What do you reply when you get the cancellation?

[Neal69]

I usually just text back OK.

I feel this is abrupt enough to voice my displeasure but stops short of being abusive.

I do not get involved in all the other bollocks.

What about the rest of you?

N

[Justanotheruser]

If it was last minute probably nothing. If it was with plenty of time - ok, no worries 

Everyone has to change plans sometimes. I know I do. Obviously that standpoint changes if it happens twice.

[McSwell]

I usually just text back OK.

I feel this is abrupt enough to voice my displeasure but stops short of being abusive.

I do not get involved in all the other bollocks.

What about the rest of you?

N

If your pissed off with her you could try;

" That's  OK, I was just about to text you and cancel. You were my second choice the  first choice girl has just confirmed that she's  available.  She's  prettier than you, she charges less than you and she's  10 years younger  than you.
I'll get back in touch next time I'm desperate, thanks again"

 

Of course you may need to adjust the age comment so you don't seem like a perv.


McSwell

[Neal69]

I was thinking more of the last minute or rather last our cancellations.

[mrhappypants]

Assuming I have not left the house I ALWAYS text back thanking the girl for letting me know and saying I hope to reorganise soon - thereby encouraging rather than punishing the "right" behaviour. 

I have only ever had one girl who was so late I left the scene before she sent the flat details - effectively cancelling without notice - and I texted her letting her know I would be posting a negative review (which I did).

I think it is more constructive to post a review than send a text.

[threechilliman]

Assuming I have not left the house I ALWAYS text back thanking the girl for letting me know and saying I hope to reorganise soon - thereby encouraging rather than punishing the "right" behaviour. 

It also gives her three green light to know your easily bumped for a reg......

I had one girl send quite a lengthy cancellation message, to which I didn't respond at all.

tcm

[Silver Birch]

I know this will come back to haunt me, but I have not yet been cancelled after I have set off on my journey.

If I was, I don't think I would reply. If she was a wg I hadn't seen before, I would just leave a review on here. If I had seen her before (& knew her address), I would let her stew, wondering if I had got the message or was I going to turn up on her doorstep. I would also leave a review on here.

[Mansell]

All depends on why and how you've been cancelled. ie first thing that morning for an afternoon punt, reason given she is ill then fair enough, especially when you check on AW and she has cancelled her availability that day. Then you know it's genuine and would give a genuine reply back. "Thanks for letting me know, hope you get better soon and I'll rearrange"

But 5 mins before the punt when your sitting outside, you'd be pretty pissed off and my reply would be along the lines of "Totally unacceptable to do this, I will not be rebooking" then most importantly a UKP negative review.

Having said all of that I did see a Negative review where the girl cancelled at 9am using an AW message for a late evening booking, the guy turned up and waited outside txting away but she had turned her phone off as not working that day. Obviously he's pissed off with it, but should he have take some responsibility for not checking AW ????

[dubs]

I try to make them feel as bad as possible about it, hoping that they are a "tart with a heart" and give me some sympathy.  e.g. "Oh Im so disappointed to hear that, I was really looking forward to see you"

It worked the last time i had to use it, when I booked her again, the girl gave me an hour for £110, reduced by £50 from her normal rate because she had to cancel previously.

[tesla]

Having said all of that I did see a Negative review where the girl cancelled at 9am using an AW message for a late evening booking, the guy turned up and waited outside txting away but she had turned her phone off as not working that day. Obviously he's pissed off with it, but should he have take some responsibility for not checking AW ????

all depends whether or not he had access to AW during the day, if he had come straight from work for example.

[RedKettle]

This depends on the circumstances.  With a regular I would give the benefit of doubt and respond with a nice comment, although it rarely happens with regulars which of course is an advantage of them.

With a first time booking if they gave plenty of notice I would make a civil response and might consider rebooking at a later date.

Late cancellation I am likely to send a fairly abrupt response or not bother at all and then a negative review on here and deprive her of future opportunities of having a good time with me. 

