Sometimes it's better to just have a wank

[Bat]

I have always been a massive wanker (literally) so when I read this I thought "no way that would be possible for me!"  But I managed to lay off for most of the week prior to a punt the other day and christ it was incredible.  Don't think I have the cash to 100% copy your modus operandi (or a reliable enough reg) but I think I'll try and get as near to it as I can 

I struggled today I have to admit. A week without being able to see an SP and my next booking not until Tuesday. Woke up thinking about someone special and had to really calm myself down - the old favourite of a, genuinely, cold shower cooled me off!

[ID98765]

"I guess sometimes all we need it to dump our load, not necessarily the whole rigmarole of a punt."

I had this yesterday.  Was feeling horny and had a scroll through what was available at a good price.  Absolutely nothing.  Had a wank and £80 better off!

Punting is dire at the moment.  Brexit, covid, etc and I just cant see it improving like the good old days.

[Kelgon85]

Honestly, having a wank has probably saved me a couple of grand over the years. I do agree that sometimes that's all that's needed. But if after cumming the urge returns within ten minutes or so, then you probably need the real thing.

[dub6747]

Since this thread has been up I've been more aware of the how often I have a ham shank between weekly punts ... for what's it worth the longest I'm lasting is 5 days...was determined to do a full week but ended up phoning Michelle Moist ... never mind, will try again next week

[JAYZ]

It is cheaper, but cannot possibly compare with good quality (if you can find it) hands on intimacy with a young attractive lady.

[Southernbloke]

Had the opportunity to punt today, had blue pills and £200 in my pocket. I just couldn’t be bothered to go through the whole process of trying to get an appointment with someone.
Probably will regret it but a hand shandy will have the required result.

[Deepstroker]

Totally agree . So many of the women now are likely to be a poor punt and poor vfm. They are not living off my back .

[lewis666]

It is cheaper, but cannot possibly compare with good quality (if you can find it) hands on intimacy with a young attractive lady.

I think this is nail on the head JAYZ, searching and hoping for good quality intimacy is what can make it so enjoyable but finding it is hard work, the reality is rarely as enjoyable, costly for some to constantly fail and so many times a buyers remorse that the self service queue was empty but took the assistant thinking the experience would be better.

A good regular in my opinion was easier to find many years ago and that is where you find the intimacy side of things, today it's hard work and when you think you've cracked it they're gone.

[exe-punter]

Hi All, just wondering whether it's just my brain that is experiencing a shift, or whether everyone is starting to do this:

I've kinda gone a bit red pill with my life (all women/dating seem to be full of shit, despite me being a relatively decent proposition (money/looks/status/personality/bedroom prowess)... (not trying to show off here - just saying that I am sure there are people with far worse appeal that seem to do far better than me).

So when I feel horny, I browse AW and find someone to fuck (as I am sure lots of us do).

However recently, I have just been finding ladies online, browsing their pics and basically just having a wank. Then post-orgasm, feeling smug and thinking: 'well...that was £100 saved!'. It reminds me of years ago when I was about 30, seeing a much much older WG and after I'd cum, her chuckling and saying 'men are all the same, all they want is to cum and they're happy'.

The only exception is my 'favourite' girl that has become a friend of mine - I see her every other month or so when she is around and we have a great time together, sex included obviously, but then a few hours of social time afterwards that I don't pay for.

Has anyone else got to the point where they think: 'I can't be arsed...I'll just stay at home and have a wank instead'? This might just be because the one thing that eludes me (an actual girlfriend) isn't available to me at all currently, so aside from a WG being able to drain my balls (which I can do at home FOC), there isn't much else that they are offering.

Very interested in what other people are feeling these days please.... :-)

Thanks in advance for any responses :-)

[alabama1]

Hi All, just wondering whether it's just my brain that is experiencing a shift, or whether everyone is starting to do this:

I've kinda gone a bit red pill with my life (all women/dating seem to be full of shit, despite me being a relatively decent proposition (money/looks/status/personality/bedroom prowess)... (not trying to show off here - just saying that I am sure there are people with far worse appeal that seem to do far better than me).

So when I feel horny, I browse AW and find someone to fuck (as I am sure lots of us do).

However recently, I have just been finding ladies online, browsing their pics and basically just having a wank. Then post-orgasm, feeling smug and thinking: 'well...that was £100 saved!'. It reminds me of years ago when I was about 30, seeing a much much older WG and after I'd cum, her chuckling and saying 'men are all the same, all they want is to cum and they're happy'.

The only exception is my 'favourite' girl that has become a friend of mine - I see her every other month or so when she is around and we have a great time together, sex included obviously, but then a few hours of social time afterwards that I don't pay for.

Has anyone else got to the point where they think: 'I can't be arsed...I'll just stay at home and have a wank instead'? This might just be because the one thing that eludes me (an actual girlfriend) isn't available to me at all currently, so aside from a WG being able to drain my balls (which I can do at home FOC), there isn't much else that they are offering.

