A plain explanation of the red messages;
Why not, "this user has hidden their profile," or "this user is a timewasting skank so we has been deleted"?
They could also overhaul the new member email system, I get fed up of seeing an email in my inbox for "a new member matching: Glasgow" only to open the link and see a profile based in Manchester, or London.
Got one today, the email says she is in Glasgow, open the link and she is in Manchester.... annoyingly she has a reasonably good profile, and I might have TOFTT if she had actually been local