[southampton.guy]

The problem with our "hobby" is telling the "good ones" apart from the "couldn.t care less ones"  (and i don.t mean good just in the sense of how good they are actually at the sex parts).

At the risk of being branded a "white knight" or whatever........ One thing we sometimes forget is that Escorts are people, some work from their real home, have real families and sometimes other jobs. Things happen, somethimes unexpectedly, in their lives as well as ours.

Generally i research escorts fairly well before booking so have been let down only a few times, but it does happen. A couple of times by girls who just don.t respond when you get near their location but a couple of times when some real emergency happened to them. one such case was a girl i was on my way to see and she texted to say  "sorry, gotta cancel. Domestic emergency". I wasn.t too happy but later got another text to apologise again and to explain she had arrived home 5 minutes earlier and went in to find a water leak coming through the ceiling and had to deal with that"..... I thought "oh yeah" but gave her the benefit of the doubt and rebooked.  When i got there, i could clearly see the water damage from before and she was lovely. I saw her another 3 or 4 times before she moved away. 

So it can be genuine but our problem is that we often don.t know and tend to tar all WG's with the same brush!

[george r]

if its somebody I have seen before and think its genuine I reply no problem see you again.if its a first timer for me no reply.

[Gordon Bennett]

My main priority would be sorting out plan B.... Responding to her cancellation would be well down my Things To Do list. It's only happened to me once and she was offering me other ladies as an alternative so I kinda felt obliged to reply in that instance in order to decline her offers.
If you had booked a plumber to look at your leaky taps and he texted an hour before he was due with "family emergency, I can't come" wouldn't you be more likely to reply "I've taken today off work to be in for you, you cunt!" as opposed to "nevermind friend, hope all's well and you come another time soon, take care, GB xxxx"? Maybe those replies are at the extreme end of things.... I'm guessing just ignore or OK would be commonest response - why treat an escort differently?

[Daiawn]

I generally say thank you for letting me know, especially if I haven't left home, and say I'm dissapointing but will try and rearrange in the future.
Whether I do rearrange then is a matter of timing and whether I have other punting priorities.

[Spunky34]

They get an 'OK', although anyone I had seen before might get a few pleasantries too.  I always think I should acknowledge the message rather than just ignore it.  If the cancellation is in good time (say the day before), I wouldn't discount the possibility of giving them a second chance at some point.  Any same day cancellations I now write off as time wasters.

[Steely Dan]

At the risk of being branded a "white knight" or whatever........

Just show you have the slang right, a WK charges into battle to rescue a particular 'maiden'. Usually this is arguing with a negative review.  You are not this!
You may be called 'fluffy' (see glossary) but since I agree with you I wont say this.

Back on topic, when interacting with escorts, I am more likely to be selfish.  I can't 'train' them all, so I don't try.  So if there is even a small chance that I might book them again, and that they might be a great punt, I say 'OK, babe, so sorry to hear that.  I hope we get to meet soon, I hope a volcano does not break your car ever again'.  I appreciate the risk of being seen to be a mug, but selfish reasons or not, I struggle to repeat this for a second time anyway.

[stevedave]

I generally say something along the lines of "ok, thanks for letting me know" and leave it at that. If they come back with alternative dates/times I may engage in chat, if not I leave well alone and make a mental note that they're a flake.

[Gynaemyte]

if its somebody I have seen before and think its genuine I reply no problem see you again.if its a first timer for me no reply.

M.I. cancelled on me at about 30 mins notice in Earls Court with about 15 mg of Vardenafil coursing through my arteries.
She said that she had a serious tooth problem.
We've seen each other several times, since.

[Gynaemyte]

I got two, short notice cancellations from Sensual Jane (or whatever she's calling herself, now) - disaster, in the end 

[Scotpunter]

It has only happened to me once thankfully. Unfortunately I had planned my day and was in the area about an hour before the booking when the text came. If it is a cancellation in the morning for an afternoon booking fair enough. But last minute then bad feedback is coming their way. If a girl has made the career choice to be a service provider at circa £2 plus a minute then she should be providing a damn good service. Thankfully the majority I have seen do provide it.

