Good questions to ask first time

[curiousgrunt]

New guy just looking for check this out with some more experienced people. The info on this board has already been great for getting me started.

I found my first punt on adultwork, gave her a call last night to arrange it but aside from agreeing that the time I wanted was available, there was no exchange of details.

Is this normal? I expected her to ask a few basic questions about me. Do some providers really not care that much?

To be honest, it's worried me that I'm just going to get robbed when I get there!

I've searched for their name on these boards and there's no reviews, good or bad. They only have two reviews on AW but they were both positive.

Does this sounds reasonable for you?

I didn't have much to ask her either, I was expecting her to ask me questions and when she didn't, I was a little thrown. Also tired out from work and now I regret I didn't have a bunch of questions ready to try and sound her out a bit.

From the site I know what she's about and her limits, price etc already so not a lot more I need to know.

So, help me out. What's some good things to check that wouldn't be in a profile online? What things do you often ask and what things do you wish you'd asked that caught out later?

thanks.

[Roth]

Link?

[Mr Kent (Not AW)]

I doubt she is looking for love so questions about you may be irrelevant, but you never know, perhaps she might want to know your aspirations in life, if you are going anywhere nice this year ? if she asks you what you are thinking..............run a mile.

[sloopjohnb]

They really don't care. Turn up, be clean and polite, pay, fuck, fuck off - and they're happy.

What you do need to do is check for reviews here and post a link ( and a review afterwards  ).

[JimmySW]

Ignore AW reviews as they're almost always +ve, if they are -ve then run like fuck!

You can trust most of the reviews on here and if you're unsure it's always a good idea to check, put the girls unique number into the box at the top right and see what comes up.

When you've seen a girl come back here and do a review!

[vw]

Do you have a link for this one, will give you an honest opinion on her.

Best if luck and welcome anyway.

[southampton.guy]

yes welcome.

some girls will just take a booking but some may ask for a bit of info or for you to book via AW, especially if you have no or little feedback yourself. Remember they too can find themselves in a vulnerable postion.

However from your point of view, if asked, don.t give too much information away and NEVER any personal info that could identify you. I have only been a member here for a couple of months (but long time punter) and previuosly relied on AW feedback. It sometimes can be useful. See who has left her feedback and who in turn has left them feedback.

sometimes you can see a pattern of say 3 feedbacks from guys with 3 feedbacks themselves. If you check them out, you might find they all have feedback from the same 3 girls and the girls have feedback from just the same 3 guys. That is obviusly rigged and is a huge warning sign.

If you check out other girls in the area, especially those that have been around a long time and with a lot of feedback, you may see the same guys giving feedback to a number of different girls over the last 2 or 3 years. and they in turn have feedback from a number of other long term Escorts. this suggests that they are at least genuine punters and i take a little more notice of their feedback.

But generally, take great care. Most escorts are at least genuine working girls (and may or may not provide good service) but there are a few scammers out there. Make sure the most you can loose is the cash you are taking to pay her. And make sure you have a seperate punting phone. 

[Spunky34]

From the site I know what she's about and her limits, price etc already so not a lot more I need to know.

So, help me out. What's some good things to check that wouldn't be in a profile online? What things do you often ask and what things do you wish you'd asked that caught out later?

thanks.

In my view, the best things to ask are actually statements of what you are after, posted as a question:

"Are you free for half an hour's booking at 3pm?"
"I'm just looking for oral without, finishing with CIM - is that OK?"
"And the fee is £x, isn't it?"

If you are polite and matter of fact you won't come across as a time waster.  I know it's weird when you first start, but these girls are doing a job, they don't want your life story. 

One other point from your post, you said you were worried about being robbed.  If that's a genuine fear, or if for any reason at all you think things seem dodgy, cancel the booking and try again with someone else.  No point taking the risk.

[pking_paul]

I got partially scammed in the NE where I'm working a lot lately. Should have realised as she asked nothing at all.

I find the polite exchanges as discussed above help to keep things clear enough, but if they don't speak English you can get all kinds of crap asked!

So a few very general questions are good, but as said, no personal details whatsoever!!

[ico23]

If it's your first punt I would look out for someone well reviewed on here rather than base your choice on any AW review.  I saw a girl once who had lots of good feedback on AW and it was one of the worst times I've ever had. Absolute shocker. You have to remember that many will just put a bit of good feedback in for it to be reciprocated.

Oh, and if it so happens she's Romanian with only two feedback give it a wide berth.

[curiousgrunt]

Thanks everyone, great info and advice.

The lovely lady has confirmed the booking, I had to chase her to check but my first Punt is booked!

I'll leave a review on here once it's over.

[vw]

Thanks everyone, great info and advice.

The lovely lady has confirmed the booking, I had to chase her to check but my first Punt is booked!

I'll leave a review on here once it's over.

Hope it goes well, look forward to the review.   

[southampton.guy]

curiuosgrunt - make you own mind up about ANY reviews - whether on AW or on here. Its probably true to say that there is a bias towards positive feedback on AW but its also probbaly true to say there is a bias towards "negative" on here - and of course ANY review comes with a similar warning as they put on car MOT's - it only represents the examiners view based on specific day/time seen. In other words, because someone here or on AW says i had a good time does not necessarily mean you will. And the reverse is true.

I find reviews on here useful for adding to the information I build on a girl before i decide to see her or not. Obviously any info re scams, B&S etc  (and yes, more likely to be reported here than AW) is really useful.