Very interested in what other people are feeling these days please.... :-)

Thanks in advance for any responses :-)

To have saved yourself £100, a wank would have to be the same as having sex with a woman, but it isn't so you haven't

[jamiekinkxxx]

All been discussed here:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=379056.0

[Thephoenix]

Isn't there a similar thread that's quite recent?

'Sometimes it better to just have a wank.'

[Thephoenix]

All been discussed here:

https://www.ukpunting.com/index.php?topic=379056.0

Beat me to it.

[exe-punter]

To have saved yourself £100, a wank would have to be the same as having sex with a woman, but it isn't so you haven't

Very true. If I have a wank, I don't have any physical contact with anyone else etc, and that seems to serve me well enough. So maybe that's telling me that I don't even want to have the physical contact. A very short comment by you, Alabama1, but a very insightful one, nonetheless! Thank you.

[alabama1]

Very true. If I have a wank, I don't have any physical contact with anyone else etc, and that seems to serve me well enough. So maybe that's telling me that I don't even want to have the physical contact. A very short comment by you, Alabama1, but a very insightful one, nonetheless! Thank you.

[daviemac]

Isn't there a similar thread that's quite recent?

'Sometimes it better to just have a wank.'

People don't bother to check if there's a recent thread on a subject. I'll merge this one with the one last posted on 10 days ago.

[jamiekinkxxx]

People don't bother to check if there's a recent thread on a subject. I'll merge this one with the one last posted on 10 days ago.

 

[victor989]

Prices on A/W have risen much greater than the rate of inflation. For punters who
are on a modest income, wanking may be the only alternative.

[tynetunnel]

Prices on A/W have risen much greater than the rate of inflation

Is this a fact or is it just opinion? Do you have any evidence or data to back up the statement?

[kingmg]

Prices on A/W have risen much greater than the rate of inflation. For punters who
are on a modest income, wanking may be the only alternative.

parties for 2-3 hours with multiple pops are the best value and see multiple wgs

[Kieslowski]

I'm certainly finding myself defaulting to a wank more often than previously. I texted an SP last week to see if she was available, gave her half an hour to respond, in the meantime I was browsing elsewhere and decided I'd left it long enough and had a wank instead. A few minutes later she replied saying yes she was available, but there was no way I'd cum again so soon so I just had to say sorry, just had a wank.

And last night, I texted two SPs, neither replied within an hour, didn't pick up the phone when I called either, so I just had a wank instead.

I definitely wouldn't dump punting for wanking completely, but it is getting to the point where if I've just got the horn and there's no one I'm desperate to see, I'm inclined to have a tactical wank instead and avoid spending ages browsing AW and getting excited thinking about a punt that's not going to come to fruition.

[thebastard]

If I was based in London I would punt more regularly - weekly and probably with some regulars but I'm not so the frequency is a lot less but then means I can have better quality ones when I do.

[dobob]

Pussy will always be better than cranking it to pixels on a screen.
...

I definitely agree with that. As an aside, am I alone in thinking that mental images are better than pixels on a screen, when solo sex is the only option, and when you are in the mood for memories of past pleasures, or anticipation of future pleasures? I enjoy porn, but I prefer other ways of getting turned on.

So, I'll probably be checking through my internal bonking playlist on my deathbed - to the embarrassment of everyone present ("Nurse! Should great-uncle dobob be doing that?").

Cheers!

[petermisc]

If all you are after is to blow your load, a quick wank is undeniably more cost-effective than a 15 or 30 minute quickie.  However, for me at least, I am after more, much more, than that.  Nothing beats a long, leisurely, intimate session with a regular.  Unfortunately where I live, out in the boonies, an impulse punt is not on the cards, so often a wank is my only recourse if the sap is rising.

Looking back at the OP, I think it is a bit unrealistic to expect much of a connection with a total stranger in a one-off 30 minute punt.  You either need a longer punt, or to build up that connection over several visits.  However, if that kind of connection is what you are after, you sure aren't going to get it from a wank! 

The problem with wanking to porn is that it can build up unrealistic expectations, that real life is never going to match.

[Colston36]

I would punt weekly if I had access to better quality GFE girls in my area. A wank doesn’t do it for me anymore!

I do weekly - but still wank. You meet a better class of person as the old joke goes.

[signy]

I do weekly ...

At my age, I do weakly as well. (Sorry).

[FlaccidChimp]

I feel likes there's some luck to this. Punting is somewhat gambling in a way. It's pay to play and sometimes you don't get a good bang for your bucks. Other times it's fine or good value in some's minds. I was very aroused the other day and massaged a few girls on AW with no reviews. They didn't reply quickly enough and I ended up masturbating. It was a decent session although nothing special, but it was free. These girls would've set me back £150-250. I just saved that for like 30-60 for a possible non memorable experience. I am not wealthy so it matters to me but if my income increased a lot I would just try new girls more often.

