Civvies sites for meets....or How I got Into This....

[stokecity]

Maybe its the new year, but was just thinking about this hobby.

Never told anyone in Real Life (are we all the same?), but just thinking and traced back how I got here.

Largely enjoying it, but missing my old days.

I'd say about 12ish years ago when I was just about young enough to pass for vaguely attractive, i somehow got into those early social media sites, and just sent messages to girls who seemed likely.

18 -23 yr olds on FaceParty, Bebo etc....bit scattergun, bt got some regular action from it with some pretty hot girls....just thinking about it makes me horny!

Ha! again, never told anybody, but pre facebook and them getting wise, you could message dozens of girls and see what happened...i reckon i had a 2/3 year period where i had 1/2 meetings a month and most of them were nice bits of filthy action in hotel or car....kept me happy, i'm telling you!

then a combination of me getting older, facebook taking over and them banning you from trawling profiles etc...bebo shut down, so it was taking too much time per meet, so i reckon that's how i found AW - or even used local newspaper listings at that time.

i miss those days and would love to re-enact....i travel the country, so was lucky. fairly young, decent car, decent fella, sociable and good to be with...easy!

can this still be done, does anyone know? anyone use sites for civvies? i can't be arsed with match or plenty of fish or even tinder...just seems too traceable to have all that shit on your phone...

anyone still active doing that?...faceparty used to be ace for it, like i say, but no longer, sadly....there must be tons of horny young girls out threre...just how to get at them these days!

at least with aw you have a decent chance of arranging a meet and getting what you want...at a price, of course.

i think that's why i got properly involved...just saves time....

any thoughts?

[TPreston]

Well fabswingers - but as a single male you will most likely to not stand out at all. Lonely average looking middle aged fellas are ten a penny. Why would a single girl on there go for you when she is getting 5 messages every minute shes online. There may be couples on there you could get involved with, but depends if shagging a 50 year old while husband watches or gets his cock sucked at the same time is for you.

Tinder and Pof. Again there are shags on here. But the trick is be very good looking and have your apartment in the city centre. If your a 6/10 your gonna have to try your luck with a 4 and hope. Most girls on there want shagging, but hard yards to get there.

SA is a sugar daddy site and is discussed at length on here to invited members only. I had a membership for one month in Oct/Nov and im still reaping the rewards. 3 punts off there for way below market rate (overnights from 100, 150 and 200) and met 4 girls where I just sorted the hotel for us. Nature of the site means you tend to talk about sex quickly as apposed to other dating sites where you need to sugar the pill. The girls there tend to be very attractive but you need to be cautious of scammers and a healthy amount of timewasters. The girls on SA are escorting in all but name but many seem to not realise - they have the bonus of seeing what the punter looks like before, which is the main difference from AW.
Its quite a time drag mind, lots of girls with deluded expectations of whats on offer. But if you can put in the hours its really worthwhile. At the same time I do feel sorry for some of the girls on there who seem scarily naive, they have read SA PR's peices only and done zero research. I had to stop 3 girls from going bareback with me. And during conversations some newbies have mentioned overnights in travel lodges with bad punters who have not respected boundies and they've been paid buttons - barely enough to cover travel.

Im mid 20s and not overweight or that ugly (at 6 or a 7 probably) so my experience is from my perspective, im sure others will tell you different.

[Brazilian Martian]

Plenty of fish is your best option I'm on there and I'm the past have had lots of success. My only gripe with that site is that average looking girls get bombarded with messages almost 200 a day so they start to think they are better then they actually are, then they start to develop a superior complex

[peter purves]

Plenty of fish is your best option I'm on there and I'm the past have had lots of success. My only gripe with that site is that average looking girls get bombarded with messages almost 200 a day so they start to think they are better then they actually are, then they start to develop a superior complex

A mate of mine - not me, honestly  - concurred with your assessment but then said his success diminished over time and he received a lot of games, almost as if he was dating a civvy.

Any thoughts?

Cheers!!

[Brazilian Martian]

A mate of mine - not me, honestly  - concurred with your assessment but then said his success diminished over time and he received a lot of games, almost as if he was dating a civvy.

Any thoughts?

