Mayumi Surbiton.

[deek12345]

I saw this Thai lady about a month or more ago. Went expecting a massage with extras, and in effect I got that.

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The ad does not suggest FS.
A little bit older probably than the pic on above ad....but in good shape bodily.
Booked one hour. English variable but OK. We could talk to each other.
But, before hand got the run around described here by other(s).
Was given postcode, told to get close to her place then call for precise location.
Started texting her 15 mins before appointment, parked in a bay, but couldn't put money in meter where I was parked waiting 'cos wasn't sure of exactly where i needed to park in the end.
By now getting fed up - unanswered texts, and phone calls not answered. A bit after appointment time i finally get a text to ask if i can delay by an hour. I say no and drive off...since i had arranged the meeting about 5 hrs previously. She had plenty of time to work out her diary.
I get home - apologetic texts from her - emergency situation etc. I half/quarter believe her, but she probably just wanted to squeeze another guy in and make me wait, or was shopping.
So, calmer by now, i agree to meet next day. Appointment arranged for 11.00.
At about 10.00 she texts to ask that, since it's RAINING, can we delay to 13.00 and i agree. What difference does rain make ???. This is a lady who has already messed me about the previous day, resulting in some very irate texts from me. But i have no other plans so I think why not. ?
Get there. Nice friendly welcome. Then while I strip and for longer than that, she faffs around talking to a flat mate in the kitchen for a bit. Then comes back.

She strips, has nice slim body, kisses, hug.

Massage starts, but with two phones lying on a chair right by my head. BAD sign. I fear the worst.
Massage Ok...but not much sexy stroking. Like her mind is elsewhere and not focussed on getting me aroused.
At one point, I am on my stomach, i notice she's only using one hand in a half hearted fashion. I look round, she's holding and checking her phone. I tell her that's not acceptable. She stops.
Anyway she has a nice body. We get to RO and she likes it, very appreciative, then OWO (not CIM). She's friendly and obliging generally and we get on OK mostly.
But still - she is nipping off out of the room for some reason a few times which breaks the continuity and is irritating.
She doesn't seem to be engaged with a full hour of concentrating on what's happening.
CONCLUSION. ??  All in all, the switching of times, TWO days running (really bad manners), the use of the phone, the on/off attitude (but always with a smile), means she really needs to get her act together, and start focussing on what the client wants, which ain't hard to achieve.
Provide what's agreed, stick to the agreed appointment, be ready on time, give a full hour and give a focussed approach to client during all of the agreed time.

If she did all these things, since she's a friendly pleasant lady, nice slim body, who is not reluctant about the job she's doing, she would be someone you want to go back to. But, unless she has changed since i saw her, she has a way to go yet to reach that.

Afterwards...I text her to say how unsatisfactory it was.....even though she provided what was agreed. She seems genuinely upset that I am not happy about the meeting, since we were friendly during the appointment.

She is not a cold, sour reluctant provider, just a bit distracted and disorganised and i guess some would be content with that. So I've made it neutral rather than negative

[Elsewhere]

She is not a cold, sour reluctant provider, just a bit distracted and disorganised and i guess some would be content with that.

Distracted and disorganised?
The fact is, if you are booked between X o'clock and Y o'clock. You are paying for her time for that hour and should have her undivided attention during the time you have paid for.

IMO - short of the house being on fire, or something of a similar nature, there are very few reasons that anyone should be even looking at their phone during your booking.   Maybe for security processes, or while you are in the shower, or dressing at the end, but mid-booking?  Not acceptable.

[fredpunter]

Can you tell us what you paid please?

[markfin]

On Saturday I visited a Japanese girl on Brighton Rd called Mayu who advertised on Gumtree

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I'm guessing it must be the same one?

Ok b2b was £65. Nothing too special so I probably won't return


I saw this Thai lady about a month or more ago. Went expecting a massage with extras, and in effect I got that.

