Okay after the shitstorm of replies to this post I'll try to expand on my review in a (hopfully not futile) attempt to not let my in hindsight bad review not actually become counter productive. To give you an idea about myself. I'm a very irregular punter. In a session I have very strong submissive desires. I am into the mental stimulation and challenge not at all into the shagging part of the experience. Not having sex with someone who has a lot of sex is actually a kick for me, one I'm happy to pay for. I kept my review brief because I felt that representing the meet as such may actually not be in Ella's favour - after all I assume that a fair share of people here don't approach her like that and expect a different type of action.
And I'm not fake nor am I (to my knowledge) related with anyone posting here. I'm not a regular punter either with my last punt being around 13 months ago. The main reason for the long time between these meetings is that I genuinely have struggled to find someone who really ticks all my boxes. Most providers who primarily offer D/S services are not open to the sexual element as much as I desire it and those providers who offer the sexual element tend to really fuck up the control side. To try and slightly up my credibility you can find an exerpt from a review I made years back
External Link/Members Only. Unfortunately the archive for this site does not go back any further, otherwise you would see that this was a very lengthy and detailed review at the time, that the relevant provider featured for several years an her site.
Finally once a session is over I know who I am. I would not let anyone write a review in my name or use my profile to do so. I do feel a duty though to create a review if something was good. If the session had been rather neutral or negative I would have equally done so. That said however I genuinely felt that this meeting was pretty outstanding.
ContactAs per the original review I contacted Ella because her good review history and due to the recommendation in another post I made here:
https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=152014.msg1658436#msg1658436The process was pretty easy and relaxed. I'm not sure what screening process she has in place but it seemed non-intrusive to my privacy. On the day I called about 5 minutes before the meeting and was given very easy directions to her flat. The space seemed huge and was very clean and tidy, which for me as a submissive expecting to spend a bit of time on the floor is pretty key. Ella has a fair few toys for BDSM sessions, but it is not a dungeon and if serious isolation, caging, ... is what you want she may not have what you need.
Session StartWhen Ella opened the door the appearance surprised me. Glasses, leggins, (I admit all I remember about her top was that it covered her tattoos), I really liked her face, it seemed a mixture of cute and bubbly - an instant turn on. This was very much what I was looking for. Generally I suggest to providers to be in clothing they are most comfortable in - sometimes it works, sometimes it does not. So in this case I had asked her to be Girl next door or Gym outfit and she seemed to be a bit of both. I felt right at that moment a little nervous because it seemed such a good fit to what I wanted, so I forgot the paperwork which she handled in a really relaxed way.
I asked her if I could take a quick shower, which seemed to have taken her a bit off guard (I had a shower just before leaving the house as well as some EdT, but I always feel more comfortable with a second one.). She asked me to get dressed again because at the start she wanted me to undress. She asked me to fold my clothes neatly which I failed. For a short moment she seemed to take on the strict domme persona but she seemed to notice almost instantly that I was looking for the devious girl next door type.
Ella is short so she put on some plateau heels (the one you can see on one of her images) and I have to be honest they did not work for me. They looked to suit the porn star outfit. But that was not the problem for me itself. The real issue was the appearance. She did not actually seem dominant in them - just taller but it felt as if she had to compensate insecurity. Again she noticed nearly instantly and the heels came off just a moment after. Next Ella put me on her spanking bench. The bondage she setup was secure yet non-tightening but before she could even start I had to safeword. But it was because I could not rest comfortable due to an injury I had not discussed before the session.
So far this session may read like a total disaster but it was not, mostly because less than 15 minutes had passed and almost every time something did not work, Ella seemed to realise this within moments. I've had full day sessions in the past, where hour by hour was spent trying something that just did not work for me.
Getting GoingSo after these first few misfires, Elle seemed to have a much better idea what to do with me.
* I was tied up on her bed as she teased and hurt me with electrics, hurt my nipples with her nails and had me blindfolded listening to background noise. She seemed to notice my attempts to remain erect even when she withdrew all attention for a while before recommencing the activity.
* She made me kneel in front of her, just to wait, admire her, massage her petite feet. I was hoping at his point she might ask me to do that for longer but instead ...
* Tied in a hogtie she made my try to wriggle around, look up at her and it was delicious to try. I really felt like she knew the submissive wants to fight for the attention and admiration of the dominant in these moments. And having this cute looking girl make you stretch just that little bit longer until it hurts was just great.
* She placed her clover clamps on me and decided to start some trivia which I terribly failed. Every incorrect question triggering a pull on my sensitive nipples.
* She started giving me manual stimulation, teasing and hurting the head of my penis just within my pain threshold and as I warmed up she used the Tigerbalm I had brought. As this was new to her, she first used a little but then noticed that she could use it a lot more liberally. I was in a delightful sub space.
* Eventually candle came out as she continued the slow stimulation of my cock and balls, temporarily tieing them up then releasing them.
* A slight surprise was when she used the wax on me. It was a first on me and I anticipated far more pain. She could have increased the amount and proximity to the skin, but this was my first session with her and I had said that I both like pain but might struggle to handle a lot of it.
FinaleAt the end of the session she made me hurt myself. During most of the last half an hour she kept teasing me with her pretty intense clover clamps. As we reached the end of my time, she started to make me reach for her with my hands cuffed to the clamps. This was really the highlight of the session for me. I generally enjoy being made to do things that are somewhat impeded by bondage, etc. But here Ella had not only figured a great way to do that, she had also managed to seriously exceed my pain threshold. Her clover clamps - compared to my own seemed devious and by making me hurt myself she went well past what I would have let her do to me. My nipples hurt for another two days after the session, a great reminder of a time well spent.
I had asked Ella that if I was to come it should be by manual stimulation, but that it would be up to her to decide. Finishing my time with her, exceeding my own limits by making me hurt myself was a great way to end. In the subspace I was in, this felt like a betrayal to the dominant. You should be able to have more trust in them than in yourself and ending on this high note and not letting me orgasm was a perfect way of honouring this request (that most others I've tried this with have failed)
Ella never seemed to check the time and the session did seem to be a fair bit longer than the two hours I had booked. I never felt that she rushed me out of anything.
After CareAs the session ended, we talked a little bit and Ella mentioned that she is naturally more submissive. I can say that I noticed but in my opinion only in a good way. Looking at profiles of many domination providers you get this feeling that they think of them as better humans, see their subs as paypigs and losers. I don't feel like that. I've come to embrace my submission and strive to please the dominant, to suffer for them. And Elle seemed to know that that was what I wanted to do. The chat over and a few hugs before I left feeling really elated and ready to deal with the rest of my day.
ConclusionIf you think about seeing Ella or anything other than submitting to her this may be a misleading review. If submitting is what you want, I'm pretty sure she will suss out what you desires are where your limits are and she seems very quick to adjust the session. Ella seems well stocked with a lot of toys and whilst her toolchest appears less complete than that of a BDSM dungeon, the items she has in stock seem of a pretty decent standard.
I'd highly recommend her and am looking forward to seeing her again and for a longer session.