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Simodo

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Just thought to myself,why did I get married when sex is much better with working girls ,this is getting addictive,I just cannot stop seeing different ladies.

Offline BustaNut

Just thought to myself,why did I get married when sex is much better with working girls ,this is getting addictive,I just cannot stop seeing different ladies.

You need to be able to control the 'habit'. If your not careful it'll spiral out of control. My advice to any 'newbie' is this:

1) Have a monthly punting budget which won't get noticed by the wife - don't spend what you don't have.
2) Limit your punts to that budget only - 4 half hour punts a month works out to 1 punt a week.
3) By limiting your punts to once a week, you have something to look forward to. If you can't wait and sexual frustration is killing you, give the wife a treat. Do things that you normally wouldn't do with her. She may be reluctant at first, but if she likes it, she'll eventually relent.
4) ALWAYS wear protection with a prossie - even for oral. If you give your wife an std, your marriage is over.
5) If you still can't control your urges - have a WANK. Trust me, it works.

I always think of punting as a hobby. I punt when I feel like it, but never let it control me.

Hope this helps buddy  :drinks:

Dellboy

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You need to be able to control the 'habit'. If your not careful it'll spiral out of control. My advice to any 'newbie' is this:

1) Have a monthly punting budget which won't get noticed by the wife - don't spend what you don't have.
2) Limit your punts to that budget only - 4 half hour punts a month works out to 1 punt a week.
3) By limiting your punts to once a week, you have something to look forward to. If you can't wait and sexual frustration is killing you, give the wife a treat. Do things that you normally wouldn't do with her. She may be reluctant at first, but if she likes it, she'll eventually relent.
4) ALWAYS wear protection with a prossie - even for oral. If you give your wife an std, your marriage is over.
5) If you still can't control your urges - have a WANK. Trust me, it works.

I always think of punting as a hobby. I punt when I feel like it, but never let it control me.

Hope this helps buddy  :drinks:

Excellent advice  :hi: :hi:

Offline od13218

You need to be able to control the 'habit'. If your not careful it'll spiral out of control. My advice to any 'newbie' is this:

1) Have a monthly punting budget which won't get noticed by the wife - don't spend what you don't have.
2) Limit your punts to that budget only - 4 half hour punts a month works out to 1 punt a week.
3) By limiting your punts to once a week, you have something to look forward to. If you can't wait and sexual frustration is killing you, give the wife a treat. Do things that you normally wouldn't do with her. She may be reluctant at first, but if she likes it, she'll eventually relent.
4) ALWAYS wear protection with a prossie - even for oral. If you give your wife an std, your marriage is over.
5) If you still can't control your urges - have a WANK. Trust me, it works.

I always think of punting as a hobby. I punt when I feel like it, but never let it control me.

Hope this helps buddy  :drinks:
Sound advice- and don't forget no 5! I have learnt this after a couple of punts I regretted where I wasn't thinking straight and regretted it for one reason or another- e.g. Too much risk, overspending, etc. I've learnt to recognise the signs of a "desperation" punt and have one off the wrist instead- saving £s and heartache/grief, and having the next safe/affordable punt to look forward to.

Offline azrael

You need to be able to control the 'habit'. If your not careful it'll spiral out of control. My advice to any 'newbie' is this:

1) Have a monthly punting budget which won't get noticed by the wife - don't spend what you don't have.
2) Limit your punts to that budget only - 4 half hour punts a month works out to 1 punt a week.
3) By limiting your punts to once a week, you have something to look forward to. If you can't wait and sexual frustration is killing you, give the wife a treat. Do things that you normally wouldn't do with her. She may be reluctant at first, but if she likes it, she'll eventually relent.
4) ALWAYS wear protection with a prossie - even for oral. If you give your wife an std, your marriage is over.
5) If you still can't control your urges - have a WANK. Trust me, it works.

I always think of punting as a hobby. I punt when I feel like it, but never let it control me.

Hope this helps buddy  :drinks:

Cant argue with this advice, p.s stay away from wg who openly admit to barebacking  :hi:

Simodo

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Thanks for the excellent advise ,it really helps, not happy with my ways,do get guilty ,but will take on board . Thanks

Offline robx66

Very good advice :-) Pure truth.

Think that all new punters (married or with a partner) should read that "manual" before they start visiting escorts.

