I think milflover has been since commenting on this thread.
I'll be thinking again before posting next time when I toftt, as certainly not wishing to tangle with anyone, especially the mods.
Any positive review is a promotion, can cause a stampede, especially a glowing TOFFT which is the best form of sharing on this site, many do not post until they have had their fill, she is jaded or moved on.
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For anyone handling their own bookings it must surely become difficult if a stampede starts, and some are far more organised than others.
The fact you are considering not posting a TOFFT next time, you are not alone, is a sign of the hostility and nit picking that is rife on this site, reviews picked on for not being full Mills and Boon, comments like " Not for me " , if you have no interest move on
, trying to say the review reads differently from the rating given, etc, all of which discourage posting or make people think twice before doing so.
This one caused a stir, and no doubt a stampede, but as most of the negativity is for ghosting, and most who got through the door had a great time, you should not be blamed for it, there are quite likely many leeches that have used your information, not just those that post, you did what most do not, posted a positive TOFFT early and kept the thread updated from your return visits.
Is that not what the site is about? Is this not the best form of sharing? A review 3,4,5 or 6 months down the line is often a waste of time
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