Too young to punt?

[notginger]

Hi all
Been using AW for approx 1 year now and I've seen 5 or 6 girls in that time.

The reaction from some of these girls and my research in general has made me think, is punting a young mans game? Should a guy in his early 20's (like me) enjoy a pastime like this? My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman.

Would welcome your thoughts and feedback 

Thanks

[Stiltskin]

It's your life, do what you want with it. Why should other people's habits have any bearing on what you do?

[Ludwig]

Hi all
Been using AW for approx 1 year now and I've seen 5 or 6 girls in that time.

The reaction from some of these girls and my research in general has made me think, is punting a young mans game? Should a guy in his early 20's (like me) enjoy a pastime like this? My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman.

Would welcome your thoughts and feedback 

Thanks

You have not offered any of your own thoughts as to why you have formed this impression...What sort of reaction have you had from the girls? What sort of research have you done? 

[Jimmyredcab]

If you are in your early twenties you should be out pulling young girls ---- not paying pro$$ies.

Just my opinion. 

[NIK]

If you are in your early twenties you should be out pulling young girls ---- not paying pro$$ies.

Just my opinion. 

Mine too.
I'd dabbled but I didn't start punting regularly until I was in my thirties.
What's the matter with you?

[willie loman]

Nothing wrong with punting when young, and you could easily combine it with free stuff. However in your early twenties you should have other priorities for your money.

[sucky2dollar]

At your age I would go chase the girls and have fun without punting.
A 50 year old can't exactly run around the clubs with the other young people trying to pull a 20 year old.

I'd say do what you can while you can. Punting isn't cheap for a young adult and more importantly there is plenty of time for it later.

Assuming you're not doing it for confidence reasons (which I think is fine) you're better off putting it on the backburner.

[billyjo]

At your age I would go chase the girls and have fun without punting.
A 50 year old can't exactly run around the clubs with the other young people trying to pull a 20 year old.

I'd say do what you can while you can. Punting isn't cheap for a young adult and more importantly there is plenty of time for it later.

Assuming you're not doing it for confidence reasons (which I think is fine) you're better off putting it on the backburner.

You need to meet my mates dad, 50 odd years old and still thinks he's 18, out partying and clubbing every weekend without fail, got kids and a partner he lives with but got about 6/7 other women on the go at any one time.

[ONeil]

In my opinion your twenties is probably one of the best times to punt

You get additional experience and it can boost your sexual confidence

Your sex drive is going to be at it's fullest so it makes sense to bang as many hotties as you can while you're young, and i think this is when you're going to enjoy it the most for this reason

You're less likely to be tied down in a long term relationship

Ultimately its not the same as trying to "pull" in a club, because punting is always going to be the best way of getting no-strings sex with the girl of your choice at the time of your choice - and its the same if you're 25 or 55

Plus when you're younger you're in general going to have a better experience with the younger girls because they're going to prefer shagging a young guy than a much older guy (unless she happens to like that).

I'm not sure what reactions you've had from the prossies you've seen though, maybe if you look really young (like 18) they might not be comfortable with that. Who knows, try seeing some different girls.

[haystacks79]

I think only you can say if you're too young to punt - only you know the reasons for doing so.

Personally, right at the beginning of my 20's I had a bad experience with a partner, and that ruined what little confidence I had where sex was concerned, so I just completely shut off from it. That lasted over 10 years, and to be honest I'm still not sure I'm at the point where I could trust a partner (or have confidence in myself) in a relationship, though I know I'm a lot closer now than I have been since that event.

My punting hobby has been the catalyst of that change in me, and it has helped my confidence a great deal. Do I wish I could have afforded this earlier - no, not really. I don't think I was ready and in the right place emotionally to be able to cope with this. At the moment I'm increasing my confidence whilst not having to worry about the whole of the rest that goes along with a relationship, and that suits where I am now. This also explains the pattern of my punting; preferring to stick to a couple of girls that I feel comfortable with and can build my confidence with, rather than constantly starting from square one with somebody new with all the nerves etc. that goes along with that.