Let the good punt be with you :-)

Offline Turtle Z

You need to be able to control the 'habit'. If your not careful it'll spiral out of control. My advice to any 'newbie' is this:

1) Have a monthly punting budget which won't get noticed by the wife - don't spend what you don't have.
2) Limit your punts to that budget only - 4 half hour punts a month works out to 1 punt a week.
3) By limiting your punts to once a week, you have something to look forward to. If you can't wait and sexual frustration is killing you, give the wife a treat. Do things that you normally wouldn't do with her. She may be reluctant at first, but if she likes it, she'll eventually relent.
4) ALWAYS wear protection with a prossie - even for oral. If you give your wife an std, your marriage is over.
5) If you still can't control your urges - have a WANK. Trust me, it works.

I always think of punting as a hobby. I punt when I feel like it, but never let it control me.

Hope this helps buddy  :drinks:

Really good advice and the only thing I'd add to that is have an upper spend limit per punt, say £60 per half hour, and £120 per hour, which is actually my limit.

Simodo

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Number 5 has been completed to many times ,but it is so much safer and no cost lol

Offline Madone1

Number 5 will save you a load of money in the long run I've had plenty of times that I was desperate for a punt with anyone anywhere and having a wank me out instead.Needs to be a very special booking to get me to bother going post wank.

Offline Razor Boy

Spot on advice from Busta and I always go over my cover story a number of times, from all angles, as to why I would be in that area or not in the office etc, so you are happy that you are not going to be caught out by the OH. Once you are happy with your cover you can approach the punt relaxed and focus on the job ahead in hand  :yahoo:
 

Offline Stapler

I just cannot stop seeing different ladies.


We haven't  seen any reviews!  :unknown:

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Offline azrael


We haven't  seen any reviews!  :unknown:

True to form, & right on que stapler. But i have to agree as this site thrives on reviews

Offline PepeMAGA

Also depends on your age,  situation and how you feel about your wife.  Do you actually want to stay married  to her?

Simodo

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I love her ,I have two young ones, the trouble is sex is boring and dull, don't want an affair ,although I have been very close . I don't really like paying for sex,feel guilty and feel I could be with someone for nothing!! I suppose it's easy to phone up,exchange money and have fun.
I was seeing a working girl once a month for 12 years,but she has had family problems and has disappeared ,I'm looking for one regular girl who I feel safe with etc.Im trying to stop but lust always wins me over.

Offline Stapler

I love her ,I have two young ones, the trouble is sex is boring and dull, don't want an affair ,although I have been very close . I don't really like paying for sex,feel guilty and feel I could be with someone for nothing!! I suppose it's easy to phone up,exchange money and have fun.
I was seeing a working girl once a month for 12 years,but she has had family problems and has disappeared ,I'm looking for one regular girl who I feel safe with etc.Im trying to stop but lust always wins me over.


Do you love your wife when you are shagging some slut?

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Simodo

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A man can love a woman and have sex with women to satisfy his needs ,that's what most are doing on this site,I'm just been honest !!

Offline RedditchJay

also..... and this may have been talked about.....

everynight i clear my PC browsing history...........

I have four working girls in my phone as genuine massage ladies {wife is fine with me having a massage}

therefore if i go and  see a WG i tell the wife its a massage so its only a white lie 

Offline Stapler

I have four working girls in my phone as genuine massage ladies {wife is fine with me having a massage}


I don't want to worry you but I suspect a bit of tit for tat.

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Offline Uncle Buck


I don't want to worry you but I suspect a bit of tit for tat.

Are you trying to cause trouble?

Offline prince2

Spot on advice from Busta and I always go over my cover story a number of times, from all angles, as to why I would be in that area or not in the office etc, so you are happy that you are not going to be caught out by the OH. Once you are happy with your cover you can approach the punt relaxed and focus on the job ahead in hand  :yahoo:

I have the added problem that my favourite girl, who I have seen every week for 16 months has moved house to within a mile of my home (purely by chance). Very near to a supermarket that my wife regularly uses. I have to be extra careful now. Travelling time is very good however, it takes me longer to get off my drive than it takes to get there. In fact I could easily walk to her apartment.  :hi:

Offline Stapler

I have the added problem that my favourite girl, who I have seen every week for 16 months has moved house to within a mile of my home (purely by chance). Very near to a supermarket that my wife regularly uses. I have to be extra careful now. Travelling time is very good however, it takes me longer to get off my drive than it takes to get there. In fact I could easily walk to her apartment.  :hi:


So you have seen this girl over 60 times?





