not, but sometimes I want to be that little bit darker.

[TailSeeker]

I think we are sort of looking for the same thing, but we go about it in a different way. I want to feel something deeper like I am pushing myself and my boundaries, usually I find girls to despondent or even passive, someone can be submissive without being passive, it's the lack of sexual energy with some girls that really annoys me. I don't want to feel like I am doing all the work and need to feed off them. I do do vanilla GFE stuff more often than not, but sometimes I want to be that little bit darker.

Not so much, I'm not looking to push my limits. I know I can go further than I have, but I also know doing so risks seriously injuring myself. I've reached the peak level I want to play at, I've gone into shock playing before.

But then being a hardcore player, I get asked to do more in the bdsm scene. And I don't care how often I'm asked, I'm not letting anyone hammer nails through my breasts or labia, I'm a masochist, not a fucking idiot. That's just asking for a serious infection.

[Ali Katt]

Not so much, I'm not looking to push my limits. I know I can go further than I have, but I also know doing so risks seriously injuring myself. I've reached the peak level I want to play at, I've gone into shock playing before.

But then being a hardcore player, I get asked to do more in the bdsm scene. And I don't care how often I'm asked, I'm not letting anyone hammer nails through my breasts or labia, I'm a masochist, not a fucking idiot. That's just asking for a serious infection.

I relate to the intensity thing. Most people aren't intense, or they get scared if someone else is intense if someone is intune with it it is something people pick up on almost without anything being said. Maybe I didn't word it well or maybe I'm still figuring things out.

[TailSeeker]

I relate to the intensity thing. Most people aren't intense, or they get scared if someone else is intense if someone is intune with it it is something people pick up on almost without anything being said. Maybe I didn't word it well or maybe I'm still figuring things out.

Perhaps, I guess it's down to where you want to ramp up intensity. I only have a couple of trusted punters I hand a whip cane to, as it's just one step down from a bull whip for the damage it can do. And many punters I won't hand a cane to as they just don't know not to strike the same place repeatedly, or don't have the skill to avoid it.

I try to teach, in the same way I help they do breast bondage, my old reduction means I don't tie up as easily, so I have to help. Which is where the balance comes in. I prefer to be fighting, but sometimes I have to help out or play nice.

I think it very much comes down to what you like. If you like impact play, seek out a masochist. If you like bondage, seek out a role bunny, and such. There's often cross overs between groups.

I'm still annoyed that they class me as a "mother" because I said I like taking care of my partner. As if Dom(mes) don't need aftercare as well. Many do. Especially when you're pushing limits.

[Ali Katt]

I've looked and I couldn't see a thread about this. It wouldn't surprise me if it was covered on UKE, but I can't log in to that site.

External Link/Members Only

Here's mine.

Hidden Image/Members Only

Changed a bit since last year.

[Blackpool Rock]

1st time i've done the test and only did the short one, surprised it's come out with so many really high scores as every time I do psychometric tests at work etc they tend to come out neutral as I give too many answers in the middle rather than extremes.
I guess this shows that you can be two completely different people in civvy life and sexually / punting where i'm able to satisfy my kinks though the majority of my punts are vanilla as it's down to what the girl offers and I absolutely love a good GFE

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Rigger
100% Master/Mistress
99% Sadist
98% Owner
98% Daddy/Mommy
97% Non-monogamist
97% Primal (Hunter)
97% Brat tamer
87% Voyeur
70% Exhibitionist
69% Experimentalist
46% Ageplayer
39% Masochist
18% Vanilla
2% Brat
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Degradee
1% Switch
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Pet

[Ali Katt]

1st time i've done the test and only did the short one, surprised it's come out with so many really high scores as every time I do psychometric tests at work etc they tend to come out neutral as I give too many answers in the middle rather than extremes.
I guess this shows that you can be two completely different people in civvy life and sexually / punting where i'm able to satisfy my kinks though the majority of my punts are vanilla as it's down to what the girl offers and I absolutely love a good GFE

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Rigger
100% Master/Mistress
99% Sadist
98% Owner
98% Daddy/Mommy
97% Non-monogamist
97% Primal (Hunter)
97% Brat tamer
87% Voyeur
70% Exhibitionist
69% Experimentalist
46% Ageplayer
39% Masochist
18% Vanilla
2% Brat
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Degradee
1% Switch
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Pet

I only do the long tests. Downside is some things aren't specific enough on any test, I scored high on degrader and degradee, but I'm only really into verbal humiliation and teasing. Thanks for sharing.

[KentAde]

I think I must be boring... 

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
89% Vanilla
63% Exhibitionist
60% Non-monogamist
59% Switch
53% Submissive
46% Voyeur
42% Daddy/Mommy
42% Brat
39% Ageplayer
30% Slave
27% Pet
26% Rope bunny
25% Experimentalist
14% Rigger
14% Brat tamer
10% Dominant
7% Sadist
3% Primal (Hunter)
3% Boy/Girl
0% Degradee
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Masochist
0% Degrader
0% Owner
0% Master/Mistress

[hendrix]

Seems about right
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
78% Primal (Prey)
74% Degrader
65% Vanilla
61% Primal (Hunter)
59% Non-monogamist
58% Experimentalist
43% Brat tamer
43% Daddy/Mommy
42% Voyeur
39% Master/Mistress
39% Exhibitionist
34% Sadist
23% Rigger
21% Ageplayer
1% Brat
0% Rope bunny
0% Slave
0% Degradee
0% Boy/Girl
0% Submissive
0% Masochist
0% Pet
0% Owner
0% Switch