Im surprised you didnt have a good experience with tanner...
Were you fully nude? I lie fully nude, no towel, with legs slightly open whenever i go for massages (so they get a good look at the package lol). That way she knows what I want.
Tanner is nice and I went to see her again. She was busy. When i finished my shower she remembered my car, saw me called me by my name and gave me a cuddle, and said I should phone in next time and ask for her(i dont usually book, i just turn up and if the bird is a bit of a mingger or rude i just leave and drive to the next nearest place)
I dont think looks matter with the massage ladies pieces of paper with her majesty's face.