[mrdiamond77]

Usually something along the lines of "Ok, sorry to hear that.  I was looking forward to meeting you.  Maybe next time".  It happened to me a few times last year.

[GMontag]

I never respond. My view is I want a transaction, I didn't get it, so case closed. Hasnt stoppedme trying to book an appointment again and getting one when I want. After all, it is a business and all they want is my money.

[Alvin]

I've not yet had the absolute last minute cancellation text but have got to the location to be greeted with silence when trying to get the house number.  She contacted next day saying something had cropped up and if I wanted to try again she would make it up to me.  I ignored her and haven't gone back.

I have had a cancellation AW message a couple of days before by a regular explaining she was ill with a byg she had picked up on holiday, as I knew where had gone as we had discussed previously and it was a known bug at that time plus she had put up a message on AW saying she was cancelling I replied thanking her fir letting me know.  I still see her on a regular basis.

[Speedy12]

If there is not a valid reason I don't reply and block their number. If the lady offers a reasonable sounding reason and seems apologetic then I just reply OK.

[mrhappypants]

It also gives her three green light to know your easily bumped for a reg......

I had one girl send quite a lengthy cancellation message, to which I didn't respond at all.

tcm

Maybe but I doubt any working girl is that good at keeping track of her bookings, particularly occasional ones (like me).

[dubs]

You could always reply "Oh FFS! not again???" then the girl starts to wonder how much she cancels... or maybe not

[threechilliman]

Maybe but I doubt any working girl is that good at keeping track of her bookings, particularly occasional ones (like me).

You'd be surprised I reckon.

tcm

[sub_marine]

Ive twice been cancelled on, the first time I hadnt checked my punting email that day, and just headed to the street, but got no reply, after 10mins went to a pub on the corner just incase she was late, but she texted to say she had a family issue, and offered me 2 hours for the price of one the next evening

the second cancellation was a repeat visit to a local wg, so I knew which door I was heading for, punt was arranged for 11am on a saturday, rnag the door bel but no response, againt hadn't checked my punting email on the morning, she had emailed me at 4am to say she was sick, I'm guessing she was out partying and knew she wouldn't be sober enough by 11am, so rather that than get a poor performance in the punt

Both WGs i would have no issues with booking again

[Desimonic]

Yes been let down twice from my favourite regular girl and always reply with " Ok, not a problem, i check my schedule and rebook".
 First time was the time of the month so can't be helped and 2nd time ( a few months apart) was her mother had an accident and was hostipalized so far does.

If it wasn't a valid reason i would always let them know that i ani't happy

[NotoriousNot]

I was just about to set off for an hour's drive to see Eve ('Exotic Eve'?) in Liverpool a while ago. I'd been looking forward to seeing her for a long time as her pics on AW were great. I had sent a text to say I was about to leave and got a reply quite quickly saying she hadn't got much sleep the night before (it was an 11am booking) and could we reschedule so she could get some sleep. I wasn't impressed, but said okay and she texted back again saying there were workmen outside her hotel so she probably wouldn't be able to sleep anyway, so I could come over if I wanted. I thought this was flaky behaviour and didn't bode well. I didn't want to see a half-asleep girl so I declined her kind invitation and never got back in touch with her. My loss maybe, as she did look beautiful, but her attitude really put me off. She's since disappeared from AW.

[purple_t]

I once had a girl cancel on me after I'd arrived, showered and handed the money over... I did get the money back as it was in plain sight and not stashed. She got a phonecall and took it moments before we began... I still had the towel wrapped around my waist. While it did seem to be a genuine emergency, I was still royally fucked off she answered the phone after money had changed hands. Especially as she'd cancelled on me the week before as well on the same day. Probably should get round to leaving a negative review on here...

I'm just incredibly lucky that the phone didn't ring a few minutes later or the bitch would probably have argued about giving me my money back