Reasons for punting

[tynetunnel]

All very spot on 

A total +1 from me. Such a well written post, I found my self nodding in agreement as I read it.

[tynetunnel]

I actually can’t believe I’ve wasted so many years of my life not punting. New to punting this year, I’ve been intimate with more women in six months than in the rest of my life! I’m in my 50’s.

Like many other members, I get none at home, I haven’t done so for a very long time. I’d leave if I didn’t have kids (and plan to when they’re all grown up) and finally decided to dip a toe earlier this year. I’d always felt  that paying for it was a murky world of street corners and rough old hags, with dirty teeth and dirtier knickers, and then I read about escorting. What an education I have had!

I used to work with a fella, we’d eye up the pretty young girls, half our age and out of our league, and we’d remark that ‘somebody, somewhere, gets to enjoy that - the lucky bastard!’

Now that somebody, for a modest fee, is me! No dating, no dinners, no flowers, no promises, no begging and no bullshit. Just hand over a few punting tokens, to the girl of my choosing, and lose myself in a warm, passionate young woman. I love a quality GFE 

As I become a more experienced punter, I find I’m enjoying it more than ever. The terrible nerves of my first few punts have passed. I vividly remember when a beautiful 20’s blonde I’d booked waltzed into my hotel room looking as fit as, put her bag down, gave me a hug and a kiss, and then she immediately started removing her jeans and top. Shocked didn’t begin to describe how I felt! Now  I know what to expect, and wouldn’t bat an eyelid.

I  think that moment says why for me why punting is so great. I didn’t have to chat her up, or impress her. I’d paid, and she knew why she was there, and just got on with it.

I’m very glad I became a punter. I’ve had some amazing experiences with some stunning girls that I’d never have had outside of punting. I have no guilt, just regret that I took so long to discover this world of ours. I aim to continue until I die.

And remember, nobody EVER on their deathbed says - “I think I had too much sex” ! 

[fettish008]

I do it just because I can

[MrMatrix]

I actually can’t believe I’ve wasted so many years of my life not punting. New to punting this year, I’ve been intimate with more women in six months than in the rest of my life! I’m in my 50’s.

Like many other members, I get none at home, I haven’t done so for a very long time. I’d leave if I didn’t have kids (and plan to when they’re all grown up) and finally decided to dip a toe earlier this year. I’d always felt  that paying for it was a murky world of street corners and rough old hags, with dirty teeth and dirtier knickers, and then I read about escorting. What an education I have had!

I used to work with a fella, we’d eye up the pretty young girls, half our age and out of our league, and we’d remark that ‘somebody, somewhere, gets to enjoy that - the lucky bastard!’

Now that somebody, for a modest fee, is me! No dating, no dinners, no flowers, no promises, no begging and no bullshit. Just hand over a few punting tokens, to the girl of my choosing, and lose myself in a warm, passionate young woman. I love a quality GFE 

As I become a more experienced punter, I find I’m enjoying it more than ever. The terrible nerves of my first few punts have passed. I vividly remember when a beautiful 20’s blonde I’d booked waltzed into my hotel room looking as fit as, put her bag down, gave me a hug and a kiss, and then she immediately started removing her jeans and top. Shocked didn’t begin to describe how I felt! Now  I know what to expect, and wouldn’t bat an eyelid.

I  think that moment says why for me why punting is so great. I didn’t have to chat her up, or impress her. I’d paid, and she knew why she was there, and just got on with it.

I’m very glad I became a punter. I’ve had some amazing experiences with some stunning girls that I’d never have had outside of punting. I have no guilt, just regret that I took so long to discover this world of ours. I aim to continue until I die.

And remember, nobody EVER on their deathbed says - “I think I had too much sex” ! 

Blimey TT, your story sounds so familiar, looking forward to more reviews and welcome to the forum. 

[Aengus]

I’m 69 and married for 10 years to a very attractive woman 15 years younger than me. We have a great loving relationship and I guess the envy of some of our friends.

But! Initially we had sex a couple of times a week which then dwindled to once on Sunday morning and became such a routine that I just got turned off with the whole thing. Now we have sex about once a month, which keeps her happy.

I was reading a magazine article about 18 months ago which mentioned AdultWork, and I curiously found the site. WOW! Never in my wildest dreams did I expect to find so many lovely young girls available. It was another world to me. 

