Let me clarify, my post above was not a criticism of you BC, I read all your reasoning's and can see your point, I don't agree with it, but I do see why you may have thought the way you did.
The point I was trying to make is that accusations of being a WK need to be measured, if the evidence is thin it is really insulting to the individual and will have a negative impact on people posting their own experiences for fear of being called a WK. That said, we must of course all try to keep this forum clear of WK's where there is strong evidence.
I do think you owe Excalibur an apology.
As regards Emily's booty, alas she cancelled on me, she gave plenty of notice and I hope that she will rearrange soon..... it was to be the highlight of my punting week 
Ming 
So you think I should apologise for accusing him of being a WK without there being strong evidence, but you can see my point, but don't agree with it? That's your point?
Posters have been banned for much less. But always with good reason IMO, and that reason is that somebody made a report and admin made a decision.
If you think my behaviour was uncalled for and I'm some unhelpful asshole running around shouting WK without due course... Then maybe you should report me for that instead of jumping in to tell me what I should or shouldn't do (wow this seems familiar - posters telling people what they should do

)... And yeah, before you say it, I'm not trying to tell anybody how to post, just stating my opinion and my advice instead... FWIW... which may be very little worth. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink, as they say.
I'll apologise
if and when
I feel it is justified to do so. That's the way apologies work as far as I'm concerned. If you or anybody other poster doesn't like that perspective... Then well fuck you.
Sorry to hear about Emily cancelling on you... Can't say I'm surprised though... But good luck with rearranging it.