Author Topic: Advice required - not sure how to proceed  (Read 3994 times)

Offline PeteSmyth

I need some advice on this one. I short, I saw a WG advertised on AW. Her enjoys list is wide-ranging, she offers good value for money and her photos look ok. However, her incall venue is a far distance from where I live - about a 3.5hour round trip. I messaged her and enquired whether she toured, hoping that she would visit my town. Anyway, she replied saying that if I wanted an outcall it would be 1 hour minimum and would cost £xx.  However, this was not the question I asked her. I asked her about touring, not outcalls. I did not reply. About a week later, she sent me a message saying "Free tomorrow x". This is the first time that a WG has messaged me, unprompted in this way. This action came across as a little desperate. Anyway, I still wanted to see her, so I booked a 1-hour incall with her through AW despite the distance. She accepted the booking. I heard nothing, so I messaged her to ask for her mobile number and more importantly her venue location - a postcode or nearest landmark because her incall venue is in a fairly large city. She replied with her mobile number - no venue location. I replied asking whether she would let me have her venue location or whether she would furnish me with this infromation nearer to the date of the appointment (in about a week's time). She did not reply. My dilemma is that I want to see her - but her communication and attitude so far has not been great. She comes across as a tad desperate and rude. I really don't like it when people both in my private and professional life ignore my emails/messages. I think it's bad form. What do other punters think? Should I proceed and honour the appointment? I'm a little torn myself. 

Offline Mr Garmin

If it was me I'd be making the decision based on multiple factors.  What's her history like & does she have any reviews on here?

Some girls comms can be awful but they may have a reputation that makes up for it.

If she's new with no feedback I'd be extremely cautious travelling 3.5 hours on the off chance that she turns out to be any good.

Offline Mr Rollison

I'd leave it until a couple of days before.
I would send a email requesting location or postcode and if got no answer within a set time, cancel, explaining as I don't have the required information, I can't make arrangements to travel.

Offline Jameson20

Trust your gut 100%. There are sufficient red flags to warrant an abort, and that's what I'd be doing. Just my two-penneth.

Online cheekymonkey

All of the above- ring her on her mobile a day or 2 before. A whole week before- not many wg keep a diary that long, & messages a week before will be extremely brief from them, on the notion that you may be wasting their time. But i still wouldn't risk travelling that distance without a conversation on the phone a day or 2 before.

Offline scutty brown

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Walk away, and forget her
From what you've described she's clearly not reading (or understanding) your e-mails/questions. I would think that first reply to was simply her using a scattergun approach to  everyone she'd recently been in contact with in the hope that someone would fill a cancellation gap.  She probably didn't even consider the distance
You're wasting your time

Offline PeteSmyth

Thanks, guys - all great advice. This one has thrown me a bit. I've been punting on-and-off for about 13 years now and without fail the communication I have received from WGs has been excellent. I don't expect hearts and kisses in a message from a WG but I do expect them to reply to basic questions. My gut feeling is that if she's this cold and unenthusiastic when it comes to her communications, what's she going to be like in the sack?! For info, this WG is quite new to the game - only been on AW for less than six months - a couple of dozen reviews of which most are positive. I do work in the customer service sector and if one of my staff displayed the same nonchalant manner to a client, I wouldn't be very impressed, maybe I'm just too old school?
« Last Edit: July 12, 2025, 12:15:24 pm by PeteSmyth »

Offline GreyDave

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They are probally not answering emails themselfs 1stly and to be fair Sir I would wait till one is closer a long trip out and back is all ways a pain to get timing right and lets all be honest here if she gets alonger  booking or just gets shagged senseless by a BBC 1/2 before your meet she might not feel like earning a few quid extra

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Offline Mr Garmin

For info, this WG is quite new to the game - only been on AW for less than six months - a couple of dozen reviews of which most are positive.

Presumably you mean feedback on AW.  If she has negs on there (where most are frightened to do that for fear of retribution) I would take that as a red flag

A couple of really good well reviewed girls respond to messages very bluntly and if I hadn't read their glowing reports I'd be a little unsure of them.  I always assume that they get dozens of messages, many perhaps from wasters, and don't wish to engage in banter that would provide wank fodder.

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It's hard to give an honest opinion without knowing who she is. She might be someone known to one of us or a read of her profile might trigger something that you've missed.
We have no secrets on this site..... except of course our identities

Offline Big Bad R

I find a lot of girls comms are shit to be honest, patchy at best and have no relation to what I would find acceptable in ‘normal’ life  :unknown:

Offline Maak

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Travelling 3.5 hours for a WG with shaky communication is verg risky. If you insist on travelling that far, have a plan b or plan c, back up in the area.
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Offline fatboy

Walk away, and forget her
From what you've described she's clearly not reading (or understanding) your e-mails/questions. I would think that first reply to was simply her using a scattergun approach to  everyone she'd recently been in contact with in the hope that someone would fill a cancellation gap.  She probably didn't even consider the distance
You're wasting your time

I agree with Scutty, find one closer to home that rings your bell.
You will end up with a sort of reg that is not due to the distance and nause of finding reasons to  be there.
I have a couple like that who have moved but the stress of getting there etc. outweighs the positive of the meet.
My furthest is just over an hour away, known her for 10 years but if she moved away I doubt that I would still see her
much as I love getting between her thighs.
Cheers, FB.



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It's a no brainer. You go all that way and have best experience of your life....are you now going to make that round trip every week. And anything less than a wonderful time and you'd be left asking yourself why did you bother.

Offline jockmctavish69

Alarm bells. Fuck it off and find someone else within an hours drive

Offline MarkS69

My personal opinion based on almost 40 years of punting is don't bother. She sounds like a part timer to me and that sort only tend to work when they're in the mood for it. I've found the ones that send the "I'm available now" messages mean just that. As in right now. Half an hour later they've gone off the thought. I wouldn't travel all that way for someone who's behaving like she is. It's virtually guaranteed  that she won't answer her phone when you get there.

I'd love to be wrong on this, but punting life has taught me better.

Offline shylad57

Walk away. Plenty more fish in the punting sea.
The last thing you want is to be 2.5 hours into the journey and all you are met by is radio silence.
Pick another lady thats closer and with better communication.


Offline scouting

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OP has reviewed her

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=433985.0

Harsh negative IMO. He didn't travel and the decision to abort was made a week away. His review was mainly about reasons why he shouldn't make a booking and subsequent comments were mainly regarding her grammar. She may not have had the advantages of the OP's education  :unknown:
With that degree of notice I think he should have just cancelled and forgotten her. How many SP's take bookings with such advanced notice seriously?

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Pete have you cancelled the booking or just cancelled the lady on UKP. What if she gets in touch the day before the booking date with her mobile and postcode?

Offline fatboy

Would agree with Scouting and Mark69.
It's all getting a bit out of hand really.
Trouble for most WG's I think is that they  get so many messages from
punters it must be difficult keeping track.
Particularly if they have never met you.
I found this with comms from several WG's for a visit to Northampton.
Anything from super efficient to downright non sensical.
Chebs, FB

Offline funfungoodguy

I think he was wasting his time trying to do anything with her as it seems clear early on she wasn't communication - walk away. All that time and effort should have gone into finding a local SP who answers comms.

Offline Staggerlee69

Too many red flags, something is not right. Walk away and find value for money elsewhere.

Offline Diggerd91

I think alot of girls hate advance bookings because there's so many cancellations and no shows. Same day appointments seem to have a much better turn out

If I ever get the feeling of a bad attitude I'm out...nothing worse than awkward sex with someone who isn't interested just block her and move on you'll find someone else similar looking with a better attitude