I have always been comfortable in women’s company and women seem to like me. I’ve been lucky that several lovely women have agreed to share their squidgy bits with me in the past, but I’m old and married now and don’t have the opportunity to stray, or want the danger of an affair.

My prostrate started playing up at about the same time as I found AW and I had a heart op a few years ago. These things rather concentrate the mind and although I’m slim, fit and healthy I could see a time ahead where I might not be able to shag anything.

So, I punt because I still need lots of sex and am determined to get as much as I can with gorgeous women while all my bits still work without chemical assistance. Luckily I can afford to see at least one girl a week under the guise of visiting my clients although I have to travel some miles to the nearest large town which is a bit of a pain.

I’m very careful not to get found out and always have a plausible reason to be wherever.  I intend to continue until I physically have to stop.

[tynetunnel]

Blimey TT, your story sounds so familiar, looking forward to more reviews and welcome to the forum. 

Thanks for the welcome 

[JonasG]

Bottom like cos it's really really fcukin fun lol.

[acer123]

I think it's because I like the buzz of fucking women i've never met before and the whole premeditated thing. Plus it's an opportunity to do things you might not do so often with a civvy.

 

[uncle jessie]

I actually can’t believe I’ve wasted so many years of my life not punting. New to punting this year, I’ve been intimate with more women in six months than in the rest of my life! I’m in my 50’s.

Like many other members, I get none at home, I haven’t done so for a very long time. I’d leave if I didn’t have kids (and plan to when they’re all grown up) and finally decided to dip a toe earlier this year. I’d always felt  that paying for it was a murky world of street corners and rough old hags, with dirty teeth and dirtier knickers, and then I read about escorting. What an education I have had!

I used to work with a fella, we’d eye up the pretty young girls, half our age and out of our league, and we’d remark that ‘somebody, somewhere, gets to enjoy that - the lucky bastard!’

Now that somebody, for a modest fee, is me! No dating, no dinners, no flowers, no promises, no begging and no bullshit. Just hand over a few punting tokens, to the girl of my choosing, and lose myself in a warm, passionate young woman. I love a quality GFE 

As I become a more experienced punter, I find I’m enjoying it more than ever. The terrible nerves of my first few punts have passed. I vividly remember when a beautiful 20’s blonde I’d booked waltzed into my hotel room looking as fit as, put her bag down, gave me a hug and a kiss, and then she immediately started removing her jeans and top. Shocked didn’t begin to describe how I felt! Now  I know what to expect, and wouldn’t bat an eyelid.

I  think that moment says why for me why punting is so great. I didn’t have to chat her up, or impress her. I’d paid, and she knew why she was there, and just got on with it.

I’m very glad I became a punter. I’ve had some amazing experiences with some stunning girls that I’d never have had outside of punting. I have no guilt, just regret that I took so long to discover this world of ours. I aim to continue until I die.

And remember, nobody EVER on their deathbed says - “I think I had too much sex” ! 

A great sum up of punting in general,I'm lucky enough to be single and it makes me feel even luckier that every male friend I have that is married is unhappy  with their situation and I'm 99.9% sure a couple of them punt by some of there comments .
 

[Del01]

I am happily married with regular bedroom action but like to taste a new fanny every now and again. I started punting in germany years back and upon coming to UK i though to myself oh shit punting isn't really legal here? Affairs were never my thing so I thought Hmm what do I do now? How wrong I was? Since I discovered AW and this lovely forum I found it even more enjoyable than back in Germany. Cheers guys 

[ged72]

I've been married 17 years and we've been together 21 years, even after that time our sex life is still fairly healthy. Like many couples we have the usual ups and downs but I'm most definitely still in love with my wife and find her attractive.

I enjoy the build up to a punt, but afterwards I do get a sense of guilt which passes after a few days.  I imagine I still do it as I've a high sex drive and enjoy sex with other fit women. I'm guessing this sounds very sounds self-righteous, but I'd never have an affair, but is punting any less of a betrayal?

[django0700]

I've been married 17 years and we've been together 21 years, even after that time our sex life is still fairly healthy. Like many couples we have the usual ups and downs but I'm most definitely still in love with my wife and find her attractive.

