You’ve been a member for over 2 years.
You ‘know’ that a lady has a husband because someone mentioned it.
I’m not sure why you’re concerned, you don’t help us to respond by saying who you’re talking about.
I’m not sure that I’d respond if I knew anything, what have you contributed?
What if I posted in a thread about ‘her’ suggesting she’s actually a he.
Should you be worried about that?
I have a suggestion, TOFTT.
Guy