How do you walk away from a punt?

[NuruGuru]

Q - When you turn up to a punt - if you see the girl and realise you don't want to go ahead, what advice can you give to fellow punters on how to handle this often awkward situation?

Once in the past I turned up and walked away from a girl who looked nothing like her profile and turned out to be a right bitch that she tried assaulting me for walking because I wouldn't "pay her £20 for wasting her time" - she's in my reviews, Indian Reena was her name back then.

In my early days of punting, if I just wasn't feeling like I wanted to go ahead with it after seeing the girl and travelling all that way and being in her room, I'd end up making some stupid excuse like "I left my wallet in the car..oops" or "Actually, I want you for longer, let me go cash point and get more money" or something retarded that was obviously BS to just get me out the room.

Even though I know I'm in the best position to negotiate, I lose confidence in walking away, usually because I feel bad for wasting time (both hers and mine) and often reluctantly handing over the cash, despite not wanting to, knowing it's going to be a shit punt. I'm sure there's others reading this who've been through this.

I've been doing this for 2 years now, and to avoid being disappointed, my main aim is to go for quality girls now who are tried and trusted and go for repeat / regular sessions. When I first started in this game, I was going for as many girls as possible as quickly as I could, spice being the variety of life. Now I value service above the number of girls I've been with. I guess in this game, loyalty has it's rewards.

[Shagalott]

The whole point about punting is you’re not getting emotionally attached. It’s a price for service. If it isn’t what it says on the tin then don’t pay for it. WGs soon enough gather that their B&S tactics ain’t going to work.

That said, it is awkward, I agree but u rather just waste a bit of your time than your time AND money! Personally I’m starting to benefit from repeat service with those who provide a decent service and you can have basic conversation with and that is not necessarily the ones who charge higher prices.

[peter purves]

Q - When you turn up to a punt - if you see the girl and realise you don't want to go ahead, what advice can you give to fellow punters on how to handle this often awkward situation?

Once in the past I turned up and walked away from a girl who looked nothing like her profile and turned out to be a right bitch that she tried assaulting me for walking because I wouldn't "pay her £20 for wasting her time" - she's in my reviews, Indian Reena was her name back then.

In my early days of punting, if I just wasn't feeling like I wanted to go ahead with it after seeing the girl and travelling all that way and being in her room, I'd end up making some stupid excuse like "I left my wallet in the car..oops" or "Actually, I want you for longer, let me go cash point and get more money" or something retarded that was obviously BS to just get me out the room.

Even though I know I'm in the best position to negotiate, I lose confidence in walking away, usually because I feel bad for wasting time (both hers and mine) and often reluctantly handing over the cash, despite not wanting to, knowing it's going to be a shit punt. I'm sure there's others reading this who've been through this.

I've been doing this for 2 years now, and to avoid being disappointed, my main aim is to go for quality girls now who are tried and trusted and go for repeat / regular sessions. When I first started in this game, I was going for as many girls as possible as quickly as I could, spice being the variety of life. Now I value service above the number of girls I've been with. I guess in this game, loyalty has it's rewards.

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and the more you do it the better you will feel for doing so, until it comes second nature to 'Walk on By' 

[hillingdonpete]

Just grow a pair.

[James999]

Put your left foot in front of your right foot, then swing your right leg through and in front of your left leg, then do this with your left leg, then your right leg, repeat till you area sufficient distance away 

[Stapler]

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[brandonpete]

As I've said in other 'threads'...I've actually handed over money,had my 'kegs' off,gone down on her and either smelt 'shit' or a disgusting smell from her 'clout',or no condom,got up said "no thanks' and cleared off..."you pays yer money and you takes yer chance"...all part of the game....you can minimise that happening by reviews on sites like this or seeing a regular...but to me,after 35 years of punting it's all part of the game and the 'fun' of the Fair.

[Dixson]

I've only had to walk once - the girl - erm, generous term - was not as I expected. I tried to be polite and said I'd change my mind. She shouted abuse at me down the hotel corridor, and then proceeded to send me threatening texts for the rest of the day. Best policy is just to ignore them, which is what I did.

(girl no longer works)

[Bangers and Gash]

Put your left foot in front of your right foot, then swing your right leg through and in front of your left leg, then do this with your left leg, then your right leg, repeat till you area sufficient distance away 

Poor advice. Following your instructions would mean you'd be walking into her boudoir. 

[Lacoster]

I feel like there’s too much time wasting & walking away and not enough ground work done in the first place imo in the whole.

Can we really keep walking away over the slightest thing and then continually complain about the overall service heading downhill? One hand washes the other.

[Terryray]

usually  with a limp dick hopefully  cheers Terryray

[punk]

BYE 

[Health and Fitness]

I lose confidence in walking away, usually because I feel bad for wasting time (both hers and mine) and often reluctantly handing over the cash, despite not wanting to, knowing it's going to be a shit punt

I am actually the opposite of this. As the customer I expect the standards and service to meet my expectations and if it doesn't then I will not hesitate to bail on the booking. It's my money at the end of the day so it is my decision to spend it on a WG or not.

