Fleshlight helps me.
I started punting again about 12 months ago. I used to be fairly regular when I was driving my lorry. Couple of times a month.
Since I started again, I have a "monthly" treat. So far this has only been two different Thai/Chinese places, both for a massage and a wank.
I'm seriously thinking about a full on session though, but as yet, I've either not plucked up the courage, or the girl just hasn't seemed "right".
(plus my lorry now is tracked from start to finish, so a work day is out of the question) So she has to be fairly accessible, and I guess I'm a bit nervous.
But I purchased a fleshlight, and that gets me off big time.
PS. I'm married, kids have left home, and I love my wife.
She doesn't have the greatest sex drive, but we have our moments.
Wouldn't swap her for the world though.