Craigslist, London area

[Mr Sinister]

Interesting, I do well on CL. Which dating apps?

The usual POF, tinder, bumble. Had my fair share of one offs and no strings this year.

[sparkus]

The usual POF, tinder, bumble. Had my fair share of one offs and no strings this year.

So have I, when single.  OH has a load of single friends around our age in East London who'd sure as fuck spot me on there (my sister's mates messaged me on POF years ago with the LOLs, so it's not hard to imagine this)

WTF is bumble?

Back to topic, there's quite a few ads up which leave little to the imagination, not taken down? I really hope that guy meets his Blowjob Queen, he's certainly made the effort.

Gumtree Community had some corkers back in the day, including a tiny oriental self-declared "size queen" who said any blokes fancying a shag needed to be well-equipped for the job.  A whole host of Latina suggestions of mutual lingo exchange I am kicking myself at not following up (me and then GF used to read in bed and piss ourselves laughing at them, plus EEs in "Baker Arm" discussing their "bubs")

[diddy]

So have I, when single.  OH has a load of single friends around our age in East London who'd sure as fuck spot me on there (my sister's mates messaged me on POF years ago with the LOLs, so it's not hard to imagine this)

WTF is bumble?

Back to topic, there's quite a few ads up which leave little to the imagination, not taken down? I really hope that guy meets his Blowjob Queen, he's certainly made the effort.

Gumtree Community had some corkers back in the day, including a tiny oriental self-declared "size queen" who said any blokes fancying a shag needed to be well-equipped for the job.  A whole host of Latina suggestions of mutual lingo exchange I am kicking myself at not following up (me and then GF used to read in bed and piss ourselves laughing at them, plus EEs in "Baker Arm" discussing their "bubs")

Bumble is a tinder clone that has the USP of only allowing women to make the first approach..it works quite well because it seems to have a lot of 'hook ups' types that are clearly that, and if you swipe right and then they contact you with their message, its more likely to lead to a proper conversation and hence a hook up..

Im getting really pissed off with CL. Ive read and reread their T&C's, and Im posting, or trying to, an ad that puts me forward as a willing filmer for couples..every time I reword it it gets flagged up within an hour or two of submission. All i mention is filming and no fees, no explicit terms, nothing..yet as stated above the guys asking to 'suck an uncut 8" cock' stay up unhindered...baffles me...

[Aj280]

Yes there is a complete mix of ads:
1 scammers wanting advance deposits with pics of beautiful babes who all claim to do bareback!
2 there was a guy and his heroin addicted slut advertising in Sunbury who robbed several guys and some at knifepoint
3 lots of escorts interested in cash but not so interested in sex! Many agreesively commercial and they fuck lots of guys like the AW escorts.
4 lots of students wanting funding. In general these love the sexual experience too, are not agressively commercial and don’t fuck dozens of guys. I’ve had two meet with no cash payment!
With practice you can tell the good ones. I only meet students or similar and by sticking to this have had 95% great experiences.
I don’t give pics or numbers until I receive pics/number from the girl first.

Stunning Craigslist girls offering free meets? You must be good looking or charismatic,

[LLPunting]

Bumble is a tinder clone that has the USP of only allowing women to make the first approach..it works quite well because it seems to have a lot of 'hook ups' types that are clearly that, and if you swipe right and then they contact you with their message, its more likely to lead to a proper conversation and hence a hook up..

Im getting really pissed off with CL. Ive read and reread their T&C's, and Im posting, or trying to, an ad that puts me forward as a willing filmer for couples..every time I reword it it gets flagged up within an hour or two of submission. All i mention is filming and no fees, no explicit terms, nothing..yet as stated above the guys asking to 'suck an uncut 8" cock' stay up unhindered...baffles me...

Because anything that could lead to the exploitation of women under duress is flagged.  They don't give a shit about male sex slaves/victims.

[Nevillec]

I think I just stepped in something on the sidewalk

[Thebanker999]

Stunning Craigslist girls offering free meets? You must be good looking or charismatic,

I’m an older guy in my fifties, not ugly but no George Clooney. Possibly charismatic and wealthy which explains why I’ve managed to retain an 18 year old nympho currently although she doesn’t charge! She’s adventurous with plans to work through the entire songbook!
But agree with other postings any of my attempts to post on CL get immediately flagged.