I enjoy the build up to a punt, but afterwards I do get a sense of guilt which passes after a few days.  I imagine I still do it as I've a high sex drive and enjoy sex with other fit women. I'm guessing this sounds very sounds self-righteous, but I'd never have an affair, but is punting any less of a betrayal?

Could it be that punting has prevented most of us from having affairs?

[Jonestown]

Could it be that punting has prevented most of us from having affairs?

No it most likely couldn't, if you were going to have an affair you would have one, but that would require a whole different level of commitment. Punting is the easy way out for those that don't want emotional entanglements, problem is, do it long enough and you become unable to cope with the ups and downs of a one on one relationship.

[tantric talents]

Could it be that punting has prevented most of us from having affairs?

Well it did for me. Due to lack of sex with the OH I had an affair that developed and ended before I punted.

Now that I punt, I have no further interest in having any more affairs.

[ars.mav]

Most reasons already mentioned before.

But most importantly for me it is to not be at the mercy of civvies and all the accompanying emotional baggage with it. Physical intimacy is as much important as emotional initimacy. Sadly most women of today fail to understand the importance of both.

Enjoy punting lads and the physical + emotional 'kick' that comes with it.. happy Friday

[WKD123]

If you are doing statistical analysis, then you can put one in the "no sex at home" box.  That's for a physical reason, but I do wonder if the OH has actually gone off sex and uses an excuse. Also, there's little physical warmth left due to the usual concentration on the ups and mostly downs of fighting to stay on top of finances and dealing with kids.

I really should go with the OH to a counsellor and sort it out. However, since I started this lark, I must admit that the thrill of being able to fuck girls that would otherwise be out of reach and do things that I could never do at home are a considerable draw.

I still get punters remorse and miss the fact that I'm not getting any real affection, just an expensive alternative to wanking. But, hey ho, a couple of weeks go by and I'm plotting my next tryst and storing up the cash to pay for it.

Funny old game, isn't it?

[Zidane18]

Everyone has one vice

Girls Gambling Drink or Drugs

Mines now Girls as my work prevents the last two

[winkywanky]

1. To avoid drama and MeToo bullshit that lie in wait whenever you gamble and hit on a civvy woman, thanks to those bullshit 'tests' they still pull, when they can't make up their own minds about whether or not to have sex with you, and wait for you to hit on them to see how you make them feel. Oh, and if you don't, you automatically fail because you're a wimp and boring.

2. To avoid the endless wait civvy women will put me (though, I notice, not the better looking and more exciting men - and yes, I'm quite happy to admit that I'm jealous about it, sue me  ) while they decide if the lack of tingles their vagina is getting from my beige personal presence (just protective camouflage for a weirdo, I assure you; in terms of exciting experiences, I've had quite a varied one) is worth putting up with the fact I may be better boyfriend material than the last three guys they pulled down at the Meat Rack nightclub.

3. Because I'm able to give women facials, fuck them up the arse, bang three in one day etc etc, and do all that with women who know 'how' to do it, and do it with women who won't gossip about it to my social circle, post about what a terrible human being I am on social media, or have them tell me my fantasies are disgusting and they will never do that (and then we stop having sex because their body now feels repulsed by mine).

4. Even the vanilla sex is really great, and you never have to ask for a blowjob, or get told to do X, Y or Z before your needs are attended too. It's not like in a relationship, where you have to work out the cryptic answer or the right bribe before you get given sex. All you have to do is to have a job, which you will need anyway!

5. Where else could I punt any type of woman my wandering imagination takes me? Thanks to punting I've been able to sleep with escorts from teens to their fifties, fat, tall, thin, big and small tits, women with bushes, women who are shaven, women with vag tattoos, black women, Asian women, East Asian women, bi-women, two women at a time etc etc. Seeing new pussy never gets old either, no matter how old you get. Even men who are in their 80s and have no sex drive left can appreciate looking at a beautiful 19 year old posing for them nude.

6. The social interaction isn't always great, but haven't any of you ever had a really interesting conversation with an SP? Some of them are real characters (and no, I don't mean psychos!).

7. So (and this is the most important one for me) I don't look back on my life and wish bitterly that I'd had more sex; which, were I not to pay for it, would almost certainly have been the case. I'm now moving towards middle age, so my best years (teens - 30s) where I'm at my most physically attractive, are almost done. In that time I've had some kind of encounter with 4 civvie women, and one other express an interest we weren't able to seal the deal on. Now, obviously there must have been things I could have done to improve my chances at times, but the overall picture would only marginally have altered. Why, as a single man, should I live a life of sexual deprivation, when I can live a life of sexual depravity instead?

