Calm down, relax, breath and start again
You're not the first to unwittingly fuck a bloke, although most would say it was Thailand and they were pissed...
Now, begin....................
Ops, its up now....
If it is indeed the same person, a cock might be a little giveaway I guess???
Do you think some people just carry on regardless?
Taking a risk though, open to getting smacked I would say.
Of course this does assume its all the same person.