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Offline fredhiggins

do we need to have a review of your number 5 activity?

 :crazy:

Offline PepeMAGA

I love her ,I have two young ones, the trouble is sex is boring and dull, don't want an affair ,although I have been very close . I don't really like paying for sex,feel guilty and feel I could be with someone for nothing!! I suppose it's easy to phone up,exchange money and have fun.
I was seeing a working girl once a month for 12 years,but she has had family problems and has disappeared ,I'm looking for one regular girl who I feel safe with etc.Im trying to stop but lust always wins me over.

Do you think if your wife was better in bed that you would be more satisfied? the key might be to try new things to satisfy her and then go with the expectation that she should do the same for you. it's hard to say as people's relationships vary a lot (and I'm not married).
if there is no resolution to the sex issue. separate the idea of fucking and making love. the language you use in your own head is as important as anything. but don't guilt trip yourself on it if it really is the best solution to getting sexual satisfaction.

jeanvaljean2000

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Good advice there. Re: number 5, I cannot wank :thumbsdown: I tried it when I was younger, at uni but never succeed. Last attempt was few years back and I was left with a swollen dick  :( been told it's a psychological thing. When I off I need to shag. Girl friends,   or visit a swinger club or a wg. I have considerably reduce seeing WGs now because it's expensive and often after an hour of shagging,  I come home and get an erection for thinking about it. I now save money by visiting clubs. Retro or private club where I can cum 4 or 5 times for less and sorted for a month at least. It may not be everyone cup of tea but I am now very comfortable in that environment.  :rolleyes:

Offline jimgooooo

Do you think if your wife was better in bed that you would be more satisfied? the key might be to try new things to satisfy her and then go with the expectation that she should do the same for you. it's hard to say as people's relationships vary a lot (and I'm not married).
if there is no resolution to the sex issue. separate the idea of fucking and making love. the language you use in your own head is as important as anything. but don't guilt trip yourself on it if it really is the best solution to getting sexual satisfaction.
at the end of the day you have to look at it as if you didn't go and see a WG would you end up leaving your OH.
you could see it as it as actually saving your marriage cause you are not having an emotional affair with another woman, thus growing apart from your wife.
bustas advise is sound but if your still feeling guilty just space your punts out abit, i personally find that no5 works 95% of the time but rubbing one out only works for a certain amount of time befor you need to, for lack of a better phrase, stick it in something!!

cy362

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Excellent advice  :hi: :hi:

Yes, excellent advise that I shall be following. I'm new to this also and am married. I'm also getting carried away with myself lol

Edit. Quoted wrong text, should be "the manual" I quoted.
« Last Edit: October 19, 2016, 09:39:40 am by cy362 »

Simodo

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Thanks for all the excellent advise lads,taken it all on board .

Offline redliner69

Fleshlight helps me.

I started punting again about 12 months ago. I used to be fairly regular when I was driving my lorry. Couple of times a month.  :wacko:

Since I started again, I have a "monthly" treat. So far this has only been two different Thai/Chinese places, both for a massage and a wank.

I'm seriously thinking about a full on session though, but as yet, I've either not plucked up the courage, or the girl just hasn't seemed "right".  :unknown:
(plus my lorry now is tracked from start to finish, so a work day is out of the question) So she has to be fairly accessible, and I guess I'm a bit nervous.

But I purchased a fleshlight, and that gets me off big time.

PS. I'm married, kids have left home, and I love my wife.
She doesn't have the greatest sex drive, but we have our moments.
Wouldn't swap her for the world though.

pussyhunter79

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For me sticking to a realistic budget is the most important thing. Everyone would like to see the £250 per hour stunners but spending more money than you can afford leads to massive guilt, also try explaining to the missus where all the moneys going leads to trouble


Spend what you can easily afford and no questions are asked.

I set myself a limit of £60 for 30 mins £100 for an hour and i never go more than twice a month

Offline od13218

For me sticking to a realistic budget is the most important thing. Everyone would like to see the £250 per hour stunners but spending more money than you can afford leads to massive guilt, also try explaining to the missus where all the moneys going leads to trouble


Spend what you can easily afford and no questions are asked.

I set myself a limit of £60 for 30 mins £100 for an hour and i never go more than twice a month

I agree that sticking to your budget is important- but would add that paying more doesn't necessarily get you a better experience! I've had some of my best punts with WGs at the cheap end of the market- £60-70 an hour. Attitude is everything!