External Link/Members Only

The ad does not suggest FS.
A little bit older probably than the pic on above ad....but in good shape bodily.
Booked one hour. English variable but OK. We could talk to each other.
But, before hand got the run around described here by other(s).
Was given postcode, told to get close to her place then call for precise location.
Started texting her 15 mins before appointment, parked in a bay, but couldn't put money in meter where I was parked waiting 'cos wasn't sure of exactly where i needed to park in the end.
By now getting fed up - unanswered texts, and phone calls not answered. A bit after appointment time i finally get a text to ask if i can delay by an hour. I say no and drive off...since i had arranged the meeting about 5 hrs previously. She had plenty of time to work out her diary.
I get home - apologetic texts from her - emergency situation etc. I half/quarter believe her, but she probably just wanted to squeeze another guy in and make me wait, or was shopping.
So, calmer by now, i agree to meet next day. Appointment arranged for 11.00.
At about 10.00 she texts to ask that, since it's RAINING, can we delay to 13.00 and i agree. What difference does rain make ???. This is a lady who has already messed me about the previous day, resulting in some very irate texts from me. But i have no other plans so I think why not. ?
Get there. Nice friendly welcome. Then while I strip and for longer than that, she faffs around talking to a flat mate in the kitchen for a bit. Then comes back.

She strips, has nice slim body, kisses, hug.

Massage starts, but with two phones lying on a chair right by my head. BAD sign. I fear the worst.
Massage Ok...but not much sexy stroking. Like her mind is elsewhere and not focussed on getting me aroused.
At one point, I am on my stomach, i notice she's only using one hand in a half hearted fashion. I look round, she's holding and checking her phone. I tell her that's not acceptable. She stops.
Anyway she has a nice body. We get to RO and she likes it, very appreciative, then OWO (not CIM). She's friendly and obliging generally and we get on OK mostly.
But still - she is nipping off out of the room for some reason a few times which breaks the continuity and is irritating.
She doesn't seem to be engaged with a full hour of concentrating on what's happening.
CONCLUSION. ??  All in all, the switching of times, TWO days running (really bad manners), the use of the phone, the on/off attitude (but always with a smile), means she really needs to get her act together, and start focussing on what the client wants, which ain't hard to achieve.
Provide what's agreed, stick to the agreed appointment, be ready on time, give a full hour and give a focussed approach to client during all of the agreed time.

If she did all these things, since she's a friendly pleasant lady, nice slim body, who is not reluctant about the job she's doing, she would be someone you want to go back to. But, unless she has changed since i saw her, she has a way to go yet to reach that.

Afterwards...I text her to say how unsatisfactory it was.....even though she provided what was agreed. She seems genuinely upset that I am not happy about the meeting, since we were friendly during the appointment.

She is not a cold, sour reluctant provider, just a bit distracted and disorganised and i guess some would be content with that. So I've made it neutral rather than negative
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[deek12345]

yep...same address.

I don't think she has any intention of taking you for all she can get...or can get away with. The average service she provides is not because it is calculated.

Pleasant enough cheerful lady - just not very with it. Does not seem tuned what a good experience for a client requires.

But, what she does provide (as an independent) is more than you would get in many massage parlours, even where you asked for it, so the massage + extras with her would be OK for many...and not bad value.

[fredpunter]

yep...same address.

I don't think she has any intention of taking you for all she can get...or can get away with. The average service she provides is not because it is calculated.

Pleasant enough cheerful lady - just not very with it. Does not seem tuned what a good experience for a client requires.

But, what she does provide (as an independent) is more than you would get in many massage parlours, even where you asked for it, so the massage + extras with her would be OK for many...and not bad value.

We would be better able to judge the value if you told us what you paid

[deek12345]

Going from memory......i think it was £85......it was a while ago. You would be wise to check in advance what you get for your money. One of the links in the posts above (not in mine)...gives a page with a guide to prices. I guess YMMV ??