Premature Ejeculation

[StevenLiverpool]

Hey Guys

A bit off an embarrassing subject but I'm sure it effects a few

Any tips to lasting long enough? Asking for a mate. He's tried the blue pill and it helps in getting hard but doesn't help in lasting long. Soon as it touches a female part within 20-30 seconds he's cum then the desire has gone. Has to probably wait another 30 mins before the mood is back on, but by that time all sorts go through the head like what if I get caught, or the missus finds out, so the thrill is not there anymore

So guys any tips for a first time last long session? And like I said, asking for a mate

[Covbirm]

Think there are a few varieties of the blue pill that your 'friend' can buy or perhaps do other things for a while before you make entry?

[StevenLiverpool]

Think there are a few varieties of the blue pill that your 'friend' can buy or perhaps do other things for a while before you make entry?

As far as I can remember he said it's a blue pill prescribed by the doctor beginning with S, I couldn't remember the name, he told me once but I forgot, oh yeah it was also 50mg

[con-a-ser]

there are delay condoms out

there is something on the condom that helps
so he could either buy them but it is a case of building up trust with a girl to use them or delay spray

[hungrypunt]

And like I said, asking for a mate

  quality, comedy gold right there Steven

As far as I can remember he said it's a blue pill prescribed by the doctor beginning with S, I couldn't remember the name, he told me once but I forgot, oh yeah it was also 50mg

Possibly spedra tbh, I have taken it cos it doesnt delay like viagra can to me, as I can have the opposite problem, maybe if YOUR MATE ! tries V it could do the trick

[cueball]

And like I said, asking for a mate

Nobody really buys the "asking for a mate" line pal.

There really is no need to be embaressed on here, this is one of the few places where the phrase "we're all men of the world" really is true.

most of us are mature enough to find no humour in performance issues.

We've had that much experience that most problems will happen to most of us at some point, whether it's premature popping, not popping at all, not getting it up to not being able to get it down.

I'm no doctor and no expert but for me, what I've learned over the years is that most problems are in the head and not in the cock.

[george r]

knock one off the wrist 1 hour  before you see her    my mate says 

[Hertsgent]

Think of something else for a brief period - as I've said before, for me either The England football team or where to play Wayne Rooney - don't think too long though or you'll go limp 

Other alternatives are to slow down a bit, or find a position that delays you - her on top does it for me for some reason, whilst Doggy does the opposite.....I enjoy both equally, but for some reason the love beans can be held in certain positions...which is a real advantage

[frankc]

Think it's sildenafil your talking about.....try this if your struggling mate, take your little blue pill an hour n half before your punt, then knock one out half hour later. Rock up to your punt an hour later....

[hungrypunt]

not being able to get it down.

Fuck I wish I had that problem

[Blackie]

As others have said have a wank first, given that he can get it up after 30 mins I'd say don't do it an hour before but rather 15-20 before or as shortest time possible before a punt.

Some may think that how's he going to get it up again in a 30 min punt if he had a wank 10 mins before the punt starts... answer is if he is soo pumped up that he won't even last 10mins.... the sight of the girl + initial butterflies will do it.

[StevenLiverpool]

knock one off the wrist 1 hour  before you see her    my mate says 

Seems the most popular idea

I will let him know

[StevenLiverpool]

Think of something else for a brief period - as I've said before, for me either The England football team or where to play Wayne Rooney - don't think too long though or you'll go limp 

Other alternatives are to slow down a bit, or find a position that delays you - her on top does it for me for some reason, whilst Doggy does the opposite.....I enjoy both equally, but for some reason the love beans can be held in certain positions...which is a real advantage

I normally think of the ManUtd team, (yes I support them). I normally go from 1-11 then who will be the subs.

[hungrypunt]

I normally think of the ManUtd team, (yes I support them). I normally go from 1-11 then who will be the subs.

What you have more than one sub, how do you keep em both entertained, no wonder you cummin early 

Good luck from me, report back mate and let us know what works best for ya !

[TheCape]

knock one off the wrist 1 hour  before you see her    my mate says 

My mate also says that this works well for him 

[StevenLiverpool]

My mate also says that this works well for him 

Your mate must tell you some intimate stuff

[Mr long sausage]

When I was younger before I went to see my girlfriend I'd have a wank to make myself last longer. Worked really well for me.

[TheCape]

Your mate must tell you some intimate stuff

We're very good mates.

[Mr long sausage]

We're very good mates.

Wank buddys

[hungrypunt]

We're very good mates.

Whos Jockey ? whos horse

[jthorpecontortion]

Hey Guys

A bit off an embarrassing subject but I'm sure it effects a few

Any tips to lasting long enough? Asking for a mate. He's tried the blue pill and it helps in getting hard but doesn't help in lasting long. Soon as it touches a female part within 20-30 seconds he's cum then the desire has gone. Has to probably wait another 30 mins before the mood is back on, but by that time all sorts go through the head like what if I get caught, or the missus finds out, so the thrill is not there anymore

So guys any tips for a first time last long session? And like I said, asking for a mate

When you're having a wank, keep going until you get close to climax, then leave it for a bit and build up again. Try squeezing the cum out of what basically feels like your urethra (could be your urethra, i don't know) and let yourself calm down until you're good to go again and start over. When you're jacking one out, always do this, do not let yourself have any 'quickies' when wanking. You may see a red thread here for why you may be exposed to premature ejaculation so often by now, if not, keep reading.