Cheers!!

Well I have met a few women on there that are gold diggers , some have the cheek to ask what car you and what reg it is   

Then I get the other type of women that think they can string me along and get a free tattoo as soon as they start talking about my profession I shut that convo down.

[stokecity]

Thanks for the replies, gents...interesting.

SA...had thought of that, but too complicated for me...not into overnights, just hour or 2 meets....hotels costing 100 quid, plus paying for the girl looks expensive and time consuming to me....

just give me some dirty, horny - and a touch naive - girls from faceparty in 2006 and i'd be happy...all in their 30s and married by now i bet, but i wonder if any of them remember being fucked in the back of my car.....ha!

[two20]

I used Plenty of Fish but never contacted anyone, I let them come to me. As previously stated ordinary girls get tons of messages so I couldn't be bothered to compete. I did meet some quite good ones but there's a lot of chaff and not much wheat.

[wirehair]

Hi there - have to agree with Tompreston about the sites he mentions.

Fabswingers is a bit downmarket LOL - I've been on there for years an never met, but have used it as a source of info on swingers clubs which I've ventured into once a twice. Apart from one very classy encounter at a club (the woman came straight up to me kissed me on the lips and had her hand on my cock before we'd even said hello - progressed on to a great fuck watched by a good few guys) I found that a pretty dispiriting experience.

Never tried POF but have been on Tinder - not had any luck there and I found two or three women I knew professionally on it so I deleted the account.

But Seeking Arrangement has been a happy hunting ground for 6 months  So far I've met 6 women from there - usually young women just looking to eek out their money and have some fun at the same time. Yes can be expensive (I've paid from 0 to £200 usually for no time limit including overnights) but you get to sample some real delights. It takes a bit of communicating back and forth, and as most on there are amateurs with jobs or studies, you can be a bit stuck in arranging mutually suitable times for meets if like me you find it hard to slip away evenings.

One site I've used in the past has been Illicit Encounters. Its expensive but I've met a good few women from there in the past and its been a great source of fun times. Most on there are married like me, so it's easier to be discreet, but again often hard to fix suitable meet times and venues.

[stokecity]

Hmmmmm....been on SA today....tempted...reminds me of the old days of faceparty and bebo, but its bloody expensive, isnt it?! i wasn't expecting that price per month...plus youve got to pay for the girl!

Oh well, you get what you pay for perhaps....will continue to think about it but new year, new start etc...might be tempted...

lllicet encounters sounds interesting.....might check it out, but i like fit young girls...late 20s tops...i assume they're all married on there?

thanks for the continuing input though, guys....an interesting start to the new punting year

[TPreston]

Hmmmmm....been on SA today....tempted...reminds me of the old days of faceparty and bebo, but its bloody expensive, isnt it?! i wasn't expecting that price per month...plus youve got to pay for the girl!

Oh well, you get what you pay for perhaps....will continue to think about it but new year, new start etc...might be tempted...

lllicet encounters sounds interesting.....might check it out, but i like fit young girls...late 20s tops...i assume they're all married on there?

thanks for the continuing input though, guys....an interesting start to the new punting year

Youre on a punting site mate. Think of the £60 per month as a small investment. If you are happy paying £150 for an hour, this will pay off in no time.

It will pay off - car meets are unlikely but have had girls offer to host. You can only sort a few hours with girls, but generally you'll be paying for that I'd guess. Take the plunge - as I say i'm still hooking up with girls I met on there in October with one months membership. Ill probably only reactivate my account in a month or two.

Prices vary. And it can be time consuming. As mentioned above though there is variety. I would suggest opening an account when you have free time to deal with the traffic.

[stokecity]

thanks again, tom...much appreciated, mate

are you actually in preston by the way?

am there on saturday...might have the chance for a bit of fun...any recommendations? nothing too exciting on aw that i an see.

you're probably in hastings or somewhere though....i'm certainly not in stoke! 

[TPreston]

thanks again, tom...much appreciated, mate

are you actually in preston by the way?

am there on saturday...might have the chance for a bit of fun...any recommendations? nothing too exciting on aw that i an see.

you're probably in hastings or somewhere though....i'm certainly not in stoke! 

