Mikeh38 my other half is the love of my life unfortunately she had various experiences when she was younger that has left her with some understandable hangups when it come to sex, on top of that she has a chronic condition which means she has virtually no libido. We have been together years but the lack of sex was getting frustrating but wasn't something I would consider leaving her over, seeing a working girl seems like an uncomplicated way to remedy the situation.