Phuket, Pattaya and Bangkok - For Beginners

[southcoastpunter]

Stampjones - if they are working in the bar - ask her if you can bar fine her ! That is pay the bar what they charge you to take the girl out of the bar! If she says “yes” ask how much! There will be a different price for Short Time ( an hour or 2) and “Long Time” ( maybe overnight or at least 4 or 5 hours!) If she says “no” then it’s drink and chat in the bar only. Move on to someone else.
On top of the bar fine there is an amount to pay to the girl - so a normal conversation about what you want from her and how much!
Depending how far your hotel is you could ask her if there are any short time hotels nearby- where you can buy a room for an hour or two!
But also get yourself to Nana on sukhumvit Soi 4 - it’s similar to Soi Cowboy except that it’s a building with several floors and it’s bigger! It also has more bars nearby where you can relax with girls and /or bar fine them too! Probably more freelancers around Nana too!

[stampjones]

Thanks scp. That's really helpful. I'll have more time this time to look around properly so will definitely try all the places out

[Fatman]

Just ask them if they want to be Bar fined and then discuss her fee and what you want to do in the hay with her 🤷‍♂️ it’s a business transaction at the end of the day. Pick a hotel near to the area or she will have short time hotel or above the bar have rooms available.
Happy shagging 

[jono44]

Most girls in Soi Cowboy bars are available. Firstly they will be influenced by person hygene. How you look, behave (ie do not look as if its all new to you - otherwise you may be a mark) and. more importantly, smell. Secondly, and I know this sounds out of place, they react well to being treated with respect. Nothing major. Just treat them as you would any normal sentient human beings with whom you wish to enter into a friendly business relationship. Once you buy a drink, most girls can either just to sit with you while you take in the floor show (more an asian thing) or to negotiate and then , when you are ready, to leave with you. Just ask if they would like to spend short time ( ie, once) or long time - (probably overnight unless they start agitating earlier). If positive response (and not all will be) ask price. lIf they need lots more drinks before they can leave,  - walk. Initial show of reluctance from the girl may be more play acting. But as always treat no as no. If response is positive outline any specific requirements such as good blowjob without condom , cim etc. Do not use abbreviations. Once did that only to be told later in the evening she had no idea what they stood for even though she had ssid lyest to each. And lived up to that. Cost of bar fine and then how much you pay girl is next on the list. She may - probably will -  bring in the Mamasan at this point to help in discussions. Always refuse to pay mamasan for anything but the bar fine (unless you feel incilned to tip her). Some try to get the girl fee up front. Bad idea as firstly they rake a commission from girl and secondly the girl has no incentive to perform at her best if she has not still to be paid. Pay after is the usual rather than in advance. And finance is the incentive.  Costs vary but bar fine usually between 1000 and 2000 depending on time and place. Girl? Probably starts at 4000 bhat or sometimes even more for st but may come down with bargaining. Probably initially ask 6000 for lt. Do not feel you can not bargain. It is expeced. But do so with a smile. it is part of the foreplay not antagonistic. They may often think of you as a cash machine. Only difference is the type of card used. Then , when you know price decide whether it is worth it. Alternatively whether you should try your luck in Thermae (some gems but not as many as in Soi Cowboy) - and there you can take them upstairs for a short time if you do not want them in your hotel. But the better looking girls now seem to be looking out for japanese, Chinese or Korean 'whales'. Those who are interested usually smile back at you.

[stampjones]

Thanks for all the great info everyone

[Steely Dan]

Great thread. I'm thinking of heading to bkk. I was there previously for one night on a layover and went to a couple of bars on soi cowboy but I couldn't see how it worked. I bought a drink for a couple of girls but nothing seemed to happen. Any advice how it works in those places. Probably I'm just being thick and overthinking

You say, 'how much for short time'.  Or 'how much to come back to my hotel for boom-boom'. Or 'is there a room upstairs I can fuck you senseless?'  Any variation works.

Only a 90 min taxi to Pattaya.  Soi 6 is like one huge FKK club with 2000-3000 girls working.  The Soi Cowboy pick up lines will work there too.

[stampjones]

You say, 'how much for short time'.  Or 'how much to come back to my hotel for boom-boom'. Or 'is there a room upstairs I can fuck you senseless?'  Any variation works.

Only a 90 min taxi to Pattaya.  Soi 6 is like one huge FKK club with 2000-3000 girls working.  The Soi Cowboy pick up lines will work there too.

Cheers mate. I was doing some research on Pattaya and it definitely seems like it's worth spending a night or two there. Just for the sea air you understand 

[M2021]

Having come back from Thailand/Phuket couple weeks ago. My advice for Thailand, there are bars and places like Bangla road or Pattaya (but if thats not your scene and its to busy for you try this next). Before I got there I signed up to Seeking, got loads of matches, found out pricing and ended up going with one non thai girl (there were many to meet from) whom came to my place wherever I was and stayed overnight, cost around £170 each night. When I wasnt linking her, Tinder was an excellent shout, just full of freelancers/escorts, mix of Thai, Russian, Brazilian etc. I would download Telegram/LINE, because once you move the chat from tinder to there, you can find out pay per meet, they can send verification photos and vids if you ask. I met two women from Tinder, 5000 thai bhat for 2 shots however long, she stayed for 4/5hrs, the other one would see me for 2 pumps for 2000 bhat, again stayed for 3hrs. But yeah seeking/tinder has an abundance of women to meet, all be it seeking is a lot per month (I paid for a month, was enough to get loads of contacts, and that was across asia, Japan/Thailand/Indonesia/Vietnam/Malaysia/Singapore), if you dont want to pay for either, Tinder still works free, just limited amount of swipes. Alternatively, just got to bars and those famous streets (i didnt need to in the end).