Yes pal. Well Fulwood to be precise. The girls I've met on SA have been in Manchester or Yorkshire. I'd do reviews but not sure of site etiquette on reviews for SA profiles, and again the girls face photos - outing etc not on - only one girl I met seemed to suggest she was doing this as in meeting lots.

Locally I've only ever seen GemmaBrookes and she was off her head at the time (as was I, so cannot judge) but wouldn't recommend.

Girls from SA there is one girl locally who I was very close to meeting up with who is stunning locally. a 19 year old student, but had a better offer that day so went elsewhere - she was also a bit blunt which put me off - you have that many offers you can be picky. Open your account and message away. If you are white, under 40 and not overweight I think you'll have a much better chance on there than most IMO.

[stokecity]

ha!.....SA then...v good site...recommended!

[BarryProudfoot]

Maybe its the new year, but was just thinking about this hobby.

Never told anyone in Real Life (are we all the same?), but just thinking and traced back how I got here.

Largely enjoying it, but missing my old days.

I'd say about 12ish years ago when I was just about young enough to pass for vaguely attractive, i somehow got into those early social media sites, and just sent messages to girls who seemed likely.

18 -23 yr olds on FaceParty, Bebo etc....bit scattergun, bt got some regular action from it with some pretty hot girls....just thinking about it makes me horny!

Ha! again, never told anybody, but pre facebook and them getting wise, you could message dozens of girls and see what happened...i reckon i had a 2/3 year period where i had 1/2 meetings a month and most of them were nice bits of filthy action in hotel or car....kept me happy, i'm telling you!

then a combination of me getting older, facebook taking over and them banning you from trawling profiles etc...bebo shut down, so it was taking too much time per meet, so i reckon that's how i found AW - or even used local newspaper listings at that time.

i miss those days and would love to re-enact....i travel the country, so was lucky. fairly young, decent car, decent fella, sociable and good to be with...easy!

can this still be done, does anyone know? anyone use sites for civvies? i can't be arsed with match or plenty of fish or even tinder...just seems too traceable to have all that shit on your phone...

anyone still active doing that?...faceparty used to be ace for it, like i say, but no longer, sadly....there must be tons of horny young girls out threre...just how to get at them these days!

at least with aw you have a decent chance of arranging a meet and getting what you want...at a price, of course.

i think that's why i got properly involved...just saves time....

any thoughts?

All the actions happening on Instagram these days

[robsatathome]

My experience of civvy sites is that hottie from some Russian modeling website and that your talking to some 12 year old kid in Nigeria. About the worst of it the annoying popups popups MILF in your area rubbish I wont say what the website is. Rubbish most of it. 

[stokecity]

Instagram, eh?

Can you search ages/areas etc and message on there?

I should know....but dont!

Dont like to look for action on sites where friends and colleagues are on....they have a habit of linking, dont they? ip addresses? e mails? whatever, i dont wanna risk it....a sap from work was outed on tinder a little while ago and was fuckin destroyed...hysterical!

[badsin]

Instagram, eh?

Can you search ages/areas etc and message on there?

I should know....but dont!

Dont like to look for action on sites where friends and colleagues are on....they have a habit of linking, dont they? ip addresses? e mails? whatever, i dont wanna risk it....a sap from work was outed on tinder a little while ago and was fuckin destroyed...hysterical!

Outed on Tinder?? What's that about..... I was on there a couple of years ago, and at least three women from my offices where on it, and even several female friends of mine

[TheBerkshirehunt]

Had some good results (non paid for) on the casual relationships section of Gumtree, before it was shut down about 6 years ago, plus a couple of girls on the Craigslist equivalent, one of which is still on the go. Generally though, you've got to sift through a hell of a lot of scammers, spammers and timewasters to find even one real person, and then it's pot luck whether you'll actually get your end away.

With respect to the paid elements, back in the late 1990's there used to be this site, Cruel Site of the Day which one day linked to a particularly fluffy field report from another reviewing site you may be aware of. I lived vicariously through that for a while before dipping my toe in the water myself. Always thought AW was a bit ropey, but find its has now cornered the market, like it or not...