What is the best way of 'hinting' that you want extras?

[horsa]

What is the best way of hinting [without directly asking] to the girl that you want extras during a massage? I have visited a girl recently who I've been told does offer extras but not until meet 2 or 3.

Or do I ask her directly? hoping that she doesn't get offended and chuck you out. I'm hoping that my stonking hard-on will be enough of a signal for her!!

[Stapler]

There is already a thread on here on the very subject. Scroll down to find it.

[horsa]

please DELETE thread then ADMIN

[fredpunter]

Putting your hand up their skirt usually gets the message across

[Jonestown]

If you haven't got the gumption to open your mouth and ask her you could always write it down and pass it to her discretely, maybe just disguise your handwriting in case the note somehow falls into the wrong hands.

[Plan R]

Mime

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Works every time

[scutty brown]

Most girls usually ask what kind of massage you'd like, simply reply "stiff and happy" (or "soft and happy" if that's your preference)

[pewpewpew]

I actually think you hit the nail on the head in the question. If she does extras and you have a magnificent boner she will offer simple as that

[Cum_again]

Genuine question,

Why don't you just go and see a prostitute?

[Blyton90]

Genuine question,

Why don't you just go and see a prostitute?

I'm sure OP, like myself, likes the idea of a massage at a proper massage place with a happy ending. I have no interest in seeing a prostitute but love the thought of getting a good massage with a hand job finish.

[Keema]

 - you don't want to see a prostitute on a punting forum? Pull up a chair you'll fit right in.

[stayer]

I have no interest in seeing a prostitute but love the thought of getting a good massage with a hand job finish.

A woman who gets paid to provide a sexual service is a prostitute.

[Blyton90]

I'm still getting used to all this. 

[Blyton90]

I meant I'm more interested in girls who only give hand jobs. Not full sex. I appreciate they're still technically prostitutes. Blame it on the fact I've only been part of this world for a couple of weeks.

[OakTree]

I meant I'm more interested in girls who only give hand jobs. Not full sex. I appreciate they're still technically prostitutes. Blame it on the fact I've only been part of this world for a couple of weeks.

Obviously you can try and hunt down a masseuse that will give a happy ending but it's far more easier to just book with a WG and just tell her all you want is a hand job.

If you go to a prostitute and tell her all you want is a handjob then that is what you'll get.

[sparkus]

1. Lay naked on table, no boxers.
2. Hands at head of table, pointed to crotch.
3. Yes, I've been here before.
4. Massage not too hard please.

I've been doing this years, it doesn't fail (unless legit place, even then probably happened twice).

[maxxblue]

1. Lay naked on table, no boxers.
2. Hands at head of table, pointed to crotch.
3. Yes, I've been here before.
4. Massage not too hard please.

I've been doing this years, it doesn't fail (unless legit place, even then probably happened twice).

Good advice - similar experiences to myself, sparkus.

[hullad]

Ask if she repairs clocks....

You want two hands on this ........

[Chuckman]

Ask if she's in the construction industry and if she's had any experience with erections.

[stampjones]

1. Lay naked on table, no boxers.
2. Hands at head of table, pointed to crotch.
3. Yes, I've been here before.
4. Massage not too hard please.

I've been doing this years, it doesn't fail (unless legit place, even then probably happened twice).

Yep - Seconded. I'd add that whenever she goes anywhere near your ass or balls give a little groan or move your legs wider apart. TBH most of the time you will be asked regardless of what you do (see every joint in soho)

[Vincero]

You can just do what I did when I went seeing Fern Thai massage ,get a massive hard on. Soon found out she's not doing HE anymore

Vin

[Roth]

A woman who gets paid to provide a sexual service is a prostitute.

+1   Yep. A masseuse who sells massage and offers a wank or a BJ is a prossie. Simples.

For some reason a few punters and masseuses think different. But there only kidding
themselves.

[Thecunninglinguist]

Ask if she repairs clocks....

You want two hands on this ........

And a face........

[James999]

What is the best way of hinting [without directly asking] to the girl that you want extras during a massage? I have visited a girl recently who I've been told does offer extras but not until meet 2 or 3.

Or do I ask her directly? hoping that she doesn't get offended and chuck you out. I'm hoping that my stonking hard-on will be enough of a signal for her!!