Ideally you never want to cum after at least an hour of doing this over and over again. Even better would be to keep wanking as you do but only letting yourself cum every few days. It may sound a chore and trust me I know it's difficult but at the end of the day you can almost look at it like a muscle, you've got to exercise before running a marathon.

Keep this going for a while, some may feel a noticeable difference after only a few weeks, for others it may take a few months depending on your routine and many many other variables. Your daily quick relief is a curse - but then again is it really worth it in the first place?

If you keep this going for a while you'll find a noticeable improvement when you're with a girl, and your sex will be far better for both parties involved. Premature ejaculation is a myth and anyone pretending anything different is lying to both you and themselves. I've been on both ends of the spectrum and it is entirely in your own hands.

Good luck.

[TheCape]

Whos Jockey ? whos horse

So close we could well be the same person.

[StevenLiverpool]

My mate was saying if he gets hard and then eases off, he goes floppy. What you guys advice him?

I've told him to get his own account on here and ask for himself, but I think he's embarrassed

[Deepstroker]

I thought Mr premature ejaculation was the presdient of Paraguay..?

Anyway,moving on,,,

Its not something i have ever suffered with. I put it down to one of my girlfriends in my youth who to some extent trained me to fuck. She would get all moody if i didnt fuck her long and hard and if i shot my load too soon, she would get all moody.

It was hell but someone had to do it !

I guess i gradually learned to psychologically train and physically control myself. Part of it is controlling the mind, the thought patterns in your brain. You can ride the waves of pleasure and the experience but build a barrier in your mind that stands in the way of the tipping point where you lose control and shoot.

You can also learn to control your PC muscles,,when you are fucking a girl or being sucked/wanked,  and that barrier in your mind, the wall, is starting to crumble, you can simply squeeze off your pc muscles and most times, the feeling of impending ejaculation will subside. Sometimes you might have to pause your activity,let it subside then continue.

As a bonus, if you are inside a girl and you squeeze off your pc muscles, your cock gets harder, the helmet more defined and she feels it

Im not sure pills are a good cure.

[StevenLiverpool]

I thought Mr premature ejaculation was the presdient of Paraguay..?

Anyway,moving on,,,

Its not something i have ever suffered with. I put it down to one of my girlfriends in my youth who to some extent trained me to fuck. She would get all moody if i didnt fuck her long and hard and if i shot my load too soon, she would get all moody.

It was hell but someone had to do it !


Thanks for that comment, my mate found it very useful

I guess i gradually learned to psychologically train and physically control myself. Part of it is controlling the mind, the thought patterns in your brain. You can ride the waves of pleasure and the experience but build a barrier in your mind that stands in the way of the tipping point where you lose control and shoot.

You can also learn to control your PC muscles,,when you are fucking a girl or being sucked/wanked,  and that barrier in your mind, the wall, is starting to crumble, you can simply squeeze off your pc muscles and most times, the feeling of impending ejaculation will subside. Sometimes you might have to pause your activity,let it subside then continue.

As a bonus, if you are inside a girl and you squeeze off your pc muscles, your cock gets harder, the helmet more defined and she feels it

Im not sure pills are a good cure.

[StevenLiverpool]

Thanks for all the comments

My mate found them useful

[hungrypunt]

So close we could well be the same person.

  like it

[jthorpecontortion]

My mate found them useful

 

[Mancpunts]

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Although if you're going to use that, do ow, or just spray after owo as I've heard of it tasting funny and/or makes their mouth a little bit numb? Lol

[Johnny smith1254775]

When you're having a wank, keep going until you get close to climax, then leave it for a bit and build up again. Try squeezing the cum out of what basically feels like your urethra (could be your urethra, i don't know) and let yourself calm down until you're good to go again and start over. When you're jacking one out, always do this, do not let yourself have any 'quickies' when wanking. You may see a red thread here for why you may be exposed to premature ejaculation so often by now, if not, keep reading.

Ideally you never want to cum after at least an hour of doing this over and over again. Even better would be to keep wanking as you do but only letting yourself cum every few days. It may sound a chore and trust me I know it's difficult but at the end of the day you can almost look at it like a muscle, you've got to exercise before running a marathon.

Keep this going for a while, some may feel a noticeable difference after only a few weeks, for others it may take a few months depending on your routine and many many other variables. Your daily quick relief is a curse - but then again is it really worth it in the first place?

If you keep this going for a while you'll find a noticeable improvement when you're with a girl, and your sex will be far better for both parties involved. Premature ejaculation is a myth and anyone pretending anything different is lying to both you and themselves. I've been on both ends of the spectrum and it is entirely in your own hands.

Good luck.

Think I've done this too often as sometimes I can't even cum during a session, sex or h/e, I could go for ages it's annoying when times up an I haven't cum