External Link/Members Only‘I’ve visited escorts for 25 years since my wife gave up on sex’
There's a paywall, however somehow i could read on Apple News, despite not paying for this either. Some extracts below
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[written by the punter]
We live in a semi-rural part of the West Midlands and enjoy country walks with our black labradors. I work as a solicitor advising on corporate law. It’s all pretty idyllic. However, within five years of marriage my wife appeared to decide that sex was something that I was now supposed to “provide” in a satisfactory manner on a once-a-week basis with the minimum of involvement from her. This gradually tailed off to the point that we have not had sex for the past seven years or more
and my wife will happily tell friends that we have no sex drive at our age for which she is grateful.I, however, do have a healthily active sex drive, and when marital sex became such a chore 25 years ago, I had a decision to make. On average I visit an escort for an hour or two every two to three weeks and have done so for 25 years. My ideal escort will be late 20s to early 40s and I have mostly fantastic sex with gorgeous women. I am very careful to avoid anyone who has been trafficked and I tend to have a series of regulars. I make sure I am regularly tested for STIs and have never tested positive – which is probably very lucky, although I try to be careful. I would have preferred to have a great sexual relationship with my wife but this was not to be and we both may have been much less happy than we are.
& [response from agony aunt]
I’m sure you harbour some feelings of guilt about the arrangements you have made that are preserving at least the façade of marital unity, if not harmony. But exchanging money for sexual services is legal in this country (soliciting on the street isn’t, so be aware of what’s allowed) and one in 10 men have done exactly what you are doing. I’m sure many husbands whose wives have shut up shop or sigh, “Okay, as long as you’re quick and I can carry on reading” will envy your enterprise. Especially as you say it brings you “fantastic sex with gorgeous women”, who no doubt spice things up a bit compared to the limited repertoire of the long-married trad-wife.
A quick trawl of my friendship group proved the fizz has gone out of the bottle too,
and apart from a brief ro-ro (roll-on, roll-off) or the traditional position known in our house as “dead maid”, they were not all very up for what I call “event sex”. _____________________________
I wonder if the 'agony aunt' had a read on here
How many times has this story unfolded ?
'gave up on sex' which kick starts a blokes interest in punting
Hopefully the details for the puntrer writing in have been changed
- based semi rural west midlands
- likes country walks
- two black labs
- solicitor corporate law
This narrows it down a bit
& if a bloke who knows him well reads it he might put 2 & 2 together
I wonder if the punter is on here, if the case
contacting the agony aunt & getting it published