8. Finally, punting has taught me a lot about women than I would have learned from blundering around failing to pull IRL. For example, SPs are still female, with all that implies, despite the fact that they've businesswomen who have seen the world. Aging female bodies don't bother me in the slightest now, I know that has very little to do with the kind of pleasure or even person an SP will be. Likewise, whilst I still enjoy looking at nubile hotties in porn or on the streets, I know there's no correlation between how good someone is in the bedroom and what their looks are like. If anything I'm warier now of good-looking women than I was as a kid, because I know their personalities are more likely to be toxic than an average looking woman's.

Great post. Nail on head for so many guys. Including me 

And just to add a little something, I just came out of a 2-year relationship with a woman 10 years my junior who was frankly, a nymphomaniac. I was able to deal with that (at nearly 60) because of the chops I learnt by being with WGs. For various reasons this sadly fizzled out a little (not the sex, she was still bang up for it) but that kind of brought things to a head (no pun intended).

[Big Bad R]

I've been married 17 years and we've been together 21 years, even after that time our sex life is still fairly healthy. Like many couples we have the usual ups and downs but I'm most definitely still in love with my wife and find her attractive.

I enjoy the build up to a punt, but afterwards I do get a sense of guilt which passes after a few days.  I imagine I still do it as I've a high sex drive and enjoy sex with other fit women. I'm guessing this sounds very sounds self-righteous, but I'd never have an affair, but is punting any less of a betrayal?

Yep, that's me as well. I like variety and even punting get bored with the same WG however good she is 

[wolfiesmith69]

Variety is the spice of life!! Keep punting!!

[Rockhead]

I actually can’t believe I’ve wasted so many years of my life not punting. New to punting this year, I’ve been intimate with more women in six months than in the rest of my life! I’m in my 50’s.

I used to work with a fella, we’d eye up the pretty young girls, half our age and out of our league, and we’d remark that ‘somebody, somewhere, gets to enjoy that - the lucky bastard!’

Now that somebody, for a modest fee, is me!

Great post, and this almost completely echoes my own experience and reasons for doing this. Not quite as old as you, and not married any more, but everything else is the same. Not getting it elsewhere - and if I did it would be with someone I didn't fancy and I doubt I'd even be able to perform in such a situation. Nowadays I can take my pick, for the modest fee you refer to. Half an hour or 45 mins does me fine, so it's really not that expensive.

Haven't been too active recently due to having an 'arrangement' with a female friend I've always fancied. That's another box ticked, albeit a rather more expensive one in the long term. Got a punt arranged with someone new on Monday though - can't wait!

[bigboy]

All started while i was in a relationship and got bored with the sex because it was very vanilla to the point i cheated and the girl i cheated with knew i had a gf at the time and was happy for us to have casual sex to spice things up. Another relationship and this was longer and i did the same but with a married women and she wanted an affair. I nearly got caught and realised seeing civvies with a gf is not a good idea its to much hassle. So started punting trying to make my fantasies become reality with no hassle even though i have had great sex with civvies but just something about turning up seeing a WG knowing its just for sex. I have done the clubbing scene trying pull and its a waste of time and money when nothing may not happen. If i do go out i probably go to a parlour and fuck the shit out of a Romanian or a hot big tit blonde to end my night. 

[Herts_Outcaller]

Everyone has one vice

Girls Gambling Drink or Drugs

Mines now Girls as my work prevents the last two

You mean I'm meant to only do one of those things? Not all four every other weekend?

[maxQ]

Many of the posts on here reflect motivations given in surveys of men who pay for sex-and my own motivations.

