Is that not why the main message of these 'red pill' influencers is for men to put down the video games, get in the gym, and improve yourself?
I think you are focusing on only one aspect of the "red pill" influencers.
On the Tate thread I wrote:
Jordan Peterson is the perfect example of a ‘masculinity guru’ who rose to prominence by advising young men to do things that their father (or male role model) arguably should have advised them to do when they were younger (e.g. do exercise, eat healthily, educate yourself, etc.) but Jordan mixed his ‘advice’ with his own warped vision of life and relationships with women; all enveloped in faux-academic language which gave the impression that he knows what he’s talking about.
A lot of their supporters tend to ignore the misogyny of these influencers disguised in a respectable and sensible advice for men. There is no denying that advising young men to drop video games, eat healthily, do exercise, etc. is very good advice - everyone should do that, not just men. The problem is when the influencers add their own warped ideas about what women are "really like."
Basically what their message is saying is women are cold hearted bitches who will drop you in a heartbeat unless you are an alpha male.
Jordan Peterson gives that message in an academic language, Andrew Tate in crude language, the guy in the video above does it in more sedate language. But the message is the same. Another message that come through from these guys is that women should be at the service of men.
Any man who has had one or more meaningful relationships with women will know that's total bs, but for young impressionable men and especially teenagers finding out their way in life and male/female relationships that message is giving them a grim view of women and what to expect from them. If they ever have a failed relationship or failed to get into any relationships it will always be the woman's fault because women are cold hearted bitches who will move on to another better prospect.
Now, are there women like that? Of course there are, but to lump all women like that is ridiculous. Just as ridiculous as when extreme feminists lump all men as being evil bastards. All forms of extremism are wrong.
Relationships are more complicated than "me, man, strong provider; you woman, weak, kitchen". Successful relationships thrive on compromise, dialogue and when male/female differences complement each other rather than one imposing over the other.