[Nevillec]

I’m an older guy in my fifties, not ugly but no George Clooney. Possibly charismatic and wealthy which explains why I’ve managed to retain an 18 year old nympho currently although she doesn’t charge! She’s adventurous with plans to work through the entire songbook!
But agree with other postings any of my attempts to post on CL get immediately flagged.

Consider yourself lucky OP....

[Steve2]

Love the inginuity here

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Free cup of tea and creampie today for discerning ladies (North London)



Today I am giving away a free cup of tea and nice sticky creampie for married women.

For one woman only, will this be your lucky day?

Very clean establishment, you may well wish to come back for more.

Only genuine women apply please.

[Nevillec]

Love the inginuity here

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Free cup of tea and creampie today for discerning ladies (North London)



Today I am giving away a free cup of tea and nice sticky creampie for married women.


Lol!!

For one woman only, will this be your lucky day?

Very clean establishment, you may well wish to come back for more.

Only genuine women apply please.

[Callisto]

One thing which has happened to me twice now via CL is a girl agreeing to come round - agreeing fee, time, service, etc - and then going quiet at the 11th hour.  That in itself isn't totally strange or inexplicable - cold feet explains a lot; it must be nerve-wracking visiting a strange man. 

But what is strange is the sense / hunch I have of being deliberately tricked.  I'm very nice and say "no problem if you changed your mind, just let me know," but I hear nothing.  And their effort, previously, in arranging has been painstaking, and their sincerity seemingly absolute.  So it seems an altogether odd switch from that to ghosting me.

The probability is still on cold feet, as I can't possibly figure what they'd gain, but I just wondered, out of curiosity, if any other CL users had suffered similar scenarios?

Yours abandonedly,
Callisto.

[stampjones]

One thing which has happened to me twice now via CL is a girl agreeing to come round - agreeing fee, time, service, etc - and then going quiet at the 11th hour.  That in itself isn't totally strange or inexplicable - cold feet explains a lot; it must be nerve-wracking visiting a strange man. 

But what is strange is the sense / hunch I have of being deliberately tricked.  I'm very nice and say "no problem if you changed your mind, just let me know," but I hear nothing.  And their effort, previously, in arranging has been painstaking, and their sincerity seemingly absolute.  So it seems an altogether odd switch from that to ghosting me.

The probability is still on cold feet, as I can't possibly figure what they'd gain, but I just wondered, out of curiosity, if any other CL users had suffered similar scenarios?

Yours abandonedly,
Callisto.

Not had that as it happens but I think its probably to do with the fact that they are not professional. A. Lot of times it is their first time. Its like I mentioned before even when they do come through, often their heads arent in the right place and they are almost lying thre stiff saying ok get it over with. I think its probably a different aspect of that - they dont fully comprehend what they’re agreeing to until the moment - whichever it is - arrives. My 2c anyway.

Anyway just found one of my personal unicorns and arranged to see her at the weekend so really hope none of that shit happens!

Anyway, better luck next time mate - its always a long slog on there at the end of the day

[LLPunting]

One thing which has happened to me twice now via CL is a girl agreeing to come round - agreeing fee, time, service, etc - and then going quiet at the 11th hour.  That in itself isn't totally strange or inexplicable - cold feet explains a lot; it must be nerve-wracking visiting a strange man. 
...

I've had that too.

Also had some girl text me saying she'd arrived early but I didn't see the message until I was due to leave for arranged pick up time, so when I replied saying I was on my way she replied that she'd already left.  I asked her to come back but she wasn't prepared to despite only being a few mins away. 
I was suspecting some sociopath just wasting time by faking appointments.  Or a not allowed nutjob abandoned by OH for a CL tryst and taking revenge on other  CL users

[stampjones]

Just a warning for anyone on there. Contacted a girl on there who was supposedly looking for hookups and got into a very weird conversation which makes me think it might have been some kind of feminist/not allowed outing excercise so everyone be careful. Happy to share details with people I know over PM but otherwise just dont let your dick lead you into giving away info you shouldnt

[stampjones]

