Author Topic: Would you stop punting if you had more sex in your civvy life?  (Read 8504 times)

Offline Hornydevil666

In a heart beat.
Plain and simple.
If i were getting more sex at home i would stop (not that i punt often anyway) but i love my wife but the sex has dried up and i need some release sometimes, so its either this or split

Offline webpunter

In a heart beat.
Plain and simple.
If i were getting more sex at home i would stop (not that i punt often anyway) but i love my wife but the sex has dried up and i need some release sometimes, so its either this or split

My post #82
There are numerous sexless marriages which are helped maintained by the guy paying

Offline Malvolio

My desire to fuck hot women half my age isn't going to happen in civvy street, so there's no way I'm stopping punting whilst I can still afford it and get it up.

Offline webpunter

My desire to fuck hot women half my age isn't going to happen in civvy street, so there's no way I'm stopping punting whilst I can still afford it and get it up.

Civvy age c.50% is fraught with problems - time effort £££ just the start
If blokes happen to be minted .... 'oooh i had a tummy problem my pill didn't work' yeah right  :scare:

I prefer milfs & minus ten years maybe a bit more or so in itself presents some issues challenges & making allowances
A bit of fun now again

As for affording it punting a major motivation to deliver the funds

Getting it up  :scare:
I like to think a good number of years ahead of me
I must be on getting the tanks emptied professionally 500+ times not really sure it could easily be more
My target a bag of sand and some + i will be keeping records more stringently

This all points to how brilliant our fave sport can be
UKP by our side along the way [incl. having a laarf on both punting massaging topics + others]  :hi:
Stop punting don't be silly i'll wind things in a bit when the GF is on form [which ebbs & flows quelle surprise]
 

Offline sesalovdarlo

I have not been shy of civvie fun, but i find it a bit risky now, thats not to say women are falling at my feet. No matter how good looking you are this doesn’t happen. with the exception of my annual lads holiday or stag do’s abroad the opportunity for casual buggery is minimal now. The risk of the long winded chatting / texting / dating apps for casual fun is hardwork to find that the girl is not great in bed and the hardest part when you are married is trying to keep it discreet from wife with secondary number (e sim i turn on and off) and then break it off with the casual. Too many close calls

As a business owner i have to much too loose if divorce and 5 kids to 2 different women will break me if i had to pay maintenance, although i am not rich by any means the moderate punting for few hours a month doesn’t break my bank also paying to get exactly what you want, doesn’t beat it for me.

Sex with wife was great 10 year ago, but when she has popped out a few that is soon short lived

« Last Edit: January 15, 2026, 09:33:46 am by sesalovdarlo »

Offline NotThe

The Madonna whore complex is such an interesting thing.
They swear it’s not a real thing but you’ve literally just described it.
Sometimes I wonder as a young provider what will happen when I get older if I’ll ever be married because with the amount of married men I’ve seen I just don’t think I can trust them anymore.
I don’t think men are monogamous by nature. There will always be that itch to scratch it seems.

I don't think you need to be Freud to think that the madonna/whore complex you describe is probably linked to a very rigid, conservative, repressed, often religious type of upbringing.

If you view sex as sinful but marriage and family life as holy and commendable, then of course you will struggle with a dissonance between on one hand having certain urges and desires, on the other hand thinking they are unworthy of family life and maybe doing the bare minimum with the wife and the kinks with sex workers.

Me, I just think the world would be a better place if uptight repressed people got laid more.
Blowjobs should be on the NHS - a sure way to reduce aggression and violent crimes  :lol:

For my part, I see sex as a wonderful, natural part of life. Nothing to be ashamed of. There isn't a single sex act which I wouldn't want to do with a loving partner but which I would want to do with a sex worker. Not one. Horses for courses.

Offline webpunter

the hardest part when you are married is trying to keep it discreet from wife with secondary number (e sim i turn on and off) and then break it off with the casual. Too many close calls

As a business owner i have to much too loose if divorce and 5 kids to 2 different women will break me if i had to pay maintenance, although i am not rich by any means the moderate punting for few hours a month doesn’t break my bank also paying to get exactly what you want, doesn’t beat it for me.

I refer you to my reply #82
The chances of a guy being caught having an affair is exponentially higher

Sex with wife was great 10 year ago, but when she has popped out a few that is soon short lived

This is the same the world over
Same book different cover
I even got bored when it came to baby making duties after a while a few days
Her: "you've got to stay inside me a while then ease out slowly so no leakage" before her lying on the bed with her legs in the air, really
Me thinking 'WTF MOTD is starting in three minutes & i forgot to record it'  :dash:
Tho the upside [to assist me getting it over the line soon as poss] was for me to have a mental spin through of the best shags on my CV  :D

Offline webpunter

For my part, I see sex as a wonderful, natural part of life. Nothing to be ashamed of. There isn't a single sex act which I wouldn't want to do with a loving partner but which I would want to do with a sex worker. Not one. Horses for courses.

