I can relate to so much in this thread, I only started punting at the start of this year,been married for over 10 years, together nearly 20 years, sex was great at the start, now it's sex twice a year, her birthday and mine.
I think that all men think about paying for it at some stage in their lives, one wg reckoned that 3 out of 5 men who she saw was married, it goes on more than anyone realises.
I'm mid 40's and had from a 22 yo to a 55 milf, as antmasterant said, it reminds me of when I was a young whipper snapper with someone younger, it's all personal choice at the end of the day.
As slaveofnature said, I love the research then the phone call, then the meet, the open door with her behind it, then what comes naturally, then walking out with a big smile on your face.