Just a warning for anyone on there. Contacted a girl on there who was supposedly looking for hookups and got into a very weird conversation which makes me think it might have been some kind of feminist/not allowed outing excercise so everyone be careful. Happy to share details with people I know over PM but otherwise just dont let your dick lead you into giving away info you shouldnt

Should say probably only an issue for those with wives/partners (if anything at all)

[niceguyjames]

I swear mumanet is a dangerous place you should see some of the comments and advice the posters give rach other

[resistantpolaroid]

Should say probably only an issue for those with wives/partners (if anything at all)

I don't have wives/partners but I would still be uncomfortable with my colleagues knowing how I like to spend my free time.

Thanks for the warning

[sparkus]

Just a warning for anyone on there. Contacted a girl on there who was supposedly looking for hookups and got into a very weird conversation which makes me think it might have been some kind of feminist/not allowed outing excercise so everyone be careful. Happy to share details with people I know over PM but otherwise just dont let your dick lead you into giving away info you shouldnt

As in a fishing expedition?

[LLPunting]

I swear mumanet is a dangerous place you should see some of the comments and advice the posters give rach other

not alloweds is the equivalent of an Incel hangout.
Self-righteous shite in a filter bubble.
Never an acceptance of human nature and the changes that come with the passing of time or the possible failure of the female.

[stampjones]

As in a fishing expedition?

As in asking for too much information than you’d need for a CL hookup. PM me if you want the full gen

[sparkus]

Given the states of relative undress I often see Facebook Marketplace sellers, I do wonder if it's a hint of more on offer.

(Deluded, I know)

[stampjones]

Since the bold sparkus resurrected the thread, I thought I’d do a quick update on the scene as I see it for anyone interested. It seems to go in bursts right now. You get phases where a lot of ads get through and then times where there’s nothing or posts getting flagged as soon as they are posted. It really is an effort to get anything and even I’ve been flagging (no pun intended) recently. On the plus side it seems easier to get ads accepted and they usually last an hour or two which is usually enough to generate a couple of hits so that’s probably the easiest way to get something right now.

Word of warning - there are a new regular set of ads offering girls with pretty explicit language. They tend to be really long posts with loads of gibberish or blank space after the ads. Dont know for definite but I think they are spam at best or dangerous at worst so be safe out there.

Still seems if you are gay or ts you can pretty much post what you like. On that subject I replied to an ad at the end of last year looking for a sugar daddy and it turned out to be a bloke so worth checking that it’s a girl before getting too excited! These days I only reply if it explicitly says female.

[Thebanker999]

Since the bold sparkus resurrected the thread, I thought I’d do a quick update on the scene as I see it for anyone interested. It seems to go in bursts right now. You get phases where a lot of ads get through and then times where there’s nothing or posts getting flagged as soon as they are posted. It really is an effort to get anything and even I’ve been flagging (no pun intended) recently. On the plus side it seems easier to get ads accepted and they usually last an hour or two which is usually enough to generate a couple of hits so that’s probably the easiest way to get something right now.

Word of warning - there are a new regular set of ads offering girls with pretty explicit language. They tend to be really long posts with loads of gibberish or blank space after the ads. Dont know for definite but I think they are spam at best or dangerous at worst so be safe out there.

Still seems if you are gay or ts you can pretty much post what you like. On that subject I replied to an ad at the end of last year looking for a sugar daddy and it turned out to be a bloke so worth checking that it’s a girl before getting too excited! These days I only reply if it explicitly says female.

Activity has increased on CL recently and I've had success with a few ads generating around 6 good options. You do have to word the ads carefully and not explicitly. And there is an annoying sick pervert currently responding to ads and impersonating a female. He'll send stunning pics and ask detailed questions. In general I ask for a WhatsApp number if I have any doubts on whether they are genuine. That soon clears the pervs away!

[yeahbaby]

Lots of explicit stuff up in jobs today.

Intercourse
Blow jobs etc

[stampjones]

Lots of explicit stuff up in jobs today.

Intercourse
Blow jobs etc

Never looked in jobs before - nice find.

