I would just add: you talk about the work aspect being a problem in the future, but not her culture, and in my experience Chinese culture ( if that is hers which I assume from the wechat reference) can get wearing over time. Of course learning about another culture is interesting and exciting esp in early days, and you may think you've come to terms with it, but over time how ingrained these are in us comes through. As a man you will be expected to provide and do manly stuff ( not talking cash demands here: in another sense Chinese women handle the family money traditionally) but her family will always be paramount to your needs, hers, or your children's. A Chinese person will be listened to above you. Keeping Face is more important than anything, so expect facts to be changed to suit this, which may offend our western sense of truth. You may over time get a sense thsr never really understand what is going onvand are an outsider no matter how you try. If her English is good this helps a lot. Of course we never truly know another, but the cultural issue can highlight uncertainties. If you truly love someone, of course, you can work through these problems and put them in perspective, but beware of thinking ( unconsciously)" it's my country and she will do all the adaptation to my culture" because that's unlikely to happen and not reasonable. Best luck and enjoy.