A few signs that may give her the hint

1. If you start wanking
2. Slide your hand inside her knickers and finger her

[James999]

I'm sure OP, like myself, likes the idea of a massage at a proper massage place with a happy ending. I have no interest in seeing a prostitute but love the thought of getting a good massage with a hand job finish.

Deluded twat, if she tosses you off and you pay her she's a Pro$$ie 

[pewpewpew]

Deluded twat, if she tosses you off and you pay her she's a Pro$$ie 

Some people prefer to start at the shallow end and go deeper as time goes on. I'm sure by the end of the year he'll have a bbw shitting in his mouth while a tranny wanks him off. Like the rest of us

[pewpewpew]

1. Lay naked on table, no boxers.
2. Hands at head of table, pointed to crotch.
3. Yes, I've been here before.
4. Massage not too hard please.

I've been doing this years, it doesn't fail (unless legit place, even then probably happened twice).

Hands pointed at her crotch or tour own? Can't imagine the mechanics of hands up pointing down being comfortable.

[BP96]

Hands pointed at her crotch or tour own? Can't imagine the mechanics of hands up pointing down being comfortable.

This confused me too.

Can we have a diagram?

[fredpunter]

This confused me too.

Can we have a diagram?

or maybe a photo

[sparkus]

Sorry, her crotch - as in your hands will be in prime position to brush against her crotch IF she starts at the head of the table and IF she leans in.  Once or twice I have been firmly told to put them by my side to prevent that from happening, but the vast majority of the times it's seen as a sign by the masseuse that you're there for what she thinks you are and occasionally she will lean in hard so your fingers can do the talking.

Sometimes the reaction has been surprising i.e. girl pulling her leggings down from the off of starting the massage and ending up being fingered while doing it.

If you leave your hands at your sides then she may either brush her legs or crotch against them when working from that side, but that doesn't happen so much in my experience.

Seriously, at the the head of the table, always 

[BP96]

Her crotch? I grab her ass. As long as I've received sufficient encouragement beforehand that is...

[sparkus]

Her crotch? I grab her ass. As long as I've received sufficient encouragement beforehand that is...

I'm talking of where I put my hands after lying down from the off, to complete strangers and with no discussions/signs yet.  Naturally they do wander when encouraged!

A lot of shops are well known and their staff know what men are there for, I've been laid face down and seen through the face hole in the table that after only a few strokes she's removing her clothes.  I wonder what men who are there legitimately and refuse HE say to that!

[monstar]

I have only been for a massage from an AW girl with extras explicitly on the menu and confirmed first so don't have much first hand experience, but stripping naked rather than leaving on underwear is often suggested.

I'd like to try a massage place, the 'will she, won't she?' must add to the excitement and getting that not guaranteed extra is more of a thrill. The leaving without extras offered​ would be hard to deal with (no pun intended!) and a disappointing and frustrating experience though. 

[Victor7522]

Easy - I say that I want body to body massage at the very start before I get undressed. If they say no (or that'll be £60:00 or more) then I leave.

[sparkus]

I have only been for a massage from an AW girl with extras explicitly on the menu and confirmed first so don't have much first hand experience, but stripping naked rather than leaving on underwear is often suggested.

I'd like to try a massage place, the 'will she, won't she?' must add to the excitement and getting that not guaranteed extra is more of a thrill. The leaving without extras offered​ would be hard to deal with (no pun intended!) and a disappointing and frustrating experience though. 

Disappointing, frustrating and costly because you end up going elsewhere straight after to compensate.

That said, the one or two regulars I've explained this to have been very accommodating/generous as a result, so it all balances out 

[joe diddley]

Disappointing, frustrating and costly because you end up going elsewhere straight after to compensate.

That said, the one or two regulars I've explained this to have been very accommodating/generous as a result, so it all balances out 

If you're in Soho or Chinatown you could compensate cheaply enough for £20 for a handjob (even FS in one position or oral) at one of the walkups there.

[stampjones]

Sorry, her crotch - as in your hands will be in prime position to brush against her crotch IF she starts at the head of the table and IF she leans in.  Once or twice I have been firmly told to put them by my side to prevent that from happening, but the vast majority of the times it's seen as a sign by the masseuse that you're there for what she thinks you are and occasionally she will lean in hard so your fingers can do the talking.

