So whether a girl does cim or facials is kinky? Or depends on my cock size? I'm not saying you claim that, and I see what you are saying. BUT I'm not asking for anything kinky. The common ones are cim at discretion for example ( if one meant to avoid dirty cocks, you wouldn't do owo in the first place.) if facials are at discretion, what does it depends on? A levels at discretion? Why is it so many say that but no one has ever had a levels with them. Some have even admitted they don't do it,but have it on the list to appear in search results. If a levels depends on size, why not say what the limit is? My disagreement is not with legitimate at discretion situations (don't forget you can turn someone away) but when it's just put when there is zero possibility of getting it. Also, why list something as on offer if you know you won't do it? It's a scam. Get the person there, having spent their time and money getting there, and away from other options, then short change them. THAT is what I take issue with. It's like hidden extras. Another pet hate. One profile I remember seeing was no facials, no cim and £10 extra to come on body. For someone offering owo that's odd. What's the plan? Owo me until I'm about to come, then I turn around quickly and spunk on her carpet or pet or computer desk? You better believe she'd want me to pay extra if I did that. Or is it owo but I can't come? I'm being pedantic, but you see my point.
Why not have an enjoys list that is accurate, clear prices, and if anything is dependent, say on what. And have clear pics, that are actually you. If I'm paying, don't I have a right to know what for? Bait and switch, fake enjoys lists etc are not acceptable. Would they accept if I paid with fake money ( I don't have any and wouldn't of course, let's make that clear) or suddenly decided to use a different currency? Why is the paying consumer left with the shit end of the stick? And what is this fake reviews business? It's a con.
At discretion is not inherently bad, at all. But it is often used as a ploy to bring in clients that wouldn't be interested if the real offer were shown to them. It's false advertising for a pricey hobby. That's the problem, as many here can attest to.
Don't take this as a rant at you, it isn't. I just want to make it clear what I am saying. I should also make very clear that I'm respectful when I go for a punt, but the bait and switch etc etc listed above show that my respect is not reciprocated often. Or that I'm getting what I paid for. Don't you think the women on adultwork would go mental at you if they found you had faked your own feedback and weren't what they expected (eg the ones with race requirements, age requirements etc)? Would they accept you saying your honesty is at discretion? I'm actually a black midget aged 23, so lied as your profile said must be white, over 49 and you don't see little people. Would they say..."oh ok, honesty at discretion"?