Ladies who reveal too much?

[Horizontal pleasures]

I saw and reviewed a lady not long ago and I was considering a return visit so I went back to the profile. I noticed that she cited an email address which partly included her name. I put the two parts of the name in the email address into Facebook and there she was, her life and her family and her husband and even the celebration of her renewed wedding vows.

I think she reveals too much.
Shall I reveal it here or be discreet?
Have you noticed other ladies doing this - giving away their real self in an email address or other thoughtless clue?

HP

[Watts.E.Dunn]

Should have thought a gent like you HP would remain  schtum!..

[Horizontal pleasures]

Should have thought a gent like you HP would remain  schtum!..

+1
yes but I wondered what the rest of the team thinks?

[finn5555]

Up to you HP 

[Toon73]

Tricky one , read something very similar a few months back where a sp had left / dropped her driving licence somewhere ( the client returned it / or picked it up cant remember) she was happy but did not want to see client again because worried (presumably about being outed ) ,
but if you do tell her , and say you found her on facebook ,that could  look a bit "stalkerish"  , personally i would say nothing but if it popped up again possibly mention something . 

[T1000]

Last summer i visited a WG who had her two massage certificates on the wall, with her full name on both. A quick google search revealed something unexpected and revealed she had been in the business almost 30 years.

Another WG stated she was 31 years old, but her email address was *********1975. Yeah she looked 42.

Most of us would guard our privacy, but we all leave footprints in life.

[Horizontal pleasures]

I am sure I have seen other profiles with private email addresses

[Joe]

I saw and reviewed a lady not long ago and I was considering a return visit so I went back to the profile. I noticed that she cited an email address which partly included her name. I put the two parts of the name in the email address into Facebook and there she was, her life and her family and her husband and even the celebration of her renewed wedding vows.

I think she reveals too much.
Shall I reveal it here or be discreet?
Have you noticed other ladies doing this - giving away their real self in an email address or other thoughtless clue?

HP

Up to you but the right thing is not to reveal it here unless SHE made it public herself.

[cueball]

Shall I reveal it here or be discreet?

If it's not a warning to other punters then in my opinion HP, there's nothing to gain by sharing her personal details on here.

Keep it to yourself, even if she's a bit thick for not doing it properly.

[Thecunninglinguist]

I would think on if l were you. There is a fair chance that if you have been on her FB page, because of the way FB works, you will appear on her list as well at some stage. Unless you have a punting FB account as well.

You also have a business arrangement with her like anyone else. Would you "out" your plumber or car mechanic? Same thing in my book.

[overdone]

Tell her & she might set up a different email for herself for work like greatsex at yahoo

[myothernameis]

Little Lori from Glasgow used to this, she often revealed very personal stuff about her self, and even invited some punter to friend request her on facebook

[OakTree]

I wouldn't give it a second thought. I wouldn't divulge it on here or inform her of how thick she is.

Sometimes it's just best watch the car crash of humanity from the safety of the kerb.

[daviemac]

If you've searched for her on facebook and she hasn't done anything other than be stupid enough to let you find it, it should be kept private.

I don't think you can post prossie's personal info on here anyway.

[milo]

I don't think you can post prossie's personal info on here anyway.

That does appear to be the case -

- Privacy of service providers
It is not allowed to post personal info of service providers, such as real names and personal social networking profiles.

There is a link to the site rules at the very bottom of every page.

[Hertsgent]

To be honest, and hope it's taken in good humour HP.....most of your punts reveal too much on AW.....in the form of a photo 

Hope the punting is going well though - yours are always a great read 

[Horizontal pleasures]

To be honest, and hope it's taken in good humour HP.....most of your punts reveal too much on AW.....in the form of a photo 

Hope the punting is going well though - yours are always a great read 

'like'

[daviemac]

That does appear to be the case - There is a link to the site rules at the very bottom of every page.

I know it's the case I was just being polite about it.   

[BlueRock]

I've seen lots of ladies who use a mobile number associated with their Facebook account, leave personal mail on display or just let things slip in conversation.
I'm often tempted to mention their poor security but am more worried they won't appreciate me knowing their real name. Personally OP I wouldn't divulge the ladies information.

[hullad]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

[Titti Tatti]

You have enjoyed good service from her and are considering returning.


I can see no reason whatsoever for outing her 'other' identity here or anywhere else.


