Not sure about this. You read about couples and happily married men doing this. We are all just ruled by the wee man.
Indeed. But as a reckless womaniser in my younger daze I have to say having a willing good quality regular free civvie (or 3) goes a long way to reducing demand for pros.. there is of course nothing a ho can do for any fee sexually that a reliable partner cannot do for free, exclusively and arguably better..
Obviously one has to ask.. "why are so many men finding good reliable civvie women so rare?"..