Gracie - Plymouth

[RedKettle]

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So I text her asking if she can meet me in the evening and she responds fairly quickly asking me to confirm the time - I go back with 6.45. (I should mention that I had tried to call her but it went to answer phone.)

She responds saying that the earliest she can do is 7.15 - I go straight back agreeing to that.

Now by this time it is getting close to me having to set out so I texted again to confirm and ask for the postcode.  Heard nothing and frankly my senses were tingling that something was not quite right - so I called her, she answers straight away.  She sounds great on the phone which makes me feel OK about everything but she now says that she can only do 7.30 - I say that is OK and she says she will text her address, which she does.

I suspect you are all ahead of me now!  So I head over to the postcode and park up nearby in a safe location.  It gets to 7.25 and I call in case she is ready early, no response which is fine.  I walk over to get to the location just after 7.30 - I call and again no answer.   Now is that awkward time when you feel that everyone is watching you and knows what you are up to - or is it only me that thinks that?  I walk on around a corner and eventually find a spot to call again - about 7.35 now.  No answer.

How long do you wait?  In the past I have hung around for ages with my dick doing all the thinking.  Anyway this time I call again, 7.39, and when it goes to answer phone I leave a polite message saying that as I am getting no responses I am assuming it is not going to happen and I am off.  A brisk walk to the car and I drive off.

Nothing heard from her - even when the next day I sent a text asking what happened yesterday?  At that stage I am thinking that if she made a decent reply I might go back and try again.

Very disappointed, it was a short notice punt but she has positives on here so I was expecting to get a shag.

[Roth]

Not at all good of her.

[bristolqwerty]

Sorry to hear 

[RedKettle]

I have now had an explanation and it was all my fault - just like being married!

Anyway in the spirit of fairness I will set that out.

Apparently she was there and ready for me and thought I had not turned up.  She had given me her address and was waiting for a knock on the door.

Now I find this unlikely for several reasons - I rang several times and if you are waiting for somebody you would keep an eye on the phone?  When I was not there surely you would call or send a text to see if it is just a delay?  Indeed would you not check for missed calls or texts when they did not appear?

I will admit that I never thought to knock on the door - this has never been normal practice for me, I always call or text just before going to the door to check all is OK and the coast is clear.  I even do this with regulars.  Perhaps that is just me and most punters would have just gone to knock on the door? 

[bristolqwerty]

  I have always phoned Gracie to arrange the booking, texted her to know I'm leaving, BUT have always knocked on the door of her house as that's the standard way to enter someones house in my world However, I take your point, as this was your first visit and that you would seek confirmation is quite normal.  Also expecting an escort to keep her phone switched on and close by is not out of the ordinary as you may need directions or are running late. It seems like an almighty clusterfuck

[markc65]

I have now had an explanation and it was all my fault - just like being married!

Anyway in the spirit of fairness I will set that out.

Apparently she was there and ready for me and thought I had not turned up.  She had given me her address and was waiting for a knock on the door.

Now I find this unlikely for several reasons - I rang several times and if you are waiting for somebody you would keep an eye on the phone?  When I was not there surely you would call or send a text to see if it is just a delay?  Indeed would you not check for missed calls or texts when they did not appear?

I will admit that I never thought to knock on the door - this has never been normal practice for me, I always call or text just before going to the door to check all is OK and the coast is clear.  I even do this with regulars.  Perhaps that is just me and most punters would have just gone to knock on the door?

That all seems fair enough.

I too text when I have parked just to make sure all ok,

[RedKettle]

I have always phoned Gracie to arrange the booking, texted her to know I'm leaving, BUT have always knocked on the door of her house as that's the standard way to enter someones house in my world However, I take your point, as this was your first visit and that you would seek confirmation is quite normal.  Also expecting an escort to keep her phone switched on and close by is not out of the ordinary as you may need directions or are running late. It seems like an almighty clusterfuck

I did not particularly think about it as I always text or call to check before going to the door - but if I had thought about it I would have done the same, she was clearly running to a tight timescale from the requests to put the time back and I would not have wanted to have been knocking at the door whilst she was still travelling home, in the shower or finishing off the previous punter.

[Belisknor]

I agree with you on texting before going to the door just to make sure she's ready and that I have the right address but I personally never experienced any problems with communication when I met with her a few weeks ago, she seemed very professional in that regard we did change the time slightly but was kept informed.

[grace]

I remember this happening. I was in the bathroom finishing getting myself ready. My phone was in the other room I had told you to knock on the door when you arrived. I spent ages getting ready as i always do for a booking which turned out to be a complete waste of my time. I think it's very unreasonable to give me a negative review because you failed to follow my instructions. I can't understand why you would not knock on the door especially if you failed to get a answer on the phone. I definitely can not understand why you would give me a negative review seeing as though if you has have followed the instructions I gave you you would have had your booking. I would have offered you some extra time/ discount on a future booking for the inconvenience. But after this I think I'd prefer not to see you at all to be honest.   

[Roth]

Ok. Heard both sides now.

