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External Link/Members OnlyEllie is well reviewed here, but I recently had some BDSM themed meets with her that members might find interesting - plus the opportunity to contrast a couple of dungeons which members might be interested in hiring, and offer some thoughts on enhancing BDSM encounters.
First up - a link to our visit 16 months ago to the Blue Door Dungeon in Islington.
External Link/Members Onlyhttps://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=68647.0So last month I fancied another dungeon visit - and Ellie was quite keen to visit a new one. So I went with the well established London Dungeon Hire in Bethnal Green.
External Link/Members OnlyNeither of us had been there before. We both agreed it was the better venue. Here's a quick recap of the pros and cons of each.
Price - Blue Door is £50 a hour, LDH is £55 and you have to book 2 hours minimum.
Location - Blue Door is very close to Angel tube, LDH is quite a walk from Bethnal Green tube. So Blue Door wins that one.
Hygiene/Bathroom - LDH is a clear winner. The owner clearly takes huge pride in his place. The bathroom facilities are immaculate - and despite the fact they are of a very high standard he told us that he was closing for 3 weeks in January so he could refurbish them. Personally don't see the point. Anyway the Blue Door is OK on that front, but the shower and toilets feel cramped and a bit old. Also towels - if you are going to the Blue Door take your own - trust me on this. LDH towels on the other hand were big fluffy and very clean.
Layout - the Blue Door is quite wide open, LDH has 3 smaller rooms. It's a bit more atmospheric as a result.
Equipment - I think LDH has the edge - so much BDSM stuff to play with. Lots of intricate equipment. In fact that actually became a problem when we visited because we had less than 2 hours to play with stuff and some of the restraint devices had so many buckles and moving parts that we had little time to unbuckle them and work them all out properly. The Blue Door does have a decent bed though - and here is a thought - if you want to meet an escort that only does outcalls then at £50 an hour it actually might make a better venue than a hotel. Assuming the escort is not bothered by visiting you in a dungeon!
So I think LDH is the better place overall (Ellie agrees I think), but the Blue Door is probably easier and more convenient for many. Also see below...
Regarding the visit itself - it was a two hour visit (£250) but we lost 15-20 minutes at the start though thanks to the owner showing us around. Now it's all very well showing us the complicated stuff but a lot of it was self-explanatory and didn't need a guide. So was a bit irritating. Once we had changed and I had showered (plus clean up time at the end) we only had about 1 hour 15 minutes play time.
Anyway Ellie was in charge. She bought along her black PVC dress, black holdups and her ridiculously sexy lace up stilleto boots, plus some of her own toys. I was gagged with Ellie's new bit gag and tied to various bits of equipment - spanking bench (so Ellie could use her strap-on), then a bondage chair and finally the St Andrew Cross. As well teasing me orally she tried out some of the different torture devices on me- spanking paddles, claws etc.
As I indicated earlier in hindsight it would have been better if we had unstrapped all the buckles on two of those devices and seen what goes where - as a result we lost a bit of momentum and to an extent that feeling of being bossed about it is a bit lost when you are both fighting the equipment!
So my tip for anyone would be take 5 minutes out before starting any BDSM "scene" and figure out what kit you are actually going to use and get it all unbuckled ready for play so that the scene plays out without interruption. Obvious really. We should have done it while the owner was showing us the stuff...
My other suggestion is unless you have the dungeon the whole day there is simply no point trying as much as possible. Far better to concentrate on a couple of peices of kit so the submissive can be restrained and teased for longer.
Still had a great time - Ellie finished me off by putting me in a cage which she then joined me in - for some much needed intercourse. Ten minutes to clear up and we left happy.
So where's this third dungeon alluded to in the title? Ellie's incall place is the answer. Inspired by all the kit at the LDH Ellie decided that she wanted some to enhance her own collection. And I got round to seriously thinking again - why spend over a hundred pounds on a dungeon hire when most bedrooms can in fact provide similar functionality without the downsides of hiring someone else's venue. So we arranged together a vist to the London Alternative Market (followed by a two hour incall) to stock up. As a result Ellie now has some exciting new gadgets!
A quick word on the LAM - It's a good place to get stuff and get ideas, lots of different exhibitors with some stuff on sale. Quite a few though had not bought some of the things we were after - instead they point you to their respective websites so you'll have to order online. It's a friendly relaxed crowd and no one looks wierded out by all the fetish toys. You can easily chat with the stall owners as to what sort of thing you are after.
Back at hers we then proceeded to try some of these out. After my shower, Ellie, now dressed in a black suspender set with knee high boots, put me into a leather hood - closed the eye and mouth openings so I was effectively blindfolded and gagged and tightened the collar just enough to really feel secure. Then she stuck an anal impaler inside me and tied me very tightly to her new wardrobe restraints so I was facing the front. The hood and impaler were my own new acquisitions - I do strongly recommend them though if you are a submissive like me. I'm not usually into being blindfolded - but the hood is 100% effective at blocking out light - so with the tight restraints and mouth guard in place I felt incredibly vulnerable and helpless. Ellie then expertly used her mouth on me while trying out all her new toys - pin wheel, claws, various spanking devices and whips etc. After losing track of time (in a good way) she bought me off in her mouth and released me quickly before I collapsed in a heap on the bed!
After a chat and cuddle we went to round two. Keeping with the theme of utilising the bedroom Ellie tied me to her chair - on with the bit gag this time, but I had asked for no blindfold as I wanted to see everything. Good choice as sitting there unable to move or say anything as I watched Ellie walk around her bedroom choosing her next move on me was pretty awesome. Ellie used some of the same toys plus some nipple clamps along with hot wax on my penis. Not nearly as painful in reality as it sounds - the pain is in fact gone within a second of applying it. She also stuck her strap on inside me and punished me every time it fell out. Meanwhile Ellie used the wax as a lube -and I got a nice edging handjob as I sat there helplessly. I often struggle to come in round two - well this time I had no choice...and the end result was spectacular.
After being cleaned up and untied I was off for a shower to finish off.
I should make clear that Ellie is not a hardcore domme - she is very good at respecting my limits and making sure nothing is too painful. She has always with me erred on the side of caution. I don't think she would be the right escort for someone who really wants to be beaten up and left with bruises etc. That's not her I don't think. She is though perfect for a middle of the range submissive like me - one who really enjoys tight bondage, fetish clothes, teasing/edging, along with sensation and anal play. And the great thing I've found with Ellie that whether she is offering simple GFE, tie and tease edging or a more BDSM experience she always goes the extra mile to make it as enjoyable as possible.
Anyway a fantastic meet and good to know that I don't necessarily need to spend money on a dungeon hire in the future!