Author Topic: I’m scared and cautious about catching something.  (Read 8574 times)

Offline Metalgear2018

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

Offline alabama1

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.
I'd have thought you'd be less scared as you get older, as you are closer to meeting your maker anyway  :unknown:

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I'd have thought you'd be less scared as you get older, as you are closer to meeting your maker anyway  :unknown:

My thoughts too, not sure what age has to do with it?
« Last Edit: March 18, 2026, 11:23:23 pm by PilotMan »

Online MaxVerstappen

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

Maybe you would be better off with collecting stamps?! Less risky  :unknown:

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OP, this is all fine. Do what you're comfortable doing. OWO and kissing are not mandatory.

Do you.  :thumbsup:

Offline Thephoenix

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

It doesn't matter if it's common chum.
Do what you enjoy and feel comfortable with.
Nothing wrong with being cautious.  :thumbsup:

Offline Waterhouse

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I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?
 
 
 
 

« Last Edit: March 19, 2026, 12:13:17 am by Waterhouse »

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Maybe you would be better off with collecting stamps?! Less risky  :unknown:
And when you lick the stamps, always use an oral dam.

Offline alabama1

I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?
Ditto  :thumbsup:

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I thought your “heart wasn’t in the game anymore”?  Why would this be a problem or a worry if you’re stepping down, as it were, from punting?

Just another “attention seeking” post akin to the banal threads that a certain other ex-banned member can”t seem to stop himself from posting up?

+1 Yawn.

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Time to take up crochet or watching football.

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Your time, your money, just do what you want, no SP ever complained about having to do less. Don’t know how old you are but I have to say your recent posts make me think here is a man who thinks he is no longer attractive to the opposite sex and is conjuring up reasons to fight against his desires.

Offline Stevelondon

I’m far more worried about falling down the stairs on a bus nowadays.
It’s my own fault. I do like sitting at the front if possible and I’ve got a stick on steering wheel I carry in my backpack.

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I’m far more worried about falling down the stairs on a bus nowadays.
It’s my own fault. I do like sitting at the front if possible and I’ve got a stick on steering wheel I carry in my backpack.

Can you cope with the bus sometimes being left hand drive ?

Offline Colston36

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

You have a mental problem. I am now 89. I have never used a condom. I've spent much of my life travelling the world and having sex in every possible position with women it would be polite to say are of easy virtue. I only caught the clap from a 17 year old receptionist over 60 years ago - and my doctor told me it was possible for her to have it without knowing it. The chance of catching something by kissing is incredibly remote. You only live once. Stop worrying about nothing.
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You have a mental problem. I am now 89. I have never used a condom. I've spent much of my life travelling the world and having sex in every possible position with women it would be polite to say are of easy virtue. I only caught the clap from a 17 year old receptionist over 60 years ago - and my doctor told me it was possible for her to have it without knowing it. The chance of catching something by kissing is incredibly remote. You only live once. Stop worrying about nothing.

I have had lots of paid sex over the years.

The only time I have caught something (crabs) was from a Civvy when I was in my early twenties. That was back in the days when girls never shaved as a matter of course, the era of the bush  :sarcastic:

I think the OP is attention seeking as others have said.

Offline JustaPunter

I’m not sure if this is common. But I prefer OW and not kissing because as Im getting older I’m scared of catching an sti. I don’t like snogging. I would rather kiss the wg neck. During sex I always take it slow and not pound just in case the condom splits. I wash my hands thoroughly after sex.

When I was younger I used to be slightly risky. But now that I’m older I can’t risk it. I just don’t get the snogging part. I have never caught something but still cautious.

I honestly think you need to take a break.

Not least because you can catch things like Genital Warts when wearing a condom.

Offline Trex

You have about 5 positive out of 26 reviews on here, I don’t think punting is for you and you said your heart is not in it anymore that explains your lack of positive on your reviews.