However I did find this:

I've got an unusual request. From an early age I've always had an unusual longing which is for a man to bring me a good quality Donner kebab and insert it as far as possible into my flower and then proceed to eat it. Every last bit. I'm at a hotel for a couple days in Kensington and have noticed at least four or five quality kebab shops walking distance. Is anyone interest?

PS: at a push I will accept a saveloy

 

Best ad ever!

[jok32]

Until you realise the flowers this guy bum 

[ilovekungfu]

Lots of explicit stuff up in jobs today.

Intercourse
Blow jobs etc

I was reading this thread last night in the small hours and tried my luck in jobs. It was flagged in about hour. No explicit terms either, it was quite a subtle ad for a secretary!

Perhaps the route to getting flagged is if your ad appears genuine at first, a would be job seeker reads between the lines and flags it out of annoyance whereas they wouldn't even bother clicking in to the blatant ones.

I would have tried "CVs" but would have assumed thats where you look for girls touting as opposed to posting yourself?

[stampjones]

I was reading this thread last night in the small hours and tried my luck in jobs. It was flagged in about hour. No explicit terms either, it was quite a subtle ad for a secretary!

Perhaps the route to getting flagged is if your ad appears genuine at first, a would be job seeker reads between the lines and flags it out of annoyance whereas they wouldn't even bother clicking in to the blatant ones.

I would have tried "CVs" but would have assumed thats where you look for girls touting as opposed to posting yourself?

I always found temp jobs was the best place to pist. Community recently has been fruitful too. Try your ad in temp jobs would be my advice

[stampjones]

Until you realise the flowers this guy bum 

Even scarier - the ad gave a female name tho that doesnt neccessarily mean it was actually a girl. Wonder what her thoughts are with regard to chilli sauce?

[Thebanker999]

Even scarier - the ad gave a female name tho that doesnt neccessarily mean it was actually a girl. Wonder what her thoughts are with regard to chilli sauce?

I find that posting in the temp jobs is as good as anywhere. But be warned there is a sick fag impersonating women. He will send you a hot pic and language is somewhat effeminate. As ever if it looks too good to be true it probably is too good to be true!

[Steve2]

This one seems a subtle hint maybe?

South East Asian girl looking for a singing job anywhere in London. Any takers?

And she has a 2nd ad with a pic

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[Thebanker999]

This one seems a subtle hint maybe?

South East Asian girl looking for a singing job anywhere in London. Any takers?

And she has a 2nd ad with a pic

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Lol yes. Most of the ones looking for a job don’t mind if it’s a blow job!

[yeahbaby]

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Subtle

Love eating ass hole. Find it difficult asking for it. Prefer not clean. Can host and pay. Prefer 25 and under.

p.s no time wasters or flakes

[stampjones]

Resurrecting this as a few people have mentioned it recently and it has some good info in it that’s still relevant.

Update from my wanderings. Still a pain the the ass to get girls but definitely still possible. There seem to be even fewer girls posting than normal but I’ve been getting good success from ads I’ve posted. As mentioned before, most get quickly flagged but when one sticks, it’s like gold.

Example - best ever return actually. One ad that stuck around for a couple of months was for a PA. you have to word them carefully and I actually got a few replies looking for a real job. I just replied and explained what I was really looking for. Most I never heard of again but one came back after a week and asked if I could give more detail. I explained and she didnt reply for 3 weeks saying that she was up for it. Turned out to be a super hot 19 year old black student who I’ve now met 3 times and, even though she doesnt ask for much, is becoming a serious drain on my finances! Moral of the story - unicorns do exist but it takes serious persistance.

[Moneyd]

Resurrecting this as a few people have mentioned it recently and it has some good info in it that’s still relevant.

Update from my wanderings. Still a pain the the ass to get girls but definitely still possible. There seem to be even fewer girls posting than normal but I’ve been getting good success from ads I’ve posted. As mentioned before, most get quickly flagged but when one sticks, it’s like gold.

Example - best ever return actually. One ad that stuck around for a couple of months was for a PA. you have to word them carefully and I actually got a few replies looking for a real job. I just replied and explained what I was really looking for. Most I never heard of again but one came back after a week and asked if I could give more detail. I explained and she didnt reply for 3 weeks saying that she was up for it. Turned out to be a super hot 19 year old black student who I’ve now met 3 times and, even though she doesnt ask for much, is becoming a serious drain on my finances! Moral of the story - unicorns do exist but it takes serious persistance.

