How to avoid thinking with the little brain right at the start of a punt.

[lovemachine]

There has been a number of times just before I hand over the cash where there have been little signs or actions or even things said by the wg that I notice that should really make me walk but instead my little brain is either liking what it sees or is just too horny or any other reason and I go through with the punt. How do you guys think with a clear head at this critical point.

[Zimbaman]

I've not managed that yet. I find it impossible. With me though it tends to be that I don't want to hurt the girls feelings so go ahead with a punt even when I'd rather not. Need to find a good way of bailing when the need arises. Will be interested to hear what others say...

[Jonestown]

Try to think of the wasted money, about how gutted you are going to feel afterwards when you have to admit to yourself that you should have had the gumption to say something like, sorry this is going to work for me, and made for the door. I've only managed to do it a few times but I have to say it is empowering to do.

[YorkshireLad]

I find it hard to walk. If I'm not happy with the WG for whatever reason, I'll pay for 15 mins & fuck her as hard as I can, no point being gentle with them if they are messing you about.

[ciderhead]

I turned up for a punt once and the girl looked nothing like her pictures and my interest was lost instantly, I quickly thought of a excuse and told her I had forgot my money and would go away and call her later. by the time I had got to my car I was congratulating myself for saving my well earned money for another day 

[BogBog1]

I've only managed it a few times. It's really hard and it shouldn't be... the most recent time was very empowering, I agree, I felt such relief AND went for my plan B which wasn't the best punt ever but definitely a lot better thanthe plan A would have been that's for sure. The tme I regret the most was last December in Sheffield - the oor opened and I was greeted by a stoney-faced lump of a middle-aged Romanian (rather than the "busty horny MILF" the description promised)... I was short of time, had taken a blue pill was and basically desperate, so I handed over the money like a twat and went ahead. Dreadful, and I felt depressed for the rest of the day.

[smiths]

There has been a number of times just before I hand over the cash where there have been little signs or actions or even things said by the wg that I notice that should really make me walk but instead my little brain is either liking what it sees or is just too horny or any other reason and I go through with the punt. How do you guys think with a clear head at this critical point.

I have a plan B option so find it much easier to walk never just thinking with my cock nowadays. If I have any doubt I walk.

[HornyHemel]

When seeing a WG I haven't seen before, I always confirm the services on offer.  If she then says that she doesn't do WS (for example), then it gives me a great reason to walk which I have done numerous times over recent years. 

I have learnt the hard way though and wasted plenty of cash on shite punts when WG's have failed to deliver services promised on the phone after letting my cock rule my brain!

[Bud$]

I've not done it yet on an AW booking, partly because if I'd made a formal booking they might be able to post a 'negative' about me and that might mean I would be seen by some WG's on there. However, I've done it many times when it's been a 'just turn up' situation with a flat, when the girl has been either un-attractive to me, or un-willing to do some simple, basic service or seems bored or unpleasant. I have to say this isn't always the case and not too long ago, maybe 18 months, I turned up at a flat and the 'girl' loosely called was an older Thai woman who wasn't in any way pleasing to the eye, but seeing as I just wanted a HJ I went ahead and I enjoyed it. She was smiley, giggly and clearly enjoyed what she was doing.

[mrhappypants]

THIS IS A VERY GOOD TOPIC

For me this fits under a broader heading of TOFTT.  Qualification in the room is a key punting skill.  I have managed this on a handful of occassions.  Of the five, I have walked on three occassions due to declined services or unadvertised extras, but I have also done it for both attitude and looks.

The following help. 

I no longer do speculative punts which require a lot of time or effort to get there - I MINIMISE my upfront investment.

I have a short checklist of key criteria that she MUST meet to go ahead.  Mine is

- do I instantly want to fuck her (looks, attitude and presentation),
- does she smile (and make me feel welcome), and
- (holding the money in my hand) I explain politely that we have not met before and ask her to confirm services and cost.  I have a checklist of just the key services (CIM always, but also others that may have led to the booking) that are none negotiable.  I may stump up for an unadvertised extra if it is not unreasonable.  If the service story shifts significantly from confirmation it is a major red flag and I consider walking.

I need three ticks to go ahead with the punt.  I have this front of mind when I am TOFTT, and I rehearse in my head after I get the final text and as I approach the front door.

I have no experience of how to manage this on Out-call. I am very interested to read the contributions of some the heavyweight punters on the board to this thread.
 

[lovemachine]

I do not normally find walking away a problem,its ONLY when your thinking with your cock. Often they say no to OWO/FK, or cum once only policy when you are there and I think all the time its taken to get ready, travel there and back etc and she looks ok so I stupidly still go ahead.

[billybobsmith]

I've not walked yet but had a gut feeling on a few that has turned out to be right.
As others have said, sometimes you're horny and a shag's a shag and if I've made the effort to get scrubbed up, drive to her etc., I don't really want to end up wandering back to me car with an erection.

Once you've handed the cash over, unless you're willing to cause a major scene that may or may not get you anywhere, the woman can and sometimes does whatever she feels like.  I have left once or twice part way through willing to take the loss, but other times I'll see things through to completion but make her work for it.

[jame75]

Done it on a bait and switch.

[mrfishyfoo]

THIS IS A VERY GOOD TOPIC

For me this fits under a broader heading of TOFTT.  Qualification in the room is a key punting skill.  I have managed this on a handful of occassions.  Of the five, I have walked on three occassions due to declined services or unadvertised extras, but I have also done it for both attitude and looks.

The following help. 

I no longer do speculative punts which require a lot of time or effort to get there - I MINIMISE my upfront investment.