[philuk1uk]

In my opinion your twenties is probably one of the best times to punt

You get additional experience and it can boost your sexual confidence

Your sex drive is going to be at it's fullest so it makes sense to bang as many hotties as you can while you're young, and i think this is when you're going to enjoy it the most for this reason

You're less likely to be tied down in a long term relationship

Ultimately its not the same as trying to "pull" in a club, because punting is always going to be the best way of getting no-strings sex with the girl of your choice at the time of your choice - and its the same if you're 25 or 55

Plus when you're younger you're in general going to have a better experience with the younger girls because they're going to prefer shagging a young guy than a much older guy (unless she happens to like that).

I'm not sure what reactions you've had from the prossies you've seen though, maybe if you look really young (like 18) they might not be comfortable with that. Who knows, try seeing some different girls.

I agree, nothing wrong with punting at a young age, punting is about freedom to have no strings sex with beautiful girls and whatever age you are that's a good thing!

[Mrfixit]

It's your life bro, I personally started Punting at a very young age , I like sex and do pretty well with girls but I deem my time to valuable to waste hours charming a girl when I can get a more than average looking girl for a decent rate , have mind blowing sex  and be done with her . No attachments whatsoever , no phone calls , no crying , no messy break ups . If you have a good reason to punt then by all means go ahead and enjoy your life .

[Closet freak]

If you are in your early twenties you should be out pulling young girls ---- not paying pro$$ies.

Just my opinion. 

& if they have zero luck shagging in there early 20s , what age do you suggest they start punting

[Mrfixit]

If you are in your early twenties you should be out pulling young girls ---- not paying pro$$ies.

Just my opinion. 

Funny thing is for me punting at an early age probably saved me a lot of trouble in life , first I hardly go gaga over any woman no matter how good looking , second when choosing a partner things like how well we relate , how caring she is , how much we enjoy talking matter a lot more to me than how good she can fuck . Thirdly I learned a lot about how to and how not to treat women by listening to the good and bad tales WGs had to tell 

[rangersburd]

Hi all
Been using AW for approx 1 year now and I've seen 5 or 6 girls in that time.

The reaction from some of these girls and my research in general has made me think, is punting a young mans game? Should a guy in his early 20's (like me) enjoy a pastime like this? My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman.

Would welcome your thoughts and feedback 

Thanks

nah young is good 

[notginger]

Cheers for the candid feedback guys

I've drawn these conclusions in two ways...

1. The girl's reaction ie: "are you really only ## y/o?"
2. What I've seen from galleries & pvt galleries from girls pages, the guys in the pics are always a bit older ( I think anyway)

I actually agree with several points, notably how big a confidence boost it can be, especially if you're with a beautiful girl but similarly, there are beautiful girls out there who are not escorts. Maybe it's about applying the skills and confidence learned during bookings to the real world?

It's a learning experience! Haha

Interesting to know the oldest punter out there?

[Rochdull lad]

Cheers for the candid feedback guys

I've drawn these conclusions in two ways...

1. The girl's reaction ie: "are you really only ## y/o?"
2. What I've seen from galleries & pvt galleries from girls pages, the guys in the pics are always a bit older ( I think anyway)

I actually agree with several points, notably how big a confidence boost it can be, especially if you're with a beautiful girl but similarly, there are beautiful girls out there who are not escorts. Maybe it's about applying the skills and confidence learned during bookings to the real world?

It's a learning experience! Haha

Interesting to know the oldest punter out there?

I'm someone who only started punting almost 10 years ago in my mid-50s.  Before my Specialist Subject became "British Independent Milfs of the early 21st Century", I could honestly say to most of the girls I saw in Parlours that, although they were young enough to be [at least] my daughter, they were far more sexually experienced than I was.  I wish I'd thought of punting when I was in my early 20s.  Mind you, that was before I lapsed from the RC church; and I don't think there were many other punting opportunities than the "street scene" then.

