A good list there, though not sure I'd bother with Livingroom, maybe try out Magnum in Dus.
driving from NRW to Frankfurt isn't to far, done it myself, another club you might want to try is fkk World near Giessen, if you're going this summer Palace as well as being a shark tank will be quiet, girls and customers skip the club in the summer, would stick to Oase or Sharks. You do realise driving to Berlin from Frankfurt is over 500kms! would you really want that much of a drive?