It would take you a minute to set up a new Hotmail (other services....etc) address.  Anonymously tip her off about her error and you are making her life safer and ensuring she's still working next time you get that itch.

Being a punter doesn't mean you can't be a decent human being and look after your own interests at the same time.  If these thoughts make me a white knight, then I probably don't belong on here.

[Sheer Tights]

There is one WG who appears on AW now & again who uses the same email address on Linkedin. Turns out she owns an international property sales company & is a part time WG when in UK.

[bigmanbigman]

Hp thats kind of you you could just slip in as your barebacking her  i know your name age and face book
Interesting comment!

[joe diddley]

You surprisingly frequently see letters that are obviously for the girl in question near the front door if she works from a house with several flats. I don't stoop down or look at the table to see their names but my eyesight is good and I have clocked one or two of them. Haven't ever told the girl in question as that might lead to a freakout/meltdown.

[cueball]

You surprisingly frequently see letters that are obviously for the girl in question near the front door if she works from a house with several flats. I don't stoop down or look at the table to see their names but my eyesight is good and I have clocked one or two of them. Haven't ever told the girl in question as that might lead to a freakout/meltdown.

You're right there, I've noticed a few careless letters located about over the years. I too pay them no attention, ignore, but shake my head at the carelessness of some.

It's no good me trying to know their real names, I'm rubbish with names, I struggle to remember their work names, never mind their real ones.

I'm good with faces though 

[rubric]

I'd generally say nothing - you never know how someone is likely to react to such things.  In the past, I've mentioned this kind of thing a couple of times, but only ever to reasonably regular girls where I knew they weren't likely to take things the wrong way.

[Lizzie_Lockhart]

No good can come of posting her personal info on a public forum, the best advice so far has been to tip her off anonymously

xx

[smiths]

I saw and reviewed a lady not long ago and I was considering a return visit so I went back to the profile. I noticed that she cited an email address which partly included her name. I put the two parts of the name in the email address into Facebook and there she was, her life and her family and her husband and even the celebration of her renewed wedding vows.

I think she reveals too much.
Shall I reveal it here or be discreet?
Have you noticed other ladies doing this - giving away their real self in an email address or other thoughtless clue?

HP

Its not my business so I wouldn't do anything. A WG is an adult and responsible for her own security on this in my view.

Loads of WGs are VERY careless about giving me their real name etc, I don't want to know but some just cant stop themselves, I change the subject and move it on to what I am their for, to punt.

[Shearer1955]

Don't reveal anything on here but tell the lady so she can learn from it (as can others) 

[DrGFreeman]

Ive met girls who then appeared on my facebook feed with their real names and girls who use mobile number that link back to their personal lives. In both cases Ive warned them by email.

I do google mobile numbers and emails to see if they link to other accounts or ads. Multiple profiles being a bad sign.
I think anything beyond this is stalking.
Yes you could read names on mail in the hallway or check the electoral role for who lives at that address, but why ? what reason other than being a stalker would you have to do so ?  the girls personal life is absolutely none of your business.

[tantric talents]

I have also linked several girls to their Facebook account and even have one, long retired who has friended me and is engaged!
Stuff best kept private at all time IMO

[DrGFreeman]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

weirdo stalker !

[BlueRock]

That is a bit weird mate. I should get out more if I was you.

[cueball]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

Bloody hell, that's deep and a bit over the top imo 

I thought I were quite clever using googly earth when I've got a postcode 

[Plan R]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

Bloody hell your thorough ! 

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[myothernameis]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

There was a tv advert about Facebook, and why you should be careful with what you put on your page, most obvious things are; your name(including any second name you have), your date of birth(birthday), you might not put your address, but you will post photos, and which one of them is taken outside where you stay, you might have a photo of your mum, and she is named

All these details seeming can be used to order a credit card, or open a bank account

[Jamiethedodger]

I had a wg who ive seen several times and the last time i saw her she showed me some thailand holiday pics from her facebook. She scrolled to her homepage revealing full name and friends list

[dude86]

Saw a WG around 3 times and she was very chatty and friendly. Showed me her Instagram page for her day job (makeup artist) and her name was there right at the top. She's stopped her WG sideline now but I sometimes Google her real name to admire her cute face since she sometimes used herself to show off her makeup skills.