And no, notginger, I'm not the oldest punter on here; I can think of at least two members on here, to judge by comments they've made, whose birth certificates were issued before mine!

[Chezzie John]

I started punting at 25 and I was always shy and darn't chat girls up when I was younger and punting will help you get over that so I'd try and pull at the weekend and if you fail go and out pay for it when needed

But even if you do pull on a night out there will be girls out of your league so if you want a stunner you'll probably have to pay for it.

I know some girls that say it feels weird meeting people their age and don't like it, Because they have more chance of knowing you or your friends so prefer to see older blokes as they have less chance of being caught out, So I'd tell them your age before you meet them just in case

[Jimmyredcab]

You need to meet my mates dad, 50 odd years old and still thinks he's 18, out partying and clubbing every weekend without fail, got kids and a partner he lives with but got about 6/7 other women on the go at any one time.

He is the exception, if most men approached a girl 30 years younger than them they would be told "piss off nonce case". 

[Daffodil]

Even twenty year olds can have long term relationships that mean punting is more convenient, cheaper and of less risk than one night stands/affairs 

[Jimmyredcab]

Even twenty year olds can have long term relationships that mean punting is more convenient, cheaper and of less risk than one night stands/affairs 

Two things you shouldn't start at 20.
Punting
Smoking

Both could last a lifetime.     

[Melb]

It's fine as long as it doesn't replace pulling and dating girls.

[zootie]

Only you know if punting at such a young age is for you
Just be careful that you don't let this hobby skewer your views on women
There's a big difference between the average WG and a civvie girl
I'd also try to keep it in moderation

[Ali Katt]

You're overthinking it.

[billyjo]

He is the exception, if most men approached a girl 30 years younger than them they would be told "piss off nonce case". 

It's alleged he goes after guys too, he's well known on the gay club scene, but we aren't supposed to mention this as his son (my mate) is easily offended when anyone brings the topic up.

[smiths]

Hi all
Been using AW for approx 1 year now and I've seen 5 or 6 girls in that time.

The reaction from some of these girls and my research in general has made me think, is punting a young mans game? Should a guy in his early 20's (like me) enjoy a pastime like this? My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman.

Would welcome your thoughts and feedback 

Thanks

The word should has no place here in my view. Its entirely the business of a punter at what age he wishes to punt at. I started at 19 myself many moons ago.

I would advise being at least 18 and if they ever want a real relationship with a woman to pull as well as punt.

[smiths]

Two things you shouldn't start at 20.
Punting
Smoking

Both could last a lifetime.     

I dont agree on the punting. I started at 19 but pulled as well, as long as a punter doesnt think punting is in anyway the same as a relationship then punt and pull, the former is a guaranteed shag and with the latter that someone special might be round the next corner. Ensure you can afford to punt would be my advice.

[smiths]

I agree, nothing wrong with punting at a young age, punting is about freedom to have no strings sex with beautiful girls and whatever age you are that's a good thing!

Absolutely spot on.

[smiths]

You need to meet my mates dad, 50 odd years old and still thinks he's 18, out partying and clubbing every weekend without fail, got kids and a partner he lives with but got about 6/7 other women on the go at any one time.

I have a mate about the same age who does similar although its not 6/7 women he has on the go, just a couple. A very ugly guy but has the gift of the gab, a great sense of humour and literally jokes women into bed including real stunners sometimes. He has no embarrassment and simply blanket bombs women till he gets a positive response.

[Essex3]

My first punt was at 17 lol. I've had many gfs before that and sexual experiences but wooing a 17 year old girl to the bedroom was a very very very slow process. I was very mature for my age at that time. After that first time I got addicted, now girls my age, the ones I get in relationships with think I am utterly amazing at sex.

[Ravanelli]

My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman

Thanks

Don't jump to conclusions, we're all different ages, shapes, sizes and backgrounds and we all have our own reasons or punting apart from the obvious one being that we like to pump the opposite sex.

