He's not helping himself by simply ignoring the questions but his recollection of finer details will depend on how many girls he's seen.
At my peak in the early 2000's when I had a much higher income I was punting several times a week so unless the girl was a bit special or really bad the details like tattoos, decor etc were a blur.
If he genuinely can't remember then just say so, instead of simply hoping the questions will go away.
^^ exactly this. Anyone who has access to the SA thread, please read my posts there. I've chatted to a LOT of girls on there ... met tons of them now for coffees. My life generally is absolutely hectic - work, kids, family, drama, all of it. My memory is already terrible - likely worsened by lack of sleep, stress and over-work .. and I tend to travel quite a lot relatively locally, with my wife usually, staying in apartments and hotels... so to ask where the bathroom is, I couldn't even tell you which FLOOR it was on, let alone if it was to the left or right. If that sounds suspicious, I'm sorry - it is what it is.
To give some little details about myself away... my work requires quite a large amount of knowledge in a very specific field of study. I'm not autistic - but I do suspect that I have a milder version of the condition leading me to be moderately clever at certain things while also being terrible at others ... eg. I won't remember the colour of doors, even ones that I've been going through every day for a week.. if someone sits in the passenger seat of my car and tells me how to get somewhere, I won't be able to get there myself even if I've done it 20 times... if I met somebody last week for 5 minutes and bump into them in Debenhams, I might remember the face - but chances are I won't have a clue where I know them from.
I don't like that I've been almost pushed into talking about this on this forum because, well, if one of my friends just happens to punt, they might now wonder about BobDavid... I've been extremely careful over the years to keep this part of my life private - as I'm sure you all have.
My condition, by the way, can also very easily lead into arguments as, if I know I'm right about something, I'm like a bull. If I'm overcharged 20p for a cup of coffee at Starbucks, I don't just walk away and live with it ... it's annoying for people around me - but I can't help myself. And that, sadly, can result in me making enemies... because, yeah, who likes a know-it-all, right? Especially one that forgets almost everything.