Sometimes the reaction has been surprising i.e. girl pulling her leggings down from the off of starting the massage and ending up being fingered while doing it.

If you leave your hands at your sides then she may either brush her legs or crotch against them when working from that side, but that doesn't happen so much in my experience.

Seriously, at the the head of the table, always 

I agree with you and definitely recommend this. Theyre not going to place their crotch against your hands unless they expect you to do something about it but its quite erotic I think as there's something "forbidden" about it. Works for me anyway

[stampjones]

I have only been for a massage from an AW girl with extras explicitly on the menu and confirmed first so don't have much first hand experience, but stripping naked rather than leaving on underwear is often suggested.

I'd like to try a massage place, the 'will she, won't she?' must add to the excitement and getting that not guaranteed extra is more of a thrill. The leaving without extras offered​ would be hard to deal with (no pun intended!) and a disappointing and frustrating experience though. 

It is very good imo but you have to accept that its not the same as seeing an escort. Its likely that you'll only get HE plus some level of groping. Of course some place do offer more, FS or BJ but its the minority.

So why go? It gives something different in the same way I imagine being whipped or whatever might. Like you say there is nothing quite like that will she wont she. But once youve been to most of the shops it gets harder and harder to get that as you pretty much know straight off she will. So to get it you need to take more risks, go to more legit places that you might come away with nothing. Its all a balance.

In the end, if you are into it, its great, if not probably a waste of time.

[Blyton90]

Deluded twat, if she tosses you off and you pay her she's a Pro$$ie 

Go fuck yourself mate.

[sparkus]

Agree entirely stampjones. Never do 'regular' punts these days.

I'm so into the hobby I always try out new TCM if I see them in other parts of London when passing, hence getting the will she/won't she thrill.

[mediumjoe]

Enid me old fruit,  you've been here five minutes, okay he wasn't very subtle but if you want to last another five minutes probably best not trying to piss people off .

Beginning to think you  weren't serious when you answer this with "yes boss "

You're likely to be banned for being a silly arse who doesn't listen to advice ... be grateful for the advice you've received ... then keep your gob shut till you are ready to contribute something useful and don't slag off the existing membership ... then you will be welcome.

[James999]

Go fuck yourself mate.

Is that the best you've got? You sound like a 14 year old kid 

[Jimmyredcab]

I'm sure OP, like myself, likes the idea of a massage at a proper massage place with a happy ending. I have no interest in seeing a prostitute but love the thought of getting a good massage with a hand job finish.

If she wanks you off then she is a prostitute --------------- what part of that is hard to understand.   

[Brazilian Martian]

Some people prefer to start at the shallow end and go deeper as time goes on. I'm sure by the end of the year he'll have a bbw shitting in his mouth while a tranny wanks him off. Like the rest of us

[stampjones]

Agree entirely stampjones. Never do 'regular' punts these days.

I'm so into the hobby I always try out new TCM if I see them in other parts of London when passing, hence getting the will she/won't she thrill.

I noticed you get around mate and definitely appreciate the feedback you post - wish Icould too but I'm pretty much limited to central london.

[Blyton90]

Is that the best you've got? You sound like a 14 year old kid 

I wouldn't know mate. I don't associate with 14 year old kids.

[Blyton90]

If she wanks you off then she is a prostitute --------------- what part of that is hard to understand.   

Like I said before. I've never been part of this scene. Only last couple of weeks.  So forgive me if I'm not completely up to date with the correct terminology.  I'm sure you know everything there was to know the first time you ever ventured into the world of paying for sex.

[Blyton90]

Enid me old fruit,  you've been here five minutes, okay he wasn't very subtle but if you want to last another five minutes probably best not trying to piss people off .

Beginning to think you  weren't serious when you answer this with "yes boss "

If I get banned because I don't keep my mouth shut then so be it. But I'm not going to sit quietly in the corner and not reply to something that's been thrown at me.

If the admins see reason and decide to ban me, I'll take it on the chin and move on. But you're not an admin. So let's leave it there.

[scutty brown]

OP's reported the thread asking for it to be deleted....he obviously doesn't like what he's started

[James999]

I'm not completely up to date with the correct terminology. 

The term Prostitute is not an "up to date term" it was around before you were born 

Is your first name Enid?