Serious question/scenario, so please bear with me before cracking your keyboard with the most predictable outrage:
I've been seeing an SP regularly for about two years. She generally only offers massage and HE - no sex.
I've probably seen her about 40 times. For the first year, it was definitely just a massage and HE play. Then, after about a year, it progressed into protected sex (at my suggestion). On my last visit, it became obvious by the way were we together that BB would be an option if I wanted it. I tactfully abstained (although, if I'm honest, it was difficult) and only had protected sex.
She has indicated that things have only progressed this way because we have known each other for a couple of years and she trusts me. Given how long it took to go from HE to protected and then to BB potentially being on the table, I am becoming persuaded that the situation might be genuine.
I was tempted. Am I being an idiot here? Or could a situation like this exist where something organic does genuinely develop?
When you say "Or could a situation like this exist where something organic does genuinely develop?"
What do you mean . Are you thinking about a relationship beyond the financial/business one with this WG . If so ask yourself would you trust her if she said she was no longer working ? Or would you be happy with a GF who was a WG ?
As for the barebacking , be interested to know how you know it was obvious BB was an option unless she explicitly stated , or you did BB or she tried to put you in without a jacket on .
IMO from the way that you are thinking about the prospect of BB and wanting to discuss it afterwards , and the way you talk about this WG it is obvious that lines have started to blur . Personally I think it is best that you find a new regular otherwise you will at some point give in the temptation if not already . You said it yourself it was hard to abstain from the BB this time . How much harder is that going to get as time goes on . To be blunt it really seems that from your comments that you have fallen for the "I am her special client" guff , unless she is willing to give you a shag for free you are still just any other client that pays her for sex . When you start to think of yourself as a special client I really think thats the time to have an honest appraisal and move on . 2 years punting the same girl is a long time .
I can sympathise to some extend . I know if my last regular offered me BB(never came up) it would have been hard to turn down because looks wise she is the sort of girl I would date on civvie street and I did see her many times so we did chat quite a lot . I am working on finding a new regular because I personally fear this familiarity blurring the lines
Also bear in mind she is willing to take the risk knowing that you pay for sex and not knowing how many other prossies you visit and that if you are willing to BB her you could be willing to BB others . I would honestly say there is an incredibly high liklihood she has or does BB other clients who BB other WG's and so the mixing pot continues god knows what you could be sticking your dick in .
I sympathise with what is behind your thinking/post.
I was offered this about third punt in with a WG, in fact more than offered she just started to slip me in!! I reacted instinctively and pretty much threw her off (she was a small oriental girl) before carrying on with covered sex. I posted a red review on here warning people.
However I have many times since in moments of weakness wondered if I did the wrong thing and I should have just kept her as a BB shag - especially as I struggle to finish with covered sex and frankly the feel of BB is just so good. Now like you I know that I did the right thing and to do BB with a WG is madness - but the temptation will work away at you. You need to be on guard and have a stern word with yourself......
That is poor form for a third punt . I would not even consider that a regular .
I agree though given how good BB feels it is highly tempting sometimes . Not just with WG's but on civvie street with random hook ups . For this reason I really dont like pulling girls in bars and clubs because I know after enough drinks I am likely to take risks .
Any sensible punter would look at the 162 girls you have reviewed and avoid them like the plague.
Literally the first thing I did .