I didn't start punting until I was 36 because I couldn't be arsed chasing woman round nightclubs anymore etc. I shagged my way through my teens and twenties without giving a thought to punting. I'm guessing you still live at home because I very much doubt that it was a hobby I could have afforded in my twenties?

[manc36]

No you are not too young, I wouldn't go mad but it's fun, so fuck it and enjoy yourself .

Although if you are average looking/average wages and used to regularly fucking stunners at such a young age, who may ( looks wise ) be at another level, then I suppose it could make sex with the girls you can pull yourself - less exciting or even a feel a bit of a let down.

I must admit, I had a year or so were I really couldn't be arsed wining and dining ( lager and a chip muffin ) women, and just went to working girls to get my jollies, fucking differant women with ease can be addictive.

Not that I regret it, I enjoyed every last minute

[hurry up harry]

I started aged 21 (long time ago) out of curiousity. Subsequent punts were all just one-offs till I hit age 34, then it ramped-up.

If you've got the money why not?... But be warned it can escalate and, unless you're already minted there are more pressing things to buy at your age.?

[SteveNova]

Punting is for any age, surely.  The majority of WGs have no age restrictions, and the minority that do obviously have their own reasons.   Go for it if you want to, whatever your age!  I think it's great that there are contributors on here from their twenties to their sixties and probably older.

[young punter]

Nobody is too young, I'm 22 been punting since 19 combined with normal girls. There's a specific thrill from escorts. I've Pm you some younger punter words of encouragement ha!

[Thepacifist]

Mine too.
I'd dabbled but I didn't start punting regularly until I was in my thirties.
What's the matter with you?

There doesn't have to be anything the matter with him or whomever.

If you're 18 and you want to have a punt, go for it. Just because one punts doesn't mean they're not pulling also or in a relationship.

[NIK]

There doesn't have to be anything the matter with him or whomever.

If you're 18 and you want to have a punt, go for it. Just because one punts doesn't mean they're not pulling also or in a relationship.

Maybe I'm being unfair, but if I were a young man in a relationship I would not dream of punting. I had a handful of punts in my twenties, but I largely abstained as I either had a girlfriend or hoped I was going to get one.
The other reason was probably because I didn't even know prossies existed locally!

[Urban_G]

People punt for all types of reasons and I don't think age has anything to do with it. I started punting around my mid 20's out of curiosity.

[Andy-ShyGuy]

I started punting in my early 20s - primarily because I never had the looks when I was younger to pull so always felt like I was missing out.  But, once I had graduated along came the Internet and a full time job and suddenly the world was my oyster.  Still going strong 12 years later and enjoying this most exhilarating hobby.

[Acer]

Hi all
Been using AW for approx 1 year now and I've seen 5 or 6 girls in that time.

The reaction from some of these girls and my research in general has made me think, is punting a young mans game? Should a guy in his early 20's (like me) enjoy a pastime like this? My impression was this was something reserved for the (slightly) more mature gentleman.

Would welcome your thoughts and feedback 

Thanks

I've had similar thoughts when I started, especially when the WGs say things like 'you should save all that for your girlfriend!'
'how come you don have a GF?'
'You shouldn't be seeing WGs and a girlfriend would appreciate your energy, etc, etc'

(Admittedly, I last for too long!)

They just don't know how much effort you have to put in to the bloody dating thing! Not to mention the bloody logistics and the money spent on drinks, hotels, etc.

The punting scene is so much easier and you can practically choose different dishes on different days.

Happy punting 

[Jimmyredcab]

Punting is for any age, surely. 

Disagree, there is plenty of time for punting later in life, in your early twenties it should be about pulling girls not paying pro$$ies.   

[young punter]

They just don't know how much effort you have to put in to the bloody dating thing! Not to mention the bloody logistics and the money spent on drinks, hotels, etc.

The punting scene is so much easier and you can practically choose different dishes on different days.

