The Ex Girlfriend New Southgate

[Saneman]

Here goes for my first review.
The Ex Girlfriend - New Southgate
As a fan of skinny girls, after a quick search on adultwork, and reading about Dilem on the forum I sent her a text at 1 pm to see if she was available. Got a reply asking to call her back to confirm. 
She asked a few questions like age (no under 30's) and a few other things. Everything seemed fine and we agreed on a 4.30 meet. She had somebody till 4 but wanted to shower and prepare herself for our meeting.

However, she said she would only text me at 4 with the address and as she was in New Southgate, I should head for that area roughly at 4.

Normally other girls give out postcodes and when you arrive on their road they give the door number, so I thought nothing of it and headed down to New Southgate.

4.10 no text from her. So I texted her - Hi Dilem, hope you haven't forgotten me, can I have the address please.

No reply.

4.20 Getting a bit worried now, sent text - Hi Dilem, if there are any problems and you need to cancel please just let me know because its not much fun sitting in a cold car waiting.

No reply.

Maybe she didn't hear the text, maybe she is in the shower.
I called, no answer. Left a voicemail again asking her to please let me know if she needed to cancel.

4.30 Now this is getting annoying. As I waited I checked her page again on my phone, still showing as available.
Then looking through her reviews, mostly all positives, she has a few guys write that they had confirmation by email and/or on the phone, but had been asked to drive down to her without knowing the address and then got ignored.

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Only ruintome (26) 20/11/2013 16:49 Seeking Services
  Never gave me address so just looked a fool driving to a unknown destination and never would not answer the phone 


Hmmmm. Kinda sounds exactly the same as me.

4.40 One last try calling. Guess what. No anwser. Started off back home.
Did a little copy and paste of 2 bad adultwork reviews and sent them to her saying... Obviously I am not the only person you have done this to, thanks for wasting my time.

At 7.30 got a text from her saying ??
An apology would have been nice.... at least lie about why you ignored me... she couldn't be bothered to even do that....
I have no idea what her problem was. If her previous customer decided to stay on..... will never know.
OK the drive down to her was only 30 minutes, but being ignored isn't very enjoyable.
Wasted 2 hours of my time.
A pity, as she had many good reviews. Gutted.

Driving back to Tottenham decided on plan B, X Cristal Sweet X.

Review to follow...

[Saneman]

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[Bartolomeo]

She is a waste...disorganised and a nutjob (not in the good way). She needs to sort herself out.

[iPad3]

I saw her in harrow, 4 months ago, she mucked me about a bit as she'd booked me back to back with her previous punter. Ended up waiting half an hour while she showered etc. I was happy to wait as she was well turned out once I got in but there was also an issue with entering the building and I ended up stood in the doorstep for a few minutes.

Once things got going she was excellent and I'd been thinking about seeing her again but the above will certainly make me think twice before booking...... Thanks for the heads up guys

[dami3n]

Here goes for my first review.
The Ex Girlfriend - New Southgate
As a fan of skinny girls, after a quick search on adultwork, and reading about Dilem on the forum I sent her a text at 1 pm to see if she was available. Got a reply asking to call her back to confirm. 
She asked a few questions like age (no under 30's) and a few other things. Everything seemed fine and we agreed on a 4.30 meet. She had somebody till 4 but wanted to shower and prepare herself for our meeting.

...

4.10 no text from her. So I texted her - Hi Dilem, hope you haven't forgotten me, can I have the address please.

No reply.

4.20 Getting a bit worried now, sent text - Hi Dilem, if there are any problems and you need to cancel please just let me know because its not much fun sitting in a cold car waiting.

No reply.

Maybe she didn't hear the text, maybe she is in the shower.
I called, no answer. Left a voicemail again asking her to please let me know if she needed to cancel.

4.30 Now this is getting annoying. As I waited I checked her page again on my phone, still showing as available.
Then looking through her reviews, mostly all positives, she has a few guys write that they had confirmation by email and/or on the phone, but had been asked to drive down to her without knowing the address and then got ignored.

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Only ruintome (26) 20/11/2013 16:49 Seeking Services
  Never gave me address so just looked a fool driving to a unknown destination and never would not answer the phone 


Hmmmm. Kinda sounds exactly the same as me.

4.40 One last try calling. Guess what. No anwser. Started off back home.
Did a little copy and paste of 2 bad adultwork reviews and sent them to her saying... Obviously I am not the only person you have done this to, thanks for wasting my time.

