Can't help thinking you could pull something like that for free on fabswingers with minimal effort. Lots of similar forty something larger ladies gagging for it after all.
Personally I would rather have a punt and pay the money. The problem with fabswingers, POF, Match, seekingarrangements is it is harder to have no strings sex as you basically need to lie about your private life and cover your tracks, I know you do with punting, but after your date everything is forgotten.
With regards Casey's recommendation this is the kind of thing I am looking for at the moment.