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I took some time to think over events before posting this and considered the apologies and offer given at the time, but I was left with no confidence that the situation would be rectified.
I have been punting on and off for a number of years and during that time have had cancellations (thankfully in good time) and also a couple of timewasters but as I keep to an area the effects of them were probably minimal.
This was my first venture further afield.
Contacted NaughtyNottsNympho (Jessica) to make an advance booking within the first few days of a month suggesting a range of possible days towards the end of the month. A date was agreed along with two activities offered on the profile. An AW booking was offered but the offer did not receive a response.
The date was later cancelled in good time and a new date offered. An AW booking for the second date was made, was read but not scheduled.
Left comms for over 10 days.
Contacted Jessica 5 days before the new date for confirmation. Jessica replied the day before booking with txt confirmation and postcode. No change to the AW booking status though.
On the day, sent early morning txt to give time of setting off and that I would be there at the agreed time. Jessica replied with comment about set off time and that I must be travelling a distance.
Arrived at postcode in good time, found somewhere to park (time limited, there is a lot of “permit only” parking in the area).
20 mins before booking time received a txt, all apologetic to say she had fallen asleep and needed some time to get herself ready. I suggested a short period but she requested an extra hour. Annoyed, but agreed even though this gave problems, what to do wasting time in a nondescript area of a city I don’t know and having to move car as that would now mess up the parking time limit. Drove aimlessly for a couple of miles until parked up at a supermarket.
25 mins before revised time received further apologetic txt to say she couldn’t go through with the booking as was still feeling rough and could not do it justice. I am now really pissed off but I am not the argumentative sort.
Further apologies were given and was offered a good reduction on future date. I replied to accept (should I, don't know, but not a good time for coherent decisions) and that I might be able to do a day in a couple of weeks. Drove home thinking how could I be sure that this wouldn’t happen again (have now seen similar circumstances of previous review under former name of Jessica95)
Later that evening gave a date for meet two weeks away, that was rejected. Gave one more date, availability was doubtful and was too far ahead, so gave up suggesting dates. There were no suggestions for dates from Jessica and her profile does not give any indication of availability. There have been no further comms.
I think I acted with tolerance under the circumstances but consider it to be very unprofessional to fall asleep just before a meet, re-arrange because not prepared and finally unable to go ahead with it. Even offering a reduction for a future meet is no good if there is no reciprocal help in finding a mutually convenient new date.
Had to be a negative unfortunately.