But the radical feminists and their collaborators claim that surveys and forums only reveal the answers that are acceptable and that true motivations may be a desire to exert control and dominance over women-a desire few will admit to

Feminists are dishonest about their own motivations, IMO the real reason they dislike male punters, is because the idea of a man having sex with a women for money devalues their own power over men, punters don't want control over hot women, they just want to fuck them 

For example, I was on a stag trip to Prague a few years back, the first night in town we just went out like a normal Friday, so there was plenty of drinking and most of the lads were trying to score with the locals or with other tourists, with varying degrees of success

The second night most of us first went to K5 and had and then went drinking, the lads who went to K5 didn't really try to pull later in the night, they were more than happy with what they got

feminists hate punters because punters aren't pussy beggers, women have power over pussy beggars but not over punters

[ars.mav]

+1

Excellent analysis on double standards of feminist

[Token]

For me, less sex with wife Who doesn't make an effort anymore.
Frankly, if we had sex as before I would not see any SP....

[Cum_again]

For me, I’ve spent with getting on for 500 women in the 20 or so years I’ve been pundits.

White, black, Thai... I’ve done anal, facefucking, pissing, spitting, fisting, owo, rimming, dozens of positions, role plays etc.  I’ve seen short girls, tall girls, big tits, small tits, blonde, brunette and readhead. I’ve ficked like a lover, I’ve fucked like a pornstar, I’ve dominated and abused girls (cosentually), and I’ve been beaten and abused in turn.  I’ve fucked MILFS, 18 year olds, pregnant chavs, girls who went to oxford and girls who couldn’t do anything else.


Should I go on?

[MrMatrix]

Feminists are dishonest about their own motivations, IMO the real reason they dislike male punters, is because the idea of a man having sex with a women for money devalues their own power over men, punters don't want control over hot women, they just want to fuck them 

For example, I was on a stag trip to Prague a few years back, the first night in town we just went out like a normal Friday, so there was plenty of drinking and most of the lads were trying to score with the locals or with other tourists, with varying degrees of success

The second night most of us first went to K5 and had and then went drinking, the lads who went to K5 didn't really try to pull later in the night, they were more than happy with what they got

feminists hate punters because punters aren't pussy beggers, women have power over pussy beggars but not over punters

+2. I think there is a lot in what you say here. They do use sex to control us, punting takes that control away.

[winkywanky]

For me, I’ve spent with getting on for 500 women in the 20 or so years I’ve been pundits.

White, black, Thai... I’ve done anal, facefucking, pissing, spitting, fisting, owo, rimming, dozens of positions, role plays etc.  I’ve seen short girls, tall girls, big tits, small tits, blonde, brunette and readhead. I’ve ficked like a lover, I’ve fucked like a pornstar, I’ve dominated and abused girls (cosentually), and I’ve been beaten and abused in turn.  I’ve fucked MILFS, 18 year olds, pregnant chavs, girls who went to oxford and girls who couldn’t do anything else.


Should I go on?

...when's the book coming out then? 

[lebon121]

feminists hate punters because punters aren't pussy beggers, women have power over pussy beggars but not over punters
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That's true. Because we can fuck any time we want and fuck any pussy we want.. no drama no hassle and  no harassment.

[Autopunter]

feminists hate punters because punters aren't pussy beggers, women have power over pussy beggars but not over punters


That's true. Because we can fuck any time we want and fuck any pussy we want.. no drama no hassle and  no harassment.

Exactly; and I've read a few women who found that their man had been with prossies and how their bodies felt repelled by them, and I just thought 'hypocrites'. Most of the time a woman will jump a man's bones because she wants a relationship with him, but any woman who tells you women don't just have sex sometimes just to fuck is a liar. The idea that women need intimacy to shag is belayed by the industry of prostitution itself (and porn to be fair). Civvy women find prostitution very threatening because it means that they have to offer lust-filled non-transactional sex in its place; the married ones don't like that because it would mean confronting why they no longer want to shag their husbands and the single ones hate it because it removes men's most powerful incentives to date women and put up with their shit. Guys start asking what they get out of a coupling apart from some grudgingly offered holes, and a lot of women aren't used to being judged on standards like personality, mental stability, kindness etc etc, the way that guys are when we are being sized up as acceptable or not. That's why mentioning men shagging prossies frequently turns nice middle-class girls into parody feminists who sound not unlike the mirror of a bitter incel ranting about female nature (if you're actually an incel, and you genuinely can't find any woman ever to have sex with you - and for most of us other guys that is rarer than you think - then shag whores; you're practically the reason why the industry was invented in the first place).

[Flunt]

Exactly; .....

There are times when a "like" button would make like easier. The hours I've spent on POF having my polite inquiries unread or ignored...

