What a ridiculous post. On what basis do you assume the 'vast majority' of punters are losers?
Because somebody pays for sex, doesn't make them a loser.
If anything, to have the disposable income to fuck as many prossies as some do on here must imply that they are pretty successful.
There are umpteen reasons for paying for sex, many of which do not involve the punter being a loser
There are a few people who post on forums who are rather deluded.
I can't think how you could dress up paying for sex as a positive thing, in respect of paying for it. It means simply that if you do that you are not attractive enough to the other person for them to be willing to do it of their free will without financial reward.
Having disposable income might represent financial success, but if you still have to pay for sex it must mean that you're not held in particularly high regard by the opposite gender. I have to say that guys who have a high income who pay for sex are pretty stupid, or repulsive, or both. I've heard a lot from the providers side on this subject, especially from the upmarket fraternity, and NOTHING I have heard sways me from that view. They may be able to afford it easily, but they certainly ain't winners in the sex game, that's for sure.
There seem to be lots of guys on here who pat each other on the back saying what a great thing it is that they are all doing. Maybe it is in some respects, but that doesn't get away from the fact that having lost out in the sex game means you have to pay for it to get any. That equals loser I'm afraid. Those that are married or have partners and do it - well there's something that smacks of loser there as well.
I'm simply saying how it is, because I am realistic about it.