Personally I would be very wary though of knocking on a door if a prossie I'd booked had not picked up on my call or replied to my text beforehand  Phone silence on her part could mean a whole bunch of things such as previous punter still there, landlord arrived unexpectedly, she's having a row with Sergie or she's running behind and not ready.

IMHO texting and phone calls pre-punt between punter and prossie are the norm. This is a time when both sides are nervous as to whether the punt is actually gonna happen.  Take the phone into the bathroom obviously not in the shower and/or make sure you check it regularly in the minutes leading up to the punt. 

[grace]

To be fair as far as i can remember i went into the bathroom to brush my teeth,  use some mouth wash and brush my hair. He couldn't have tried calling more than a couple of times. Like I said to him on the phone when I saw the calls 30 mind or so after  I had had 3 other people book and not turn up on that day so just put it down to a bad day.    I organised and paid for a babysitter and spent over a hour getting myself and my home ready. But if he wants to feel hard done by and start ranting about it thats his perogative. It's a bit like leaving a bad review on ebay because you missed the postman.

[grace]

I totally get what you are saying Roth and I usually do keep my phone with me. It was absent minded of me not to. I just think it's 12 of one and half a dozen of the other as to why the booking didn't take place.  Yes I should have took my phone into the bathroom with me but also he should have said on the phone beforehand if he felt it necessary to call when outside before coming to the door. In my experience most customers are quite happy to arrive at the door at the specified time if that was what was agreed. I  don't want to pay for a babysitter and and spend time getting ready  only for a booking not to happen. So to be honest I feel just as inconvenienced by him as he did by me. Am I being unreasonable?

[P. Lonker]

What BULSHIT from that Girl! Can you knock on the door when you are stuck in traffic or held up for any other reason? Until a client turns up, the phone should be stuck to her hand!!

[Shaketherooom]

Yep, smells like BS to me too. Every booking ive had, the last comms have been by text or phone to confirm alls ok and its safe to knock. Seems out of order blaming the punter here.

[RedKettle]

I remember this happening. I was in the bathroom finishing getting myself ready. My phone was in the other room I had told you to knock on the door when you arrived. I spent ages getting ready as i always do for a booking which turned out to be a complete waste of my time. I think it's very unreasonable to give me a negative review because you failed to follow my instructions. I can't understand why you would not knock on the door especially if you failed to get a answer on the phone. I definitely can not understand why you would give me a negative review seeing as though if you has have followed the instructions I gave you you would have had your booking. I would have offered you some extra time/ discount on a future booking for the inconvenience. But after this I think I'd prefer not to see you at all to be honest.   

Only just seen this - there was no "instruction" to knock on the door, otherwise I would have done.  I phoned lots of times, including after the appointment time so "being in the bathroom" is not valid.

[RedKettle]

To be fair as far as i can remember i went into the bathroom to brush my teeth,  use some mouth wash and brush my hair. He couldn't have tried calling more than a couple of times. Like I said to him on the phone when I saw the calls 30 mind or so after  I had had 3 other people book and not turn up on that day so just put it down to a bad day.    I organised and paid for a babysitter and spent over a hour getting myself and my home ready. But if he wants to feel hard done by and start ranting about it thats his perogative. It's a bit like leaving a bad review on ebay because you missed the postman.

I think anyone reading the review will see that I was not ranting, it was a fairly calm account of the facts.

As to only calling a few times I called several times over 15 minutes and in the end left a message.  I never received any call back that evening so for you to say we spoke is just not true. 

[sigmund]

I would never just walk up and knock either, IM (albeit limited) E its  common for the girls to be a few minutes behind and the last thing you want to be doing is standing outside the door waiting for her to finish getting ready.

[grace]

We did speak by call or by text (im unsure which) but I definitely messed you to apologise for not hearing my phone and ask if you wanted to still come. I got ready and I waited for you. I'm not a fuck around my feedback speaks for itself. Think whatever you want. I'm just giving my side of what happened. I went in the other room to finish getting ready. Yes may have been a bit silly of me but I'm not perfect. When running round trying to get ready it's easy to put your phone down. I've got 260 positive feedback and goodness knows how many positive feedback only reviews. I pride myself on the  service I provide. I love what I do and I'm good at it. If I had have forgotten about the booking or godkows what I would hold my hands up to that I've been doing this for 10 years and yes there's been the odd time that I've slept through my alarm or forgotten about a booking. I'm only human after all. But I was waiting for you to arrive at the address I had given you. So please don't make out like it's entirely my fault if you had have followed my instructions you would have had your booking. if you had have been reasonable and contacted me I would have done you a free 30 min's on your next booking or a discount. I'm actually a really reasonable and honest person if a little bit absent minded sometimes. But who the hell is perfect? Say whatever you like I really couldn't care less. I escort with genuine enthusiasm I love people and genuinely care that everyone who sees me walks out with a massive smile. I really have a passion for bringing fantasies to life or making someone feel really special. I would literally challenge you to find many escorts who put as much effort into this as I do. So yes I can be absent minded but please don't make me out to be some kind of fuck around who doesn't give a shit.