Now I see someone similar walking down the street and I just smile at them and walk by, thinking to myself, "I can shag someone younger and more attractive without any of the time wasting hassles, for a few quid and do what I want after, without further time wasting hassles and guilt trips, nagging, moaning...."

[Sonny Crockett]

I do it purely for the love of sex.

[Smifff63]

I started in 2016, I don’t live in UK but was there visiting family and finally got the courage to do it.
Been married for 30yrs, wife was diagnosed  bipolar in 1990 and MS in 93. Wife has been admitted to psychiatric hospitals more times than I can remember each time for a few months at a time and obviously has the usual problems that come with multiple sclerosis.
Last good sex with her was Saturday 14th August 1999 and the last time we had sex was about 15yrs ago. She has said she doesn’t mind if I have sex with someone else as long as she doesn’t know about it.
So September 17th 2016 I found a WG on Adult finder, called her up, explained my situation, I will admit she was so nice and understanding so I booked an hour with her. Strange thing is it was nice but didn’t do much for me which really confused me so I booked another hour for the day after, again it was nice and she was lovely we had a good chat too but it wasn’t amazing.
I went back home and pondered  the experience and decided next time I’m in U.K. I’ll give it another go, so last yr went back to the same establishment but with different girl and she was amazing, saw her a couple more times then went back home.
After a few months I thought I’ve got to see that girl again so went back to UK had a few more hr sessions with her which again was amazing, we had a laugh, got on great and sadly the dreaded EAS kicked in, I got it bad. So I came back to UK 6 months later saw same girl again and again, not sure how many hours but a lot.

She was sad when I told her I was going back home and wouldn’t be able to see her again for about 6 months if at all, she was genuinely sad unless it was fake and then she deserves an Oscar. I told her I’ll miss her a lot as it’s pretty obvious I really liked her. By the time I’d got back to the accommodation I was staying at I received txt from the maid saying the girl is really sad and that she knew I was too and she gave me her own personal number and said I could call her if I ever wanted a chat, then not long after the girl I’d been seeing sent me a txt too with a photo and some kisses and stuff and since then the girl has been messaging me and sending me photos and having little chats, does she has EAS towards me or is this just a ploy to get me to go back?

In reality I’m a lonely 54 yr old who doesn’t love his wife but looks after her out of loyalty, the MS mostly effects her  intellect so it’s impossible to have any kind of conversation with her and she has limited walking abilities.

Sorry for the Mills and Boon chaps.

[tantric talents]

I started in 2016, I don’t live in UK but was there visiting family and finally got the courage to do it.
Been married for 30yrs, wife was diagnosed  bipolar in 1990 and MS in 93. Wife has been admitted to psychiatric hospitals more times than I can remember each time for a few months at a time and obviously has the usual problems that come with multiple sclerosis.
Last good sex with her was Saturday 14th August 1999 and the last time we had sex was about 15yrs ago. She has said she doesn’t mind if I have sex with someone else as long as she doesn’t know about it.
So September 17th 2016 I found a WG on Adult finder, called her up, explained my situation, I will admit she was so nice and understanding so I booked an hour with her. Strange thing is it was nice but didn’t do much for me which really confused me so I booked another hour for the day after, again it was nice and she was lovely we had a good chat too but it wasn’t amazing.
I went back home and pondered  the experience and decided next time I’m in U.K. I’ll give it another go, so last yr went back to the same establishment but with different girl and she was amazing, saw her a couple more times then went back home.
After a few months I thought I’ve got to see that girl again so went back to UK had a few more hr sessions with her which again was amazing, we had a laugh, got on great and sadly the dreaded EAS kicked in, I got it bad. So I came back to UK 6 months later saw same girl again and again, not sure how many hours but a lot.

She was sad when I told her I was going back home and wouldn’t be able to see her again for about 6 months if at all, she was genuinely sad unless it was fake and then she deserves an Oscar. I told her I’ll miss her a lot as it’s pretty obvious I really liked her. By the time I’d got back to the accommodation I was staying at I received txt from the maid saying the girl is really sad and that she knew I was too and she gave me her own personal number and said I could call her if I ever wanted a chat, then not long after the girl I’d been seeing sent me a txt too with a photo and some kisses and stuff and since then the girl has been messaging me and sending me photos and having little chats, does she has EAS towards me or is this just a ploy to get me to go back?