At 7.30 got a text from her saying ??
An apology would have been nice.... at least lie about why you ignored me... she couldn't be bothered to even do that....
I have no idea what her problem was. If her previous customer decided to stay on..... will never know.
OK the drive down to her was only 30 minutes, but being ignored isn't very enjoyable.
Wasted 2 hours of my time.
A pity, as she had many good reviews. Gutted.

I had a very very similar experience to yours some months ago, liked the look of her and the forum buzz was all positive.

called her and comms was great her tone and phone manner were encouraging, asked if she had any racial exceptions and she teasingly suggested she would love to meet me even more - cute

asked her if she required a booking she said no - but i put one in anyway, my theory is seeing my feedback would be reassuring  i would keep the booking also just in case the race thing made her wary  ...and such so agreed a time 2 days in advance and did the AW booking accordingly, I also texted her the next day about some logistics and a day before the punt I got an AW picture request type thingie which was new to me, ignored it

i can't recall exact location as she's moved a lot since but it was a major drive so i reckon essex to somewhere around harrow - mid nowhere in any case, texted her 45mins earlier, 'on my way to yours Dilem' ...or such. arrived her area about 15 minutes early so parked where the GPS took me and texted 'i'm in your postcode, house number when you are ready for me' ..it had been a few texts unanswered so figured Id just call to make sure - nothing so left voicemail repeating the text and waited ...when booking time approached I called again and no answer, texted to say I had an appointment and a long drive ahead so couldn't hang about indefinitely, - it was freaking cold as well and it started raining so miserable as fuck sitting in the car

I attempted to find a plan B local but no joy so 20 minutes past booking called again and left a message saying no more than "had a long drive here, shame you've left me hanging like this ...if i dont' hear from you in the next 10 I'm off" a few minutes later she calls me and she was raging - couldn't get a word in ??? "do I know you? why are you harrassing me??? do you think you can force me to see you???" WTF?! I promise you I'm super hippie laid back even when I'm angry so forcing/harassing anyone is pretty much impossible - I calmly told her I've only tried to reach her over a booking we'd agreed on and in no way harassed her, never used aggressive or rude lingo in my comms despite my frustration

majorly worked up I just told her like it was though she was yelling over me the whole time - told her to check her AW booking and her text messages she denied ever agreeing to a booking

gave up and ended it but not without reminding her I was only here because we agreed this time and date and I'm the one in the cold/rain miles from home not her!

put me off punting outside my local geography cos I've been stood up before but the long drive back just added insult.

bizzarely a few days later she emails me over AW saying she would like to confirm our booking so we can leave each other some "lovely feedback" I was hoping she would so I would leave a negative so I said "sure go for it" ...she never did - stupid lucid interval

[intana]

she is a nutjob and a paranoid! i let you guys think by yourselves why she moves around a lot..

my experience is similiar... accepted my text booking.. left me hanging.. and then told me she didnt agree to my booking as she only takes aw booking? WTF .. forwarded her the text message saying she agreed to my booking and of all of a sudden says she dont see men who talk like girls? WTF??

serious issues with this lady .. skinny girl type that i like but i dont think i wanna die knowing i shagged a mentally disturbed women..

[rockharders]

Shes been on my hotlist for a while and the AW FB seems good. Helpful review, will avoid her now.

[Zeusthedoc]

Shes been on my hotlist for a while and the AW FB seems good. Helpful review, will avoid her now.

+1

[Tim20]

Been on my HL for a bit so glad I read this. ! I had sent her 2 messages before which we're read but never replied to so looking forward to deleting this crazy one !

[password02]

+1 - same issues my end about 2 months ago - agreed to a booking on the phone and asked me to do a AW booking - after doing the AW booking to confirm time and date - she sent me a text saying sorry I have bad negative FB so she will not see me?

I asked several AW girls I know to check my AW fb and profile and all 5 girls confirmed my FB and profile was 100% positive and not even 1 negative or any bad reviews against me.

Agree with the other UKP members - total nut case - My assumptions are that she likes to have a smoke during the day and this may cloud her memory!! No proof my end BUT just  think she is not at a good place

[Mr Farkyhars]

If I saw someone bill themselves on AW as 'The Ex Girlfriend' then without furhter information I'd expect to find a mentalist - like she was going to give you an EGFE, or something..