Interesting. Might try this myself soon.

Been consistently looking for massages on Bidvine and yet to get a bit. Will keep changing the wording though and see if anything happens. May even try the PA approach.

[stampjones]

One thing I wondered about this. When you submit an ad it ususlly takes an hour or two before it goes live. I presume that is CL checking it to make sure it doesnt contravene its laws or whatever. Anyway it goes live and usually lasts a couple of hours before it is flagged. Now anyone can flag an ad and it is pretty much instantly removed from the site. Try it with one of the rent boy ones that would be banned right away if it was heterosexual. Anyway, point is, who is flagging the ads? Probably nutty femenists I suppose. But seriously an ad looking for paid sex between consenting adult M&F wont last as long as a some pervert looking for gay sex with an underage kid. I kid you not. So what can we do about it? Anyone have any ideas cos its a serious pain in the fucking tits.

[MonkeyLasagna]

I'm aware some of here have been using it as a way to engage in sub-SA type meet ups for cash with ordinary women.

Is it still an option? What's the catch/craft? Feel free to PM etc.

Still works. You've just got to be persistent.

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[Stevelondon]

If it still works.
I just can’t be arsed to persist to that extreme.

Had some great meets using CL yonks back.

But now. Nah can’t be bothered.

[LLPunting]

Still works. You've just got to be persistent.

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So you've actively advertised recently with success?

I look every so often and there are very occasional ads by purported females who may say in comms they're open to paid sex but all have subsequently flaked when asked for a meeting, if they weren't asking silly money.  Suspect some were just phishing as have had some spam as a likely result to the burner accounts used.

I gave up posting ads years ago because then I was only seeking art models but some arse was flagging them and I always thought the t&cs prohibited solicitation.

[Outcallguy]

I've had some great meetings on cl
But it's hard work.
If you post any advice at all it gets removed.
Funnily enough the ads for men meeting men never get taken down.
I check morning and evening for ladies and have seen a a few.
Predominantly black women. Which says something about the state of society I think.

[LLPunting]

I've had some great meetings on cl
But it's hard work.
If you post any advice at all it gets removed.
Funnily enough the ads for men meeting men never get taken down.
I check morning and evening for ladies and have seen a a few.
Predominantly black women. Which says something about the state of society I think.

What sort of price point were you paying?  Deposits or travel payments demanded? Incalls or outcalls? Any turn out to be Aw or vs girls?

[Outcallguy]

Depends on the lady.
If I don't fancy them I offer less but I stick to £200 per meeting and that gets the most positive responses.

[LLPunting]

Depends on the lady.
If I don't fancy them I offer less but I stick to £200 per meeting and that gets the most positive responses.

Cheers
1 hr?
What sort of set of services does that get you?

[stampjones]

Cheers
1 hr?
What sort of set of services does that get you?

I still check out CL now and again. I don't normally go over a hundred for meets on there - though a few have stopped replying at that point most are cool. Meets tend to be a one and done type of deal. It's all still a major pain to actually find someone and get a meet arranged though. Great when it happens, but it's definitely effort intensive.
Btw for posting ads, they normally don't stay up long enough to generate a response, but there seems to be windows where ads stay up for quite a while. The last time I had an ad stick around Christmas, I got three meets from it. Best I've ever had. Literally nothing since then though

[LLPunting]

I still check out CL now and again. I don't normally go over a hundred for meets on there - though a few have stopped replying at that point most are cool. Meets tend to be a one and done type of deal. It's all still a major pain to actually find someone and get a meet arranged though. Great when it happens, but it's definitely effort intensive.
Btw for posting ads, they normally don't stay up long enough to generate a response, but there seems to be windows where ads stay up for quite a while. The last time I had an ad stick around Christmas, I got three meets from it. Best I've ever had. Literally nothing since then though

 You lucky bugger

[Mr Sinister]