Does this include batting ?  ;)

Offline EastmidsBrowser

Wife gave me a lovely blowjob last night. Long, slow, sensual warm licks and sucking, first one in nearly 2 years. Better than any escort imo

Offline webpunter

Wife gave me a lovely blowjob last night. Long, slow, sensual warm licks and sucking, first one in nearly 2 years. Better than any escort imo

 :rose:
She must want something  :D
Or she might have a suspicion you are getting some action elsewhere
& is upping her game
As you are on here her suspicions would be correct

I've had lots of really pukka wifey GF civvy BJs
However when a stunning professional gets going giving it the beans it can take things to another level

Hopefully you wont have to wait another two years until the next one

Offline standardpostage

Wife gave me a lovely blowjob last night. Long, slow, sensual warm licks and sucking, first one in nearly 2 years. Better than any escort imo
Look forward to your next one in 2028  :)

PS Thanks for share  :)
« Last Edit: January 19, 2026, 01:32:01 pm by standardpostage »

Offline EastmidsBrowser

Well she's been googling how to flirt with her work colleagues and how toneat a banana seductively so think she might be up to something herself lol

Offline mh

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I'd stop if there was more - and varied - sex in my civvy life. I do get "varied", to some minor extent, but the time between occasions of any sort is way too long. It means that when it does happen, my requests to do something unusual are met with a 'why can't you just be pleased I'm putting out for you' type response. So the few times anal and rimming have taken place stay few!

Luckily I really like doing RO and my OH likes receiving it (she comes like a train from it). But when that happens I have to finish myself off. So I have to choose between vanilla fucking to have a long session or an intense immensely enjoyable short session and finishing with a wank.

Offline webpunter

I'd stop if there was more - and varied - sex in my civvy life. I do get "varied", to some minor extent, but the time between occasions of any sort is way too long. It means that when it does happen, my requests to do something unusual are met with a 'why can't you just be pleased I'm putting out for you' type response. So the few times anal and rimming have taken place stay few!

Luckily I really like doing RO and my OH likes receiving it (she comes like a train from it). But when that happens I have to finish myself off. So I have to choose between vanilla fucking to have a long session or an intense immensely enjoyable short session and finishing with a wank.

Thats classic wimin thinking 'putting out' like they are doing their hubby a favour  :rolleyes:

Speaking with mates a good number of them are hardly interested is shagging wifey as things are samey, mostly bog standard mish position
Requesting something unusual [i.e. different] is likely to fall on deaf ears
And can lead to things being called off entirely then wait until the next allotted slot is a few weeks / month
Occasionally wifey would amaze them, then a few days later it would be a new car / going on holiday / new flooring etc that gets raised
We coined the phrase bbc [no not that one  :D] birthdays bank holidays & christmas day

Crikey you pull out all the stops she's chooo chooo then you have to bash yourself off WTF
She could at least wank you off over her tits
Or let you bash it over her tits & it would be unfortunate if there was some mis-aiming a stray cum shot hitting her boat  :D :yahoo:
This might encourage her to take matters into her own hands, so to write

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Look forward to your next one in 2028  :)

PS Thanks for share  :)

Lmfao this response is hilarious I really hope I don’t turn into this sort of wife if I ever become one.
I love giving blowjobs way too much to only do it once every 2 damn years ! Fuckkkkkk
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Offline django0700

I get plenty of sex at home but punting just hits harder and better

I agree - i would not stop punting...

Online Garyhart

It’s a big part of the reason why I punt less these days. Not in a marriage but single life in London is very nice these days.

Offline Chazz


For my part, I see sex as a wonderful, natural part of life. Nothing to be ashamed of. There isn't a single sex act which I wouldn't want to do with a loving partner but which I would want to do with a sex worker. Not one. Horses for courses.

It's not so much that I wouldn't do kinky stuff with the OH, more that they won't do it with me! Especially if a horse is involved!!!

Offline AlwaysLooking

I started when the sex with Mrs AL dropped to once every time hell froze over. I guess now we have it once a year/18months.

Would I stop, don't honestly know. I love Mrs AL, her body/boobs I think are fabulous (yes I have told her, but that doesn't change anything). But on the other hand, with this hobby I can have a seriously fit 23 year old this week, and fuck a milf next week. Mrs AL just won't give sloppy bj's, so I get there else where.

Offline ykhan16

Similar situation to a few others. Care a lot for my OH and she does satisfy my needs well. Obvious differences in skills of course- like a masseuse is always going to provide a better massage. Some things (like cim) she would never do or agrees to rarely (anal) but on the whole I'm happy and as a result don't punt that frequently. When I do though its because I have to fulfill an urge and I have a desire for something different - normally in the form of a gym-fit hottie with huge bolt-ons!

I guess food is a good analogy- home cooked food is great but sometimes you just want to treat yourself to something else!

Offline advent2016

Wife gave me a lovely blowjob last night. Long, slow, sensual warm licks and sucking, first one in nearly 2 years. Better than any escort imo

I find that when I start a new relationship there are lots of sloppy BJs, but when they move in and were are a couple they usually stop unless they want something expensive. Current one probably thinks she is being coy and pwning me, maybe she is and I'm a simple robot. She likes to clean, socialist, go to formal dances and outside she is always the perfect social escort, although she will flirt to get something at work with the pimply IT guy. We've been together a  few years and we still have sex, but it's boring missionary and only vag. We do kiss a lot and I enjoy that.
I'm getting to an age where I should probably settle down, longterm. But my other brain in my pants says I should tick off a few more things.