But comiserations on a lousy experience! Will avoid like plague!!

[dilem]

Fair enough guys. well I'm a nutcase or whatever you say..and I would say I'm dumped by you some European and English nutter who don't spend a few seconds to read my profile before contacting me what I do expect or not.   

[intana]

If I saw someone bill themselves on AW as 'The Ex Girlfriend' then without furhter information I'd expect to find a mentalist - like she was going to give you an EGFE, or something..

But comiserations on a lousy experience! Will avoid like plague!!

LOL yeah the  ex gf usually are nuts.. makes you wait for her and are erratic... describes dilem perfectly..

and the tattoos are horrible

[password02]

Hi dilem - and welcome to UKP -

Would really help us guys if you can explain your booking process as it seems that it is not very clear on your AW profile.

[James999]

Hi dilem - and welcome to UKP -

Would really help us guys if you can explain your booking process as it seems that it is not very clear on your AW profile.

Before that perhaps explain what this post means 

Fair enough guys. well I'm a nutcase or whatever you say..and I would say I'm dumped by you some European and English nutter who don't spend a few seconds to read my profile before contacting me what I do expect or not.

[password02]

+1

Yes would also be very helpful in letting us members know at UKP what you are trying to say in your post?

[Saneman]

Hello Dilem.
It might have been easier for you to reply to all of us at the times of our bookings than to join this forum. But better late than never..... merry christmas

[punk]

Dont think she is going to reply back, statement i think as far as she is concerned say's it all.

[Bartolomeo]

When I had a booking with her when she was in Harrow, it was actually pretty good, apart from the timekeeping (had to wait 20 minutes). Towards end of my hour it was all great, I said I better go as I knew she had another booking after me, but she said not to worry and I can stay longer if I wanted. Then she also told me that she i'm nice and she will give me extra free hour next time, I laughed this off, but she insisted she was serious and never jokes about things like that.

All sounds pretty great right?

I then try to get booking 2 weeks later, she had told me when i saw her that she was going to change her phone number again, so a new number was up. I texted on both old and new number, as well as email, no replies at all. Reason I did that, was that she could see my name and know who I was. I then call up and she has no recollection of who I am, and to make matters worse she gets me mixed up with someone else. I try to make her remember who I am, but not happening.

Apparently has the memory of a fish, maybe a liar, and seems to be paranoid that everyone is out to mess her around.

[punk]

does she smoke the wacky backie stuff at all 

[intana]

All sounds pretty great right?

I then try to get booking 2 weeks later, she had told me when i saw her that she was going to change her phone number again, so a new number was up. I texted on both old and new number, as well as email, no replies at all. Reason I did that, was that she could see my name and know who I was. I then call up and she has no recollection of who I am, and to make matters worse she gets me mixed up with someone else. I try to make her remember who I am, but not happening.

Apparently has the memory of a fish, maybe a liar, and seems to be paranoid that everyone is out to mess her around.

no idea but i can totally relate to your second part of your review. one second she says yes we can meet then the next meeting she was what i didnt accept any bookings from you and acts as if she didnt know about it and i could relate to another poster here where she raised her voice as the punter was the one that made a mistake. I also agree with the paranoid part where she didnt want to give her address even though you have reached there.

in all honesty i thought i was the only punter she did that as she had so many glowing feedback but i guess not so good. anywayz i would be surprise if she is on something or have some problems. i would avoid since they are better options nowdays.

[dilem]

When I had a booking with her when she was in Harrow, it was actually pretty good, apart from the timekeeping (had to wait 20 minutes). Towards end of my hour it was all great, I said I better go as I knew she had another booking after me, but she said not to worry and I can stay longer if I wanted. Then she also told me that she i'm nice and she will give me extra free hour next time, I laughed this off, but she insisted she was serious and never jokes about things like that.

All sounds pretty great right?

I then try to get booking 2 weeks later, she had told me when i saw her that she was going to change her phone number again, so a new number was up. I texted on both old and new number, as well as email, no replies at all. Reason I did that, was that she could see my name and know who I was. I then call up and she has no recollection of who I am, and to make matters worse she gets me mixed up with someone else. I try to make her remember who I am, but not happening.

Apparently has the memory of a fish, maybe a liar, and seems to be paranoid that everyone is out to mess her around.