In reality I’m a lonely 54 yr old who doesn’t love his wife but looks after her out of loyalty, the MS mostly effects her  intellect so it’s impossible to have any kind of conversation with her and she has limited walking abilities.

Sorry for the Mills and Boon chaps.

Well I admire your loyalty and it’s a very difficult situation to be in,  but at the end of the day it’s your life and only you can decide what to do.

Having great chemistry with a WG really can bring on the EAS. Taking it further with her is certainly not advised and although it has been known for a punter to successfully make a relationship work, it’s rare.

My advice would be to punt a much greater range of girls and that will help dilute and mitigate the Eas

[Aurelian999]

I don’t drink, or smoke or do drugs, I have a decent paying job and a boring home life. Punting has put a bit of pizzazz back into the old boy, and has expanded my sexual repertoire... and I’m more chilled out than when I was frustrated about getting dull sex at home!

[MrMatrix]

Well I admire your loyalty and it’s a very difficult situation to be in,  but at the end of the day it’s your life and only you can decide what to do.

Having great chemistry with a WG really can bring on the EAS. Taking it further with her is certainly not advised and although it has been known for a punter to successfully make a relationship work, it’s rare.

My advice would be to punt a much greater range of girls and that will help dilute and mitigate the Eas

Well Smifff63 I have to agree with TT here. Your story is quite moving in many ways and thank you for sharing it. TT's advices is sound and that we are easily flattered by a younger lovely looking SP who is pressing all our buttons. It would be a good thing to expand your range of girls  before you fall for EAS. I have made my mistake here and all she was interested in was the money- Being a complete cynic they all are pretty much the same. Its not impossible to meet an escort for it to work out but its unlikely. Most of us punters get on well with all the girls and obviously our regulars. But I'm not daft enough to think they'd want to spend the rest of their lives with me.
Dont get hurt as you are vulnerable and thats what could happen. 

[Smifff63]

Thanks TT and MM, much appreciated.

I am very cautious and not very trusting of people and tbh can’t see why the WG would be interested in me other than I’m a good bloke and very respectful towards her and made her laugh a lot, I used to do magic at my daughters birthday parties many moons ago so I did a bit on the WG, I’d just used a wet wipe on my dick, made it disappear then pulled it out her pussy, that was funny, she’s shared a few family pictures with me, got a selfie together and as I said has been messaging me from Hungary as she’s gone back for a couple of weeks. My common sense is telling me it’s just to be nice and to keep me coming back for more, but I know there’s a very remote possibility she’s genuine.

I think you’re right about seeing other WGs but the problem I have which I’m sure I could overcome is that I’m shy and takes me a while to get comfortable with a woman to be able to really let myself go and really enjoy myself, and as I can only do this when I go to UK which is only once or at most twice a yr is a bit tricky. I don’t see WGs over here, 1 cos it’s close to home, 2 cos it’s illegal to pay for it here although it’s not illegal to be paid for it and also it’s more than double the price than in U.K.

Thanks again gents.

[charlatan44]

Like a fair few people, my punting has come out of lack of any bedroom activity with the wife. Been married for 18 years with kids, and wife struggles to have sex due to problems she has downstairs that I won't get in to. Might be lucky to get it 2-3 times a year with plenty of excuses as to why we cannot. Used to spend many a £££ in strip clubs in Soho then the great epiphany that rather than wasting £150 on a stripper and maybe getting to touch a breast or an arse I might as well fuck a young slim model-type girl. Of course the consequences are greater if you get caught (and you might catch something else). Glad I have just read the 'Intro to Punting' as I was definitely doing a few things wrong but feel a lot more clued up now and it also made me realise to not get emotionally involved cos it will only fcuk you up .

On that note,  I keep seeing the abbreviation EAS, which reading between the lines indicates that you have fallen for a WG and emotionally involved but cannot find out what the Letters actually mean so if anyone could post that, would be appreciated

[NigelF]

On that note,  I keep seeing the abbreviation EAS, which reading between the lines indicates that you have fallen for a WG and emotionally involved but cannot find out what the Letters actually mean so if anyone could post that, would be appreciated

Yes, your definition is right. EAS stands for Emotional Attachment Syndrome.

