It was 18 months or so after Mrs R L had passed on [after what was not the world's most "exciting" marriage, if you get my drift
] and I was fed up with wanking to porn - I needed to feel skin on skin and to be inside a woman. I didn't fancy my chances on the dating scene so I went into Parlours for about 3 years before "graduating" to seeing Indies about 6 years ago. And have never looked back!
I'm now of Pension age and, looking at my friends' wives, know that I'm shagging better-looking women than my mates are [in some cases, I'm shagging better-looking woman than some of them
ever have!
] Mrs R L & I didn't have any kids so I've nobody to hassle me about their "inheritance" which means I can punt comparatively often.
I take on board what people have said about Social Workers; but, as one whose specialist subject is "English milfs aged between, say, 38 - 50 [in Pro$$y years]" often for 2 hrs at a time [specially once we've got to know each other], I know that quite often each of us uses the other as, shall we say, a sounding board. For example, one WG I see from time to time has given me good advice on how to extricate myself from a situation with another WG [neither knows the other; they work in different counties] with whom I had let the "boundaries become blurred".