Yes, the OP going through his previous ' memorable' experiences is all well and good, and indeed his reasons for remembering them - but to date he haven't given one single detail about his meeting with AA that would actually put this argument to bed? Unless he's done this via Admin, in which case I apologise.
What was she wearing - outfit, colour? What was her hair like, long, short, tied back? What about the tattoos on her back, were they black & grey, coloured, modern, traditional, names, designs etc ? Bed and bedding...was it light coloured or dark, how about the room itself?
It's not as if the OP has visited many girls in the last 18 months, and none for quite a while, so surely some things ( other than a description of the area she lives in that anyone could give from a quick look at google maps could offer ) must stay with him? He certainly recalls quite vividly that she didn't bother to get back to him and wish his daughter well on the occasion of the previous appointment which he had to cancel. If it bothered him that much, why would he bother to re-appoint with her and part with his hard earned cash to her?
It's within the OP's power to put this to bed ( no pun intended ) AA is absolutely adamant he didn't visit her and has 'challenged' him to give some proof that he did. To date he's skirted around the 'challenge' while talking about other stuff, none of which address the matter in hand.
The onus is on the OP to prove they did visit AA, she's already called him out as a liar. While AA has had negs - most wg get them - they've been over her 'flakeyness'. The OP has been very specific about her breath and her lack of basic hygiene, the latter in a very insulting manner, so surely to goodness he can offer something definitive which would end this bloody saga?
All the incidentals going on around this about what AA has / hasn't allegedly done in the past are (imho) irrelevant. to this thread. I don't know the truth, or otherwise, of them and have zero interest.
I base any prospective visits with girls on reviews on here, along with the odd one taken at 'face value and gut instinct ' from AW At first reading, I'd put AA on a " No, not for me, thank you " footing and avoid her like the plague. The longer this thread goes on with no resolution, the more questions rather than answers it raises.........
Right, that's my two penn'orth. I'm off now to see if I can find find someone for this afternoon, an unexpected "window of opportunity" has opened up very nicely for me
Dog bowls ... "I knocked on her door after scrambling through the back yard - which was a mess (possibly due to her dogs - there were 2 dog bowls in the yard but, thankfully, no sign of them)" .. who wouldn't remember something like this? It's a memorable moment.
Corridors ... this was a review of Sofia of Diamonds from 2013 where I'd spent ages wandering around trying to find the room due to poor signage. I'd also spent 10 mins trying to get in (intercom problems).
Building names ... this was my recent review of Rosina. (i) I've seen Rosina many times and she's always been in the same block of apartments... (ii) I know those apartments well as, many years ago now, I lived there myself for few years (to prove this, anyone who knows the apartments, the bin store door is rarely locked and the building maintenance man - Roy (I don't know if he still works there) - kept trying to fix this with a little block of wood and a piece of string hooked through the vents on the door. And, yeah, again, these are memorable things that I will of course remember.
I -do- have problems remembering things, particularly things that aren't particularly noteworthy or (seemingly) useful. I have to stop giving things away that might identify myself - but this one thing won't help Amelia identify me, it might only alert anyone from my RL on here about who I am... years ago, I lived in a house on a street where every single house had a different coloured door - nobody was allowed to paint their door unless the colour was different to all the other doors (and white/black also weren't allowed). I lived there for 18 months. I ordered pizza once and the delivery guy couldn't find the house - because not all the doors had numbers on and they weren't very visible from street level. Anyway, the guy called me when he was on the street... "I can't find your house, can you tell me which colour door yours is?". This was probably the day when I genuinely realised how bad my memory was - I had to go outside the door to double check. The guy was in hysterics when I told him that, no, I hadn't just moved in. This is why I say I may have mild autism - going through that door was a repeated event, obviously, that had gone on for a long time. It wasn't a particularly memorable event, though, it's almost like, until the guy asked the door colour, my brain thought that there was no reason why I'd want to store that information. ANOTHER story would be that I lived in Belgium for 6 months - my girlfriend (a Belgian) and I would drive to a huge supermarket every weekend - I'd drive and she'd tell me which way to go. We went there loads of times ... yet, still, every time we came to certain junctions, I'd ask her "is it left I need to turn or right here..?" and it would drive her mad... again, that I lived in Belgium shouldn't help Amelia identify me - but any of my friends reading this will know who I am.