There is also another method, if you go on X, translate Bangkokescort, Bangkokhookup to Thai, put it in search, you'll see content from women locally, you can hook up with if you DM them, this probably works in other countries too.

But on the flipside, there are some women there that if they find you handsome/charming enough will fck you at no cost. I had a couple of scenarios, one at a shopping mall, whereby we got along and the typical you want boom boom, I said yeah come back to mine but not paying for it, she said ok, came back to mine, she left the next morning, i did order us food at the condo etc, but was more like a date.

I must preface that I went during what is considered low season for tourism, maybe some women were just hadn't had sex in a while and were horny as hell, or I was just lucky, who knows. There was a massage place near one of the condos i stayed at, I was probably the only guy taking my daily walks along this road (Baan Sai Yuan, same road as Nuru Spa), there were only ever two Thai ladies at this specfic parlour, both I would say 6 or 7/10, 400 thai bhat for oil massage, about half way (we spoke and laughed quite a bit before the intimate stuff began, usual crotch swipes, had to lift my ass/hips up she just wanted to grab my dick and give me a hand job, told me to flip, asked if I wanted extras, I said only have the 400 cash for massage, she said ok, went out for around 5-8min, I was wondering what the hell, so just carried on having a wank, she then walked in smiled, undressed, pulled out a condom, put it on me, blew me for 5min, I felt her pussy and she was really wet, hadn't given her oral, she climbed on and rode, dfk'd me till she climaxed and I popped a few min after, cleaned up, gave her 400 bhat a kiss/hug and left, i did come back later in the week and give her a tip after our 2nd session, she had the best attitude and was one of the sweetest woman i met there. Thai women are some of the most down to earth, kind ladies that ive come across, in comparison to Europeans. Dont get me wrong, there are equally Thai women that wont give you the time of day, as they have a preference, so wont even engage with you.

So overall £ goes a very long way over there, women will travel to you wherever you are, and even if you have to pay for there taxi, its like £10 total there and back.

Cant muster up meeting any UK escorts since been back, £150 min usually now for an hour, limited restrictions and risk of poor attitude just doesnt seem worth it anymore lol, Asia will ruin it for you when you get back. 

[M2021]

To add i agree with what Jono has posted above, hygiene and being respectful goes a long way. Treat sex likes its in abundance for you there (which technically it is), and women will naturally put in more effort for less kickback.

[Uk765]

Having come back from Thailand/Phuket couple weeks ago. My advice for Thailand, there are bars and places like Bangla road or Pattaya (but if thats not your scene and its to busy for you try this next). Before I got there I signed up to Seeking, got loads of matches, found out pricing and ended up going with one non thai girl (there were many to meet from) whom came to my place wherever I was and stayed overnight, cost around £170 each night. When I wasnt linking her, Tinder was an excellent shout, just full of freelancers/escorts, mix of Thai, Russian, Brazilian etc. I would download Telegram/LINE, because once you move the chat from tinder to there, you can find out pay per meet, they can send verification photos and vids if you ask. I met two women from Tinder, 5000 thai bhat for 2 shots however long, she stayed for 4/5hrs, the other one would see me for 2 pumps for 2000 bhat, again stayed for 3hrs. But yeah seeking/tinder has an abundance of women to meet, all be it seeking is a lot per month (I paid for a month, was enough to get loads of contacts, and that was across asia, Japan/Thailand/Indonesia/Vietnam/Malaysia/Singapore), if you dont want to pay for either, Tinder still works free, just limited amount of swipes. Alternatively, just got to bars and those famous streets (i didnt need to in the end).

There is also another method, if you go on X, translate Bangkokescort, Bangkokhookup to Thai, put it in search, you'll see content from women locally, you can hook up with if you DM them, this probably works in other countries too.

But on the flipside, there are some women there that if they find you handsome/charming enough will fck you at no cost. I had a couple of scenarios, one at a shopping mall, whereby we got along and the typical you want boom boom, I said yeah come back to mine but not paying for it, she said ok, came back to mine, she left the next morning, i did order us food at the condo etc, but was more like a date.

I must preface that I went during what is considered low season for tourism, maybe some women were just hadn't had sex in a while and were horny as hell, or I was just lucky, who knows. There was a massage place near one of the condos i stayed at, I was probably the only guy taking my daily walks along this road (Baan Sai Yuan, same road as Nuru Spa), there were only ever two Thai ladies at this specfic parlour, both I would say 6 or 7/10, 400 thai bhat for oil massage, about half way (we spoke and laughed quite a bit before the intimate stuff began, usual crotch swipes, had to lift my ass/hips up she just wanted to grab my dick and give me a hand job, told me to flip, asked if I wanted extras, I said only have the 400 cash for massage, she said ok, went out for around 5-8min, I was wondering what the hell, so just carried on having a wank, she then walked in smiled, undressed, pulled out a condom, put it on me, blew me for 5min, I felt her pussy and she was really wet, hadn't given her oral, she climbed on and rode, dfk'd me till she climaxed and I popped a few min after, cleaned up, gave her 400 bhat a kiss/hug and left, i did come back later in the week and give her a tip after our 2nd session, she had the best attitude and was one of the sweetest woman i met there. Thai women are some of the most down to earth, kind ladies that ive come across, in comparison to Europeans. Dont get me wrong, there are equally Thai women that wont give you the time of day, as they have a preference, so wont even engage with you.

So overall £ goes a very long way over there, women will travel to you wherever you are, and even if you have to pay for there taxi, its like £10 total there and back.

Cant muster up meeting any UK escorts since been back, £150 min usually now for an hour, limited restrictions and risk of poor attitude just doesnt seem worth it anymore lol, Asia will ruin it for you when you get back.

Nice read. I've been back a month or so, fully agree with what you're saying, particularly the last line.