Still being the presumptious snowflake, building fantasies to service your "black lives matter" the most wailing and gnashing of teeth. This is no more deleterious to black men's rights than Jimmy picking Stevie or Pankaj instead of Jaywon to be on his team in the school playground. Jimmy might otherwise pick Jaywon to be on his debate team in class later on or indeed pick him next time for the same game after seeing Jaywon play better than expected this time.
Standing up for your rights in a way that does not violate the rights of others is
good humanity and assertiveness.Posting comments that will
offend, hurt and make other's uncomfortable is bad humanity - respecting other people's rights and detering unconcious bias will help folks like OP's to think & review outcomes before they post, it doesnt make you less of a human being or weak.
As regards to "black lives matter" "MeToo" movements & all organisations out there we should recognise the hard work they do fighting for equality rather than making trivial jokes.
While I accept you have rights to needs and wants that maybe different from other people, do you or other folks have the rights to say "no " to other peoples rights ? with explaining or without feeling quilty or selfish ?
In all let me use the broken record approach & reiterate that the post was influenced by unconscious bias, I recently was invited to a seminar hosted by St. Giles Trust I was shocked & surprised with some of the stories that was told by lots of young labs that escaped a rough like of crime - I was moved to help and contributed my bit to a better society as opposed to posting stats to drum up isolation for a certain race because few have driven off course.
Well each to their own, I'm sure OP's has had time to reflect as opposed to promoting entrenched values. I'm putting the issue to bed.