Post meeting contact

[Steve McQueen]

I was perusing AW recently and came across Lucylou05 from Bolton. Standard profile but she states
‘Willing to provide messaging and pictures on WhatsApp after meets’ Fair enough but not for me. This led me to consider what contact if any you should have with a girl after a meeting. I personally destroy all trails as the risks outweigh the advantages. What do others do, i understand if you have a regular girl but what is best practice.?

[Access]

I got quite close to a girl as we kept messaging. She doesnt work anymore but we do occasionally fuck, no money changes hands. If you “click” with the girl and are single, it can be fun. If you’re in a relationship, I wouldn’t even consider having any trace.

The problem I have with WhatsApp is once you’ve get each other’s details, that’s it. It’s not a discreet messaging service unless you’ve a punting phone.

[HKS15]

Depends on your personal circumstances I guess. If you're married or in a relationship, fuck no, but if you have nothing to lose in that area, I wouldn't see the issue as long as you don't reveal too much about yourself which could be used against you in future.

[Gordon Bennett]

One lady I visit every several months sends me saucy pics/vids on WhatsApp every week. I say "me" but they're obviously a mail shot to previous customers who are happy to receive them,  they're not personalised to me. I'm happy to get them.... my phone is double locked down with passwords and WhatsApp notifications are disabled so unless Mrs breaks the locking and delves into phone I feel quite safe.
Even then, I deliberately keep a smattering of smut and porn on my phone, follow a few pornstars and hotties on Insta and stuff like that. My logic is that my phone looks like it belongs to a sad dirty old man and I can explain away any messages as unsolicited spam deriving from my seedy pervy online antics.

[threechilliman]

No contact between meets for me. CBA.

[Carpy]

Occasionally I may send a thanks for the meet if it’s been a rip roaring fuck. But tbh that’s got a lot less the more I have punted.

I have a regular who is the only wg I use WhatsApp for, she send me pictures every so often but is more to get me to go back rather than anything else. We both have a clear understanding it business even if we are closer then of her customers.

Also have been contacted of a few who’s afterwards to request feedback or leave it for me in AW etc

[hungrypunt]

not me, ive had the odd thanks hun 
but I dont do any of that crap, and Im not even married.
Fuck em, pay em, wait till next time.

[parker]

This led me to consider what contact if any you should have with a girl after a meeting.

you have answered your question with this..................

I personally destroy all trails as the risks outweigh the advantages.

[frankc]

Not for me , I delete all traces from my punting phone after every meet.....I like to sleep at night

[Normalbloke]

Try to keep the punting phone clean from any evidence.
Clear out of texts and internet history to keep it safe.

[scutty brown]

I find a lot of thai girls want your contact details as they see you as a potential escape route from their current lives.
The ones who've survived one failed marriage to a white guy are often looking for a second.....
I usually give them the number of a spare phone then change the SIM card after a day or so

[Liverpool Discerning]

Being single, I make it clear I am happy to get comms by phone. I have regular text and WhatsApp contact with my regulars, but I leave it to them to initiate. Some are more than happy but I do not text unsolicited.

One of my regulars texts every day and once, when I went to a meeting and had no service for 6 hours, eventually got hold of her only to find she was on her way over to my house to check I was OK. Before anyone things that would be indiscreet, she often pops in for a coffee when in the area.

[Richthescouser]

Being single, I make it clear I am happy to get comms by phone. I have regular text and WhatsApp contact with my regulars, but I leave it to them to initiate. Some are more than happy but I do not text unsolicited.

One of my regulars texts every day and once, when I went to a meeting and had no service for 6 hours, eventually got hold of her only to find she was on her way over to my house to check I was OK. Before anyone things that would be indiscreet, she often pops in for a coffee when in the area.

While I’m sure you’ll get some stick for that, I also really enjoy having a good connection with the girls I meet. Having fun, a good chat and rampant sex and then carrying in chatting occasionally by text. It doesn’t blur the lines for me, it’s still very clearly a business transaction, but the kind of girl who does this tends to make for a better meet (for me anyway).