Sexy texting - does it lure you?

[tantraman]

Chaps,

I had noted in my last review that pre-punt texting with a new WG was "quick and efficient, but also cutesy salutations and sign-offs, plus slick emoji usage", which I had thought nicely relayed the WG's personality. Another thought that was a "load of fucking soppy bollocks", and has got me to thinking if I'm being a sucker.

Being a relative newbie in the world of full-on punting, I've so far found that WGs that have communicated well (inc. displaying some personality) with initial texting or emails have turned out to be fabulous punts (viz. Arabella_AW, Ameera, Meena19). Those that have only tapped out perfunctory texts have been similarly perfunctory in bed (viz. Emily Girlfriend, Sensual Brigit, Katrina Gupta; I've yet to upload reviews on the latter two). But maybe I've just not been around enough.

Anyway, what do others think? Does personable texting with a WG make you more confident in booking her, and does it translate to a better punt?

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Anyway, what do others think? Does personable texting with a WG make you more confident in booking her, and does it translate to a better punt?

 
You could be texting her maid/ pimp unbeknownst to you.

[Jeff_withpetersen]

I've never really had a WG indulge in 'sexy texting' to be honest but yes I agree that the ones who go a bit further than 'total businesslike' with their emails tend to also be nicer in person as well, which encourages repeat business. I can't think of a single WG I've ever seen who was robotic in their communication and turned out to be really enthusiastic and had a great personality in person.

One thing that does get on my wick is a few times in my punting career I've had to cancel due to illness (always giving good notice and being conscientious and reasonable) and when WGs just don't even respond, that annoys me. It only takes five seconds to write ah ok sorry hope you're better soon. Maybe I'm touchy but when I just get emails read and ignored it really reinforces the men are just cash machines to these women mentality.

People often say 'treat this like you would any other service provider etc.' and yeah, if my hairdresser or bank manager or whatever just deleted an email without even a cursory hope you feel better soon, I'd think wow that's dogshit. So I afford the same to WGs who do that.

[tantraman]

You could be texting her maid/ pimp unbeknownst to you.

Mate, this didn't even occur to me! That's so true!

[Happylad]

NO, it doesn`t

[Shearer1955]

The real proof of the pudding is when you actually meet the girl & find out if you are to be royally entertained or you are the one being shafted 

[pking_paul]

I have had the odd texts and messages over the years where clearly it has been a pimp or maid because the girl herself can't speak more than a word of English 

I should add that these were primarily pump and dump kinds of punts.

They are however very much in the minority so as rule of thumb I agree and most times, good communication is simply good communication 

[hungrypunt]

nope...unless i know her ...and we talk about shit we BOTH like

[Drayki]

I think it does add to the punt, nothing wrong with a bit of flirting especially if you know who you are texting, ive recently been texting a wg who I haven't met yet due to us either working different hours, shes actually whatsapped me some very good pics of her to wank over until we meet, so id say all good. 

[Roth]

In the past way back I've had some really sexy texting back agreeing to services and telling me all the sexy things she's going to do to me.  

Great stuff till I turned up then she had a memory loss including my punting name (clearly in my messages).

So turns out I was sexting with Sergei the cunt.

[cain]

No, infact it actually has the reverse effect, I am paying for a service, I'm not a friend, fuck buddy, lover or any other fluffy shite, they don't know me and I don't know them, its just a business transaction and any flirting mearly puts me off actually. that doesn't mean when on the punt I'm adverse to friendly banter, its good if you can find a WG you can have a laugh with, but any sexy texts just get ignored.

[bearcat69]

No.

I think good, clear, friendly, but to the point communication skills can lead to a good punt, but, whether that includes flirting or not doesn't really matter.

You could have endless back and forth flirty messages with the WG for days, weeks, even months... But, if you're not getting the paid sex meeting you're after, then that's just a waste of time.

[Lucky Luke 70]

I've never really had a WG indulge in 'sexy texting' to be honest but yes I agree that the ones who go a bit further than 'total businesslike' with their emails tend to also be nicer in person as well, which encourages repeat business. I can't think of a single WG I've ever seen who was robotic in their communication and turned out to be really enthusiastic and had a great personality in person.

People often say 'treat this like you would any other service provider etc.' and yeah, if my hairdresser or bank manager or whatever just deleted an email without even a cursory hope you feel better soon, I'd think wow that's dogshit. So I afford the same to WGs who do that.

Same for me. I have never been involved in sexy texting but, when a WG goes just one step further to sound nice during the communication, you can reasonably expect she will do the same during the punt. I would say it's part of the engagement/attitude and it will put me at ease.

Never done sexy texting but I remember 1 single striking answer I got a few months ago. I had requested a naughtier meet than usual and, while the SP was on her way to my hotel, we were texting back and forth to fine tune (where we meet, taxi a little bit late, etc.). At some point, I ask her what she would like to drink, wine, beer, soda ? And she answers:'"your cum". Needless to say I was already hard when she joined me 

[thorltd]

Would have to be on the phone. Could be texting any munter

[GMontag]

Couple of years back contacted a prossie on aw. She had no face pics. Price was reasonable,100/h for an outcall. Got a quick reply and she was willing to send a pic via email. Gave my punting mail account and got a pic. Hot mixed race lady. Set appointment for same day in the evening. Funny thing was we didn't exchange numbers. All via email.
Over the course of the day we exchanged mails which became quite sexy describing what she wanted me to do to her.Got me all excited. On appointment time she was late but we kept messaging as she said transport issues. Turns up an hour later and she is as her picture. Really hot!
Session was cracking with her staying over 2 hours. We got on quite well too.
But here's the thing... wasn't her I was messaging. I think she was being pimped as she also said she had other girls she worked with. She plain out said she had a "manager" who just gave her my details. I refused to push and find out if said manager was a guy or lady.
Turned out ok as she gave me her number and we saw several times as 100 for at least 2 hours. She even stayed overnight once and also shot 2 videos for memories.
I moved away and lost touch. Saw her a year ago getting on a bus pushing a kids buggy and towing a youngster as well. She's no on aw anymore but was one of my top meets.

[Rockhead]

I would enjoy it from someone I know. But then I am incredibly shallow and easily entertained.