I still check out CL now and again. I don't normally go over a hundred for meets on there - though a few have stopped replying at that point most are cool. Meets tend to be a one and done type of deal. It's all still a major pain to actually find someone and get a meet arranged though. Great when it happens, but it's definitely effort intensive.
Btw for posting ads, they normally don't stay up long enough to generate a response, but there seems to be windows where ads stay up for quite a while. The last time I had an ad stick around Christmas, I got three meets from it. Best I've ever had. Literally nothing since then though

Had a resurgence post lockdown, where I did tons of great meets some of my faves were just girls coming round to purely blow me and go, I'd only fuck if the girl was attractive enough, I also used to have an EE come round give me near naked massages, she let me rub her pussy one time came close to fucking her, lost contact with her which was disappointing. The past couple of years it's died, I feel most girls I spoke to who did it for the anonymity most likely took the plunge and joined seeking, once in a while I check, get a 1 or 2 leads but most girls have cottoned on and want high prices or just flake out once you get down to the final details, there would need to be a COVID/economy crash to get it back to how it was a few years back.


A shame that the listings scene has died there were days where you could get a cheeky £20 HJ off gumtree

I've had some great meetings on cl
But it's hard work.
If you post any advice at all it gets removed.
Funnily enough the ads for men meeting men never get taken down.
I check morning and evening for ladies and have seen a a few.
Predominantly black women. Which says something about the state of society I think.

CL has a long history of being a place for gay guys to cruise so that will never get taken down, also most ads involving women get taken down by 1 person trying to cut other avenues for the girl.

Your last point yep my last interactions has all been with black women, where's 3-4 years ago it was very diverse

[MonkeyLasagna]

So you've actively advertised recently with success?

I look every so often and there are very occasional ads by purported females who may say in comms they're open to paid sex but all have subsequently flaked when asked for a meeting, if they weren't asking silly money.  Suspect some were just phishing as have had some spam as a likely result to the burner accounts used.

I gave up posting ads years ago because then I was only seeking art models but some arse was flagging them and I always thought the t&cs prohibited solicitation.

Sorry, I've only just seen this. There should be some sort of notification because it's hard to keep track of every conversation you've been in.

Yes I've had success unlike you, but funnily enough I don't ever see ads from females any anymore (I with I did), also unlike you do. Our experiences seem to be far apart. If you just put an ad up you should definitely get some that bite. Not as many as before but it's definitely live and well. I rarely post now since I've got a new problem, which is my ads getting flagged within a couple of hours or less so it's a race against time. My ads are stuff like "job for a female" as I try to be really covert but no luck.
But what is REALLY strange is when browsing I see ads up from guys who aren't even trying to hide it in the slightest, but their ads will be up before mine and continue to survive after mine, so it can't be only about the content. Stuff like "need to get sucked tonight"

Bizarre

[MonkeyLasagna]

Depends on the lady.
If I don't fancy them I offer less but I stick to £200 per meeting and that gets the most positive responses.

Ah now I know why the prices have got up so drastically haha. I've wondered

[LLPunting]

Sorry, I've only just seen this. There should be some sort of notification because it's hard to keep track of every conversation you've been in.

Yes I've had success unlike you, but funnily enough I don't ever see ads from females any anymore (I with I did), also unlike you do. Our experiences seem to be far apart. If you just put an ad up you should definitely get some that bite. Not as many as before but it's definitely live and well. I rarely post now since I've got a new problem, which is my ads getting flagged within a couple of hours or less so it's a race against time. My ads are stuff like "job for a female" as I try to be really covert but no luck.
But what is REALLY strange is when browsing I see ads up from guys who aren't even trying to hide it in the slightest, but their ads will be up before mine and continue to survive after mine, so it can't be only about the content. Stuff like "need to get sucked tonight"

Bizarre

Are you advertising in London region?
I rarely see the likes of  "need to get sucked tonight" and they don't last long.  Anything asking for a sex act is solicitation so whether it's at a real world kerb or in a digital town square it is presumably still illegal.  Advertising for models, whether for "pron" or not is legal so I never got why that would be policed more. CL seems to rely on users to report rather than actively polices with say an automoderator (which shouldn't be beyond them nowadays) so any ad lasting longer than another is arbitrary unless the users seeing it have a vested interest in leaving it be.

[Punting2022]

How do you find them