I may offer a little discount on next visit if I have had a good time with someone although I never offer discount in first time but  never for an hour free service this is blatantly false Mr. Traflgar, probably your memory is RAM.

[Zeusthedoc]

I may offer a little discount on next visit if I have had a good time with someone although I never offer discount in first time but  never for an hour free service this is blatantly false Mr. Traflgar, probably your memory is RAM.

nice chuckled there...
a geek/computer joke from a WG....and a EE one at that! props Dilem....
although I will probably still be avoiding!

[Rick2468a]

That is a good unexpected joke! :-D That made my day. Could be a Daft Punk reference though which is less geeky.

[trans1]

Is this her?

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Is she still as unreliable?

[smiths]

Is this her?

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Is she still as unreliable?

Yes that's her profile, there are 3 reviews linked into this thread from that profile, 2 positives including mine and 1 neutral. I haven't found her unreliable but she has a reputation for being so.

[UberX]

I hope dilem's performance has improved now she is more reliable. 

[johnnyboy61]

Yes it is her, and yes she is still unreliable. If you read my review (which was positive) you will see that the sex was very intense, but nearly walked as when i texted her on arrival she replied asking for ten more minutes and then stopped responding to my texts. Nearly walked until she replied to a call half an hour after the punt should have start; she had apparently fallen asleep.

Similar story on one of the other occasions when I saw her when she was in North Wembley. Also can't understand why she has such a high basic one hour rate, but has had a special offer on for the last two months. Perhaps she thinks of herself as the DFS of escorts with permanent special offers to attract custom, however, if punters filter by price she won't show up on the search. She was described on here recently as "mad as a box of frogs"!

[diomhair72]

Is this her?

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Is she still as unreliable?

As there is a tab on that profile with title 'the lost ex girlfriend's and it lists all the previous feedback I would say that it's the same person, never met her so don't know about reliability but looking at that are I'm tempted

[lewishamguy]

As there is a tab on that profile with title 'the lost ex girlfriend's and it lists all the previous feedback I would say that it's the same person, never met her so don't know about reliability but looking at that are I'm tempted

He asked the question in 2015!   have you been here before?

[mrpunterton]

As there is a tab on that profile with title 'the lost ex girlfriend's and it lists all the previous feedback I would say that it's the same person, never met her so don't know about reliability but looking at that are I'm tempted

I would n't bother. I've seen here twice, the first time was a few years back and was great but the last time being about a year or so ago and it was terrible.  She had become even more skinny and her bed was literally a mattress on the floor, it was like being with a drug addict.  No kissing, no OWO and she had the music on loud because of neighbours.  I gave her £70 and left after 30 mins (was booked for one hour) after a very mechanical covered blowjob and she was so skinny I just could not get it up once she took her clothes off.

Funny thing was she actually had her head head together this time round, unfortunately it turns out that she's not a very nice person when sane.  Also she is extremely paranoid about who she meets, I think she had a stalker, ex-bf or something anyhow thinking about it now wish I had written a review at the time.

[ralzee]

I've seen her about 3 times.. Was always a great time when I saw her. She did mess me around a bit and was hard in communication to book, but fortunately I never had to travel far to meet her. So when she messed me around it wasn't a disaster. 

Has she gone now? I don't see anything coming up for that profile

[bash_eer]

Saw her profile pop up in search last week and she was available.

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[65percent]

I've seen her about 3 times.. Was always a great time when I saw her. She did mess me around a bit and was hard in communication to book, but fortunately I never had to travel far to meet her. So when she messed me around it wasn't a disaster. 

Has she gone now? I don't see anything coming up for that profile

She’s still there. Goes by Exquisite_Dilem now.

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Saw her a few years back in Walthamstow and had a similar experience of being left hanging for about half an hour, aimlessly wandering the rough postcode. She finally messaged with the address though, and the punt was pretty good. It was like fucking a nutty-as-fruitcake-but-hot vampire.

Hadn’t stumbled upon UKP at that time though, hence no review. I doubt there’s any cure for her kind of nuts. Seems she’s only going to fall ever further down her Rabbit Hole, and will make the Mad Hatter look sane when she gets to his tea party. Fkn nutty hot bitch.

[king tarzan]

Been around for a long time on and off.

[65percent]

Saw her profile pop up in search last week and she was available.

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Woulda beat you to it if I hadn’t been typing for 4 mins lol