[hullad]

Bloody hell, that's deep and a bit over the top imo 

I thought I were quite clever using googly earth when I've got a postcode 

I set myself up there lol

I do geneology and I use those techniques in that a lot, I stated you can use the same route on the ladies. I have never used it to be honest, I am not that interested. A few different pictures can be helpful and that is what I am looking for.

It serves to demostrate how we all need to take security seriously both in this hobby and on the net generally.

[mikexxlong]

Its suprising how many ladies actually link in alsorts of crap, easy to look for info. I generally do a check up on them starting with phone numbers, FB is a great source of info. Also there are sites where you can check addresses, if you dont want to pay the local library will have copies of the electoral role for free. Once you have a name you can check everything, age, marriage, kids, CCJ, convictions etc . I just like upto date, untouched, proper photos and its for my use no one else,I do not pass on this sort of info.

fuck me

thats bit of a  wafer thin line between doing a bit of research on a pro$$ie to avoid wasted time/money and those creepy stalker types
 
why do you feel the need to stick your nose into their private life?

you state for untouched photos that maybe the case and you mean no harm

but regardless would you like it if whores did that to you via image recognition software, shady vehicle licence plate trace etc for their "safety" all possible these days!

i'm not keen on crossing lines, the punting world and the 'normal' regular  world should be kept separate
 there is a load of reasons for this not just to help prevent sinister/malicious acts

but consider this it might spoil your sexual fantasy of being balls deep in that pro$$ie that looks like sex on legs ,
if you find out she has non sexual health issues, orphaned, abused has a sick husband/mother/child and such like

one essential golden rule in this 'hobby' most will agree with is anonymity

[hullad]

fuck me

thats bit of a  wafer thin line between doing a bit of research on a pro$$ie to avoid wasted time/money and those creepy stalker types
 
why do you feel the need to stick your nose into their private life?

you state for untouched photos that maybe the case and you mean no harm

but regardless would you like it if whores did that to you via image recognition software, shady vehicle licence plate trace etc for their "safety" all possible these days!

i'm not keen on crossing lines, the punting world and the 'normal' regular  world should be kept separate
 there is a load of reasons for this not just to help prevent sinister/malicious acts

but consider this it might spoil your sexual fantasy of being balls deep in that pro$$ie that looks like sex on legs ,
if you find out she has non sexual health issues, orphaned, abused has a sick husband/mother/child and such like

one essential golden rule in this 'hobby' most will agree with is anonymity

Once more read me last post....

I do not look beyond a photo check and a fb phone check.

[mikexxlong]

Once more read me last post....

I do not look beyond a photo check and a fb phone check.

i read it and maybe so

[vw]

Once more read me last post....

I do not look beyond a photo check and a fb phone check.

photos often have friend and family members in, some of who you may know if local.

[Gordon Bennett]

I can't get my head around searching them out on the internet, even if you accidently or legitimately get hold of some of their personal data to search with. I even feel a bit creepy when I look up their post code on Google maps to do some reconnaissance on where I'll park up..... the thought of digging any further than that seems too weird and obsessive.

[Taggart]

I hardly think stringing together several items of publicly available information is stalking, not in the true sense. If you recall the TV series Hunted, they use the internet, social media etc to find people. I've used Google to track down people I ned to contact as part of my day job.

If a WG has not created a sufficiently anonymous identity, with a false name, not-traceable email and a punting phone, she is asking for trouble, but it could create far more shit for her and her family by outing her.  What would be the point?  While there is a temptation to find out more, both parties need to be discreet, respectful and maintain that discretion.

[jimbobted]

It's not just WGs. I was in a Brighton strip club last years(stag do). One of the girls I spent a few too many quid on took my number and put it into her phone with the promise of meeting up later. I was pretty drunk but knew it was a scam and that the call would never come.
But what did come 2 days later was her in the "people you may know" bit of Facebook. Her real name, googled it out of idle curiosity. She used to be a company director with her husband, so now I have her home address too. Silly cow had only gone and actually saved my number into her real phone!

[cardiffsdream]

many moons ago around 10 years ago booked a new lady in my area, and what happened you could not right it. i had just been to my local currys electrical store to pick up my laptop on the way to my booking with her served by a stunning young lady very chatty etc, anyway knocked her flat door around an hour later only for her to open the door i could have died. i became worried she new my name address mobile number , got talking to her and explained about confidentiality and she was ok about it just as worried as me , well turned into one of the best sessions i ever had carried on seeing her for a few months till she met some guy