How to escalate massage with ‘professional’ masseuse that is attracted to me?

[DastardlyDick]

As for the police (and I'm no expert here), I hope they can use their time better than trying to find out if legitimate masseurs are actually prostitutes, and wouldn't, they have to send someone and record them offering services in person for it to hold up in court, otherwise the SP could say it was a misunderstanding on the phone / txt? (assuming they haven't a large collection from the same SP)

Given that VAWG (Violence Against Women and Girls) is flavour of the month with the political classes, so I wouldn't bet on that.

[Colston36]

I'm still puzzling over this phrase "escalate massage" what does it mean in English?

[Doc Holliday]

I'm still puzzling over this phrase "escalate massage" what does it mean in English?

"A picture paints a thousand ......"

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[Crackpot11]

If it’s a legit massage and you fancy her, you could just ask her out at the end rather than exposing your privates. If you just fancy a tug from her just ask if any extras. She’s unlikely to give you sex just because you think she fancies you.

[pbrown355]

That's brilliant Doc

[Thephoenix]

"A picture paints a thousand ......"

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[RandomGuy99]

Everyone knows she should be standing on the right.

[Doc Holliday]

Everyone knows she should be standing on the right.

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[bristolnick]

Have you thought about popping a blue pill before you go and just think sexual thoughts, spin over and the boner of the year is there.

[Mr Sinister]

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How not to escalate.....

[fredhiggins]

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How not to escalate.....

You beat me to it (so to speak). Just read this.

[RandomGuy99]

It must be pretty bad as a legit masseuse to have men contact you asking for extras. I don't blame them for going women only.

[Markc]

To the OP in my experience if you have seen a woman a couple of times for a massage and extras where on offer she
would of mentioned it by now. Remember this is how the girls make extra money and if you give it to them straight
in room the establishment will not know about. If you enjoy her company and a simple massage enjoy what you have
but if you want more maybe look elsewhere

[Norwichwood]

It must be pretty bad as a legit masseuse to have men contact you asking for extras. I don't blame them for going women only.

And there is a lot of woman offering happy endings to ladies as well. I don't have any data but have been told by various people in my city who offer it / get offered. Ladies need a happy ending as well!

Likewise places can change. I knew one legit place where they fired a lady for doing happy endings. Taking went down...... so they now look the other way..... takings back up.
Earning can be low - and tips mean they are making double for the same time - all cash in hand. And just for massaging in a sexy way - less work than a real deep massage.

If advertising on gumtree or VS - over 80% do. Feel sorry for the others - but advertising on gumtree..... need to make it clear - underpants must be kept on and no extras or police will be informed (as it says on one local website - would have to be a DH to then ask)

[RandomGuy99]

And there is a lot of woman offering happy endings to ladies as well. I don't have any data but have been told by various people in my city who offer it / get offered. Ladies need a happy ending as well!

I've asked a few massage providers about this and they say they don't give their female customers happy endings.

[Norwichwood]

Would these tend to be Chinese ladies?

I have heard from some local Thai, white and coloured ladies of being asked / giving ladies happy ending massages. No data just heard plenty of times that there is a market for it. There use to be at least 1 lady in Norwich spitting distance from where I work who focused on 'tantric' massages but for ladies only. Plenty of bi / gay / straight ladies about who are happy to give a hand

But I did hear from a white lady she use to do ladies - but in her own words they can't trust ladies - and some male's have got into a lot of trouble not worth it anymore - but men are simple she said - if any complained there would be 5 coppers there to find out if true! On a serious note - a local chap got arrested and locked up for 5 hours for giving his secretary a food massage?! And when she told her mother - her mother made her complain to the police :-s

[whiskyfan]

Interesting recent article that the OP and a few others might want to read.

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