See here for a glossary of other "punting" terms and acronyms: External Link/Members Only

[iCruise]

I usually punt the unrealistic kind, the ones I can't find in the real world per se. Whether that's a fake girl with overly fake tits, face etc or a girl with an extra leg in her panties. I'm all for it, though I usually go for the latter.

Qs for anyone that's reading this, how many people know your 'hobby'? For me it's one.

[TheMuffman1985]

this is a very intersting thread so i just as well throw my 2p in

i'm early thirties. reasonably good looking and can chat most girls up and reasonably hung. problem is i'm married. i have been offered plenty of 1 night stands and NSA from various woman since i've been in this marriage/relationship with a woman i have been with nearly all my adult life! i'm not unhappily married at all. shes great. she sexy, dirty and loves a hardcore sniff and sex night! we have great laughs and fun together. i could easily go with these other woman offering themselves to me. problem is if i see them in the street/pub/club etc. bunny boilers are a pain. a lot of woman get attached after having dick a few times which can lead to affairs. i cant be assed with that. and i certainly dont want to get divorced!! i mainly come around to punting as a release. i just randomly googled it one day and saw an array of hot woman that i can pay for sex and have no contact with after. i also saw duo's. always wanted a duo!! like always!! been offered them when I was with my EX. turned them down. been offered them since ive been with my wife. turned them down because of the niggly feeling in my head that i might bump into them again when im with the wife. even though my first punt was a duo and was pretty shit in all honesty i still came back for me ive had quite a few duos and a lot of WG's on there own. most of them have been amazing. the fantasy is real and the girls can be anything you want them to be. im always checking AW for new girls and have spent a fortune doing it. i may slow down as its becoming a bit of an obsession now. but we'll see.......

any way happy punting!!

[theoldmaggot]

Only have one life so might as well make best use of it..

I just love the adventure of punting 

[lenirie68]

For me, I’ve spent with getting on for 500 women in the 20 or so years I’ve been pundits.

White, black, Thai... I’ve done anal, facefucking, pissing, spitting, fisting, owo, rimming, dozens of positions, role plays etc.  I’ve seen short girls, tall girls, big tits, small tits, blonde, brunette and readhead. I’ve ficked like a lover, I’ve fucked like a pornstar, I’ve dominated and abused girls (cosentually), and I’ve been beaten and abused in turn.  I’ve fucked MILFS, 18 year olds, pregnant chavs, girls who went to oxford and girls who couldn’t do anything else.


Should I go on?

my hero

[Marcusnash187]

I punt because i can, no other reason than that. 

[Innocente]

exactly as above, I punt because because it's good and I don't want to have regrets.

[one eyed panda]

Before marriage I was lucky enough to have had a varied sex life, just lucky with girlfriends I think.

So when I got married I already knew that  I wasnt getting a pornstar, but something perfectly adequate, providing that it continued. However after sprog No 2 the sex declined almost to zero and after tolerating it for some time I realsied that something had to give, and as my wandering worklife made for many opportunities, I started punting. Saved the marriage for sure, as by that point was an ED suffering mess.

So I punted for my general and sexual and mental health and wellbeing which enabled me to remain in the marriage and bring up the kids in a regular family unit.

The service that you get from a wg was a bonus as anything was better than nothing when I started.

My more than 20 year career as a punter is almost over as I no longer have a prostate but what fun I have had, met a load of great people and had some great sex encounters once I got over the ED.

I feel quite sorry for the guys that get their first experience of oral sex for example from a wg. Women in the UK seem to me to be either useless or excellent on the sex front, there arent many in the middle. Much better in most parts of Europe or the US in my experience.

[welshman]

There is a simple reason why I punt and that it provides access to sex when it would not be available otherwise.  I am single and without punting I would not be available to me. In a previous post I used the term sexual fantasy island to describe punting which is a crucial reason why I enjoy punting because I can do things I would never be able to do outside punting. For instance,  I can have sex with gorgeous women who are out of my league otherwise.  I have had duos on several occasions.  I can have sex with women of all ages and in no strings paid sex you don't get the complications of an age gap relationship. You can live out fantasies that would be impossible outside punting.

[bbwandy72]

Because I can and I enjoy it. That's the only reason I need.

[Titti Tatti]

Take your OH for a nice evening out at the cinema.  Go see Widows and watch her as one of the characters explains he punts because he misses the intimacy and the smell of a woman....