[sir wanksalot]

Depends on your age.
When young I could have a wank then still pull a bird a few hours later and be up for the job.
Now I’m in my 50’s a wank will destroy my sex drive in an instant and save me £80.

 

I used to have a pre-punt wank years ago to make me last longer.

Now if I have a wank I'm done thinking about punting for 5 days!! I actually quite like it because once you scratch that itch you start to think more clearly e.g. "was I REALLY going to spend £ 80 for upto 30 mins??"

[Thephoenix]

I used to have a pre-punt wank years ago to make me last longer.

Now if I have a wank I'm done thinking about punting for 5 days!! I actually quite like it because once you scratch that itch you start to think more clearly e.g. "was I REALLY going to spend £ 80 for upto 30 mins??"

Be careful!..... you're going to lose your reputation.

[Kieslowski]

I used to have a pre-punt wank years ago to make me last longer.

Now if I have a wank I'm done thinking about punting for 5 days!! I actually quite like it because once you scratch that itch you start to think more clearly e.g. "was I REALLY going to spend £ 80 for upto 30 mins??"

Yeah, I've often thought to myself "well that's £80 saved" when I've had a wank after not being able to make a booking. As a result, I've definitely become a bit more fussy about who I have a punt with and ended up punting far less than I did in my heyday.

[chadpitt]

It's getting ridiculous now "Brazilians" charging £80 h/h and owo, kissing and pussy licking all extras.

Sod the lot of them. Egotistical c*nts.

[Mr Sinister]

I have a wank when I have the impulse to punt especially in scramble mode. Scramble mode is when your all out of options as plan A-Z are away, no working for a couple of days, profile that was there yesterday is gone today etc...so you just start looking at any wg even if she doesn't meet the criteria.

A good wank puts an end to that

[surreyvisitor]

For me it is the excitement of the whole experience, I find once I get the idea in my head the excitement takes over and I have to see it through to the end.   I have regretted a lot of my punts in the past and thought "what a waste of money" as I walk away and the excitement has worn off, I guess a bit like bet regret.

There have been a few occasions where there has been some issue as I am waiting outside, either the girl doesn't answer the text or I keep getting the "wait 15 minutes" text as she has clearly double booked.  In these instances it has been quite a relief to just walk away and put the cash back in the bank.

There have been other days where I have had the whole day free, messaged several girls, not got any replies and then the day has got away from me and it is too late anyway.

I have the weekend coming all to myself and I have been doing a bit of research on here and have one girl in particular in mind.   However I am 50/50 on the idea at the moment, if it doesn't come off and I just end up having a wank it won't be the worst thing in the world.

[RandomGuy99]

I miss the footsteps in high heels as the SP does their final checks and comes to do the magic door trick and you step in to a guaranteed good time with a regular and are greeted by a DFK.

[surreyvisitor]

I miss the footsteps in high heels as the SP does their final checks and comes to do the magic door trick and you step in to a guaranteed good time with a regular and are greeted by a DFK.

Ah, that reminds me of my first ever punt.  I was shown to the room by the maid and told that the girl would be along shortly.  As I nervously sat on the chair I suddenly heard the unmistakable sound of high heels walking to the room and the door slowly opened.

As she walked into the room I was very relieved to see that she was really hot, probably one of the hottest I have ever been with.

I guess in many ways when I punt now I am still trying to chase the excitement of that first time, and the sound of her footsteps were a big part of it.

[daviemac]

Ah, that reminds me of my first ever punt.  I was shown to the room by the maid and told that the girl would be along shortly.  As I nervously sat on the chair I suddenly heard the unmistakable sound of high heels walking to the room and the door slowly opened.

As she walked into the room I was very relieved to see that she was really hot, probably one of the hottest I have ever been with.

I guess in many ways when I punt now I am still trying to chase the excitement of that first time, and the sound of her footsteps were a big part of it.

It's been a while since you posted a review is there a reason for that?   

[thebastard]

Ah, that reminds me of my first ever punt.  I was shown to the room by the maid and told that the girl would be along shortly.  As I nervously sat on the chair I suddenly heard the unmistakable sound of high heels walking to the room and the door slowly opened.

As she walked into the room I was very relieved to see that she was really hot, probably one of the hottest I have ever been with.

I guess in many ways when I punt now I am still trying to chase the excitement of that first time, and the sound of her footsteps were a big part of it.

Agreed - that noise and the hiding behind the door trick just does it for me.  Then when you see them and they're FAF the excitement is something else!

[Ghost89]

I’ve not been as bothered about punting recently as I once was. It’s just getting too expensive for me now. When 30min meets are now costing between £80-£100 average it’s getting too silly now. I’m finding that when I leave after I’m annoyed with myself as I think about where that money could have gone to instead.