If a WG kicks off about you walking because for example, she misled people with Photo shopped pictures looking nothing like her rue self then that's tough, there needs to be honesty appearance and service wise otherwise they only have themselves to blame for seeing money walk away.

Years ago a WG I booked looked nothing like her AW pictures and when I pointed this out to her she kicked off and demanded half the booking fee when I informed her that I was walking which she is certainly not entitled too.

Had some abuse/insults thrown my way but what really ticked me off was having the door slammed into my heel as I left, not very pleasant at all 

Anyway just remember that's it's your money and if you do not like what you see or aren't comfortable going through with a booking then just turn and walk. Don't complicate matters by thinking you owe the girl anything just because you've turned up.

[Arthur Wizard]

Left my wallet in the car is always a gooden

[mrhappypants]

A shameless “plug” for a little gimmick that has improved my punting:  the 60 second 4S test. 

On arrival, before you hand over the cash, you start with a general conversation (how you are, how the SP is, what kind of a day it is) leading on to a polite outline of the services and fees you confirmed.

The content of the conversation about services is material toward arriving at yes/no answers to the following four questions.

Sexy?
Smells good? (Room/bed/girl)
Services as confirmed?
Smiles?

As a rule WALK if you get any no answers.  I have some flexibility for services and will ask a SP to mouth wash if everything else seems in order.  I walk on about 10% of punts and negotiate details on maybe 20%. 

The really big impact is that this, backed up by more time and more research has increased my hit rate markedly. I have started seeing new (to me) SP’s more often. Some of the SP’s I have seen historically I probably wouldn’t bother with now because the benchmark is higher. This has driven the quality up and reduced costs.  This effect has been so dramatic I have lost my bearing on where the market is.  I cannot tell how much the improvement is due to my test and how much it is a very competitive market for SP’s at the moment.

[MrMatrix]

I've only had to walk once - the girl - erm, generous term - was not as I expected. I tried to be polite and said I'd change my mind. She shouted abuse at me down the hotel corridor, and then proceeded to send me threatening texts for the rest of the day. Best policy is just to ignore them, which is what I did.

(girl no longer works)

Wasn't sexy English Brooke was it. External Link/Members Only
I was lucky to get out the room in one piece - totally vile, and the vile text messages and lies and false accusations that followed, Fuck never experienced any thing like it EVER.
Like you I ignored all the texts...awful experience.

[Billy no mates]

I certainly understand where the OP is coming from.

I used to feel similar to him. Overtime as punting has become more normalised to me, I have gotten better at saying "no thank you".

I insist on at least a phonecall, 2 minute chat before any booking. Yes this may loose me some options, however I can usually get a good feel in the conversation.
Case in point. I had a recent booking with a very well reviewed girl on this site(all positives). When I spoke to her a couple of days before the booking to clarify services, I got a bad vibe. Don't ask me why, and it could be a mistaken bad vibe, but it was enough for me to cancel the booking. She had agreed to all the services as well, and her reviews state she does all the services, I just couldnt shake a bad feeling.

[brandonpete]

Unfortunately,like many I've walked away and will continue to walk away,to me it's become part of the 'norm' (punted for over 35 yrs)...especially with the proliferation of EE girls. Punts switching over doesn't really bother me..for to me a shag is a shag is a shag...some better than others some just rubbish (says Mr 'I'm the john North of punting)......the main thing for me is personal hygiene....about 25 yrs ago I actually 'pulled out' when having a 'knee trembler' Doggy fuck with a Street girl down an ally in Hillfields Cov, as her arse stunk (I no longer use street girls).......a year or so ago,totally naked (not a nice sight) 'going down' on a WG and jeez the stink!...up I got and off I trotted....so getting up and 'walking' just becomes part of the 'deal'...just like losing at the Races!

[Jimmyredcab]

Left my wallet in the car is always a gooden

That was always my solution when I punted on a regular basis ------------------- now I try to not see anyone who hide their face on the profile, no face picture, no booking.   

[Stapler]

--- now I try to not see anyone who hide their face on the profile, no face picture, no booking.   

Review?

[JayEZ2K]

A shameless “plug” for a little gimmick that has improved my punting:  the 60 second 4S test...

Sexy?
Smells good? (Room/bed/girl)
Services as confirmed?
Smiles?

Golden advice from mrhappypants, or perhaps we should say, mrhappypunts? That sounds like a well developed method for TOFTT with unknown girls, and similar to what I've read from experienced punters in the Amsterdam Red Light District. I will try to learn his technique, and if it's a no go, then walk as described by others.

[Horizontal pleasures]

How do you walk away from a punt?

I get into my car.