After my "Dire Dorset" post last month thought I'd pay a little more attention to SA and this has been my experience so far.
Started with a cost/spend analysis of my punting over the last couple of years (which I had never done before) to try and assign a budget to SA and surprised myself to find that I'm spending an average of £****'s a year. This was factoring average punts/spend with regulars and newbies (one punt a week and most of my bookings are two hours), 3 or 4 overnights and usually one weekend away a year. Most of this going to my regulars or favourites.
With this in mind reactivated my SA account and after sorting the wheat from the chaff, have shortlisted four ladies. have had social meets with all and two intimate ones. Their expectations financially are completely different across all four. Only is a very attractive milf who just wants to wined/dined, social and gifts a sort of FWB arrangement. Two are students, one who is happy to receive £50 to £150 depending on meets possibly leading to an allowance and the other wants a set allowance starting at £150 per month with gifts/shopping/top up and social covered. The last is a mid twenties single mom who is happy to accept what financial assistance I want to provide. So started her off at on a similar sliding scale as the first student. The arrangements are all 2 to 3 meets minimum a month with intimacy included and no real minimum time frame on meets. One is a bit vanilla, two are a little kinky (which i will help them with
) and one is pure utter filth
that puts most of the ladies on AW to shame.
I'm planning on choosing two to have ongoing arrangements after a few more meets and even at the top end of projected spend with trips away, accommodation, social spend tops out at about £3000 less than I was spending on WG's. Which means i get my end away more, better experience hopefully and less spend. Also £££ to spend on fantasy fucks on AW or ladies like Woofie when I'm on my travels or same day urges. I will probably have to keep my eye on SA for backups/replacements etc
Positives - Cost! Hopefully VFM for experience over time will be better. Apart from one who is a bit plain the attractiveness imo is higher than AW. I have actually really enjoyed the hunt and buzz which seemed to be missing from my AW meets even when I was TOFTing.
Negatives - It is time consuming from the online chats, to keeping them entertained when we move platforms and so on. Since I cannot accommodate most of the time cost of venue and logistics is a pain. Having to deal with the scammers, timewasters, ghosters and straight ppm ladies. Strangely out of the straight to ppm girls none of them had AW accounts.
On a side note, completely changed my profile this time around. More photos, a very in depth profile (possibly a little brutal but seemed to have less scammers this time around) stating exactly what I did not want and and a hook line to get them to message me. Came at it from passive approach with the ladies messaging me first and I've not initiated first contact.
Maybe I've been lucky this time around but I think the change in profile has helped and also been more forthright about my expectations and less tolerant for the timewasters.
Hopefully with my FWB that I have picked up from another dating site should everything work out this could be a very good year.