I have a short checklist of key criteria that she MUST meet to go ahead.  Mine is

- do I instantly want to fuck her (looks, attitude and presentation),
- does she smile (and make me feel welcome), and
- (holding the money in my hand) I explain politely that we have not met before and ask her to confirm services and cost.  I have a checklist of just the key services (CIM always, but also others that may have led to the booking) that are none negotiable.  I may stump up for an unadvertised extra if it is not unreasonable.  If the service story shifts significantly from confirmation it is a major red flag and I consider walking.

I need three ticks to go ahead with the punt.  I have this front of mind when I am TOFTT, and I rehearse in my head after I get the final text and as I approach the front door.

I have no experience of how to manage this on Out-call. I am very interested to read the contributions of some the heavyweight punters on the board to this thread.
 

I ALWAYS speak to a lass before making a booking and I always get it confirmed by text what was discussed before agreeing to the booking.

Then it's even simpler for me

1. Is she the lass in the pictures ?? If she is then I already fancy her.
2. Does she snog my face off as soon as I see her. The only exception to my snogging rule is if the lass is so fucking fit I just want to fuck her regardless.

If the lass starts asking for money and the points 1 and 2 haven't been adhered to I walk !!! If points 1 and 2 have been adhered to I hand over the cash if she's a newbie to me unless she's a regular then I never pay till the end.

I have told lasses to go away when they have arrived for an outcall and points 1 and 2 have not been adhered to.
 

[Steely Dan]

Not sure I agree the rules of happyp or fishy, but I agree 100% the mind set.  The way to avoid thinking with emotion is routine and habit formation.  Choose a routine and keep to it.  As you sit in your car waiting for the text, review your plan for the first 3 minutes.  Plan it carefully for your next punt.  And the next.  While to form a true habit is said to take 21 days, I think that after only 4 or 5 punts you will do this without thinking about it too deeply.

[cunningman]

I turned up at a flat and the 'girl' loosely called was an older Thai woman who wasn't in any way pleasing to the eye, but seeing as I just wanted a HJ I went ahead and I enjoyed it. She was smiley, giggly and clearly enjoyed what she was doing.

I've had enough good services from the 'plain-but-up-for-it girl next door' that I try to see past 'she's not so pretty' or 'she's older and looks it'.  I guess a lot of it is what you expect.  I like OWO and CIM but I've found I'm OK without so long as I know that's the score before I arrange.  A lot of disappointment seems to be related to bad comms, fraudulent service claims, or just unrealistic expectations of how hot she's going to look.  And a lot of that is facial or tummy - its rather superficial.  Once I'm happily down between her thighs, I'm not so bothered - far more bothered about 'no fingers' really.  So long as the lady isn't so pudgy you can't find the clit and hole with your tongue, anyway: I have a problem with that.

Short form: older woman who's up for it beats a youngster Who's Gorgeous And Knows It.
For me, anyway.  Most of the time: sometimes I wish Nicole Polish was back in Bedford, neutral and occasionally grumpy or not. [GFE?  That's not what I meant ...]

[mrfishyfoo]

.......Choose a routine and keep to it.

Exactly 

[Trotter671]

Thankfully only happened a couple of times to me but have been B&S so have walked and kept my money in my pocket for another day.

[mikexxlong]

can be a hard one, not always as easy as you would really think strangely

it would be made easier as smiths said, have a plan B all ready to go,
so if any doubt and you walk, no hanging around wondering what to do with yourself maybe making rash decisions potently still wasting your punting tokens

or perhaps turning up to a punt without your bollocks at bursting point and your dick getting hard when the breeze blows
and being in a position where your on such a tight budget to the point of almost not really being able to afford to spend that kind of money on a whore,
 
that would make you think harder about am i really going get my moneys worth ,is she really worth the cost ,what's the chance of walking away after the punt feeling fulfilled
or would it be a needless waste of money

but then it begs the question should you be punting

[stampjones]

Not sure I agree the rules of happyp or fishy, but I agree 100% the mind set.  The way to avoid thinking with emotion is routine and habit formation.  Choose a routine and keep to it.  As you sit in your car waiting for the text, review your plan for the first 3 minutes.  Plan it carefully for your next punt.  And the next.  While to form a true habit is said to take 21 days, I think that after only 4 or 5 punts you will do this without thinking about it too deeply.

Thats exactly what I do when I think there's a chance I should really leave. If I dont I'm ultra susceptible to little brain syndrome. Only problem is I think I psyched myself too much on at least a couple of occasions and walked only to think, hang on, actually I should have stayed.

I think we have a perfect right to walk under reasonable circumstances. Obviously B/S etc but also if you just dont fancy her in the flesh. Its a transaction based on attraction and the girls should factor in that a few punts wont work out. Encourage them to ensure their profiles are as close to reality as possible.

On the other side I find it a real letdown when I have to walk. Prossies probably think we are real timewasters or whatever when we do it, but at the end of the day we'd all much prefer not to have to!

As to "reasons": I used to have a few standards I used but I got bored with the effort and now I just tell them the truth whatever that might be

[Neal69]

but then it begs the question should you be punting

Good point.

As I have said before I am less obsessed with looks and shape and more obsessed with attitude and willingness of services delivered.

I have not walked yet but when I was tempted to due to what I thought were TW tactics it turned out to be a great punt and time was not really a consideration for her and we went well over time.

The only B&S I have experienced The Switch was so cute that She was probably hotter than the one I booked so went ahead and thoroughly enjoyed.

The Negatives I have reviewed on here have generally been all about attitude as if I have booked them then I have generally fancied them give or take a few years or a few pounds ( weight that is) 

N