Happy punting 

What Acer said. It costs me a hell of a lot less to pay prossies than spend weeks on getting an equally fit "normal" girl into bed. Yes I could pull easily but they wouldn't be as fit or half as dirty. Plus I like the variety.

[smiths]

Disagree, there is plenty of time for punting later in life, in your early twenties it should be about pulling girls not paying pro$$ies.   

Whereas i did both and in the main had fun doing so.

[Dani]

I think as long as you are og legal age you are not too young to punt if you realise that when you have a GF she is never going to compare sex wise to an escort.  I say this as some younger guys do moan when with me that their GFs dont act like I do all the time and they should.  With us you only see the best side and some guys do forget that even we are not like that all the time

[zootie]

I think as long as you are og legal age you are not too young to punt if you realise that when you have a GF she is never going to compare sex wise to an escort.  I say this as some younger guys do moan when with me that their GFs dont act like I do all the time and they should.  With us you only see the best side and some guys do forget that even we are not like that all the time

Good point Cassie and exactly what I was saying earlier on
At such a young age you really need to go in with your eyes open
See it for it is - a bit of fantasy and no substitute for a real relationship with a real woman
But it seems the OP knows what he's doing

[smiths]

I think as long as you are og legal age you are not too young to punt if you realise that when you have a GF she is never going to compare sex wise to an escort.  I say this as some younger guys do moan when with me that their GFs dont act like I do all the time and they should.  With us you only see the best side and some guys do forget that even we are not like that all the time

Any girlfriends i had didnt last long if they didnt compare sex wise to a WG. I wouldnt put up with the aggro involved in a relationship if the sex wasnt top notch. Obviously love is beyond anything punting can offer but for me sex is important so no good sex on offer and that would be it and curtains to a relationship.

I punt for sex and variety, not because my partners havent offered me the sex i required, but i do appreciate at least some punters are in different situations.

[Dani]

I didnt mean no sex but the fact that we dont have 'bad days' in front of a client.  We are always perfectly made up, hair nails face etc, we dont moan, we dont get sick in front of you and we are always happy and up fro sex no matter what.  whereas in real life people get ill, people get tired, sometimes they dont fancy sex or having to act like a performing monkey.  Sometimes they just want to curl up on the sofa in their bathrobe and just veg. 
I have tried to explain to these lads that escorts do all of the above too just not in the punters paid time but one would not believe me as he sees it in porn as well in escorts so knows a woman should look her best 24/7 and always be ready to please him

[smiths]

I didnt mean no sex but the fact that we dont have 'bad days' in front of a client.  We are always perfectly made up, hair nails face etc, we dont moan, we dont get sick in front of you and we are always happy and up fro sex no matter what.  whereas in real life people get ill, people get tired, sometimes they dont fancy sex or having to act like a performing monkey.  Sometimes they just want to curl up on the sofa in their bathrobe and just veg. 
I have tried to explain to these lads that escorts do all of the above too just not in the punters paid time but one would not believe me as he sees it in porn as well in escorts so knows a woman should look her best 24/7 and always be ready to please him

Sounds like that punter hasnt a clue about relationships, i have met some myself at parties so know what you mean. Pull and punt is my overall advice to young punters without partners, or indeed with partners, just dont get caught out.

[andrei]

youngpunter, why do your ages differ?

you post this in december 2012:

started at 18, still going strong at 23. happy days

and then post this in march 2013:

Nobody is too young, I'm 22 been punting since 19 combined with normal girls. There's a specific thrill from escorts. I've Pm you some younger punter words of encouragement ha!

[Dani]

Punters come in all age groups.  There is nothing wrong in it unless you are spending money that could be used for something worthwhile.  As you have only done it six times in a year it does not sound like you are overspending.
The only worry I would have with someone who is young and y that I mean younger than you is that they get a bit of a skewed version of what a girlfriend is as although we offer a GFE a real girlfriend would not be dressed up ready to please you at every opportunity.  You are a bit older than that so as long as you are not spending money that could pay a mortgage or rent and you can afford the expense then why the hell not