Signing off for now. To heal.

[Walsalllad15]

Not been funny but this woman used you, yet you'll not name her and help fellow guys out,  who could end up in the same situation as you.

I feel admin should ban him if he doesn't reveal the name. This site is surposed to help people and warn people,something that he's not doing

[Prophet 999]

Not been funny but this woman used you, yet you'll not name her and help fellow guys out,  who could end up in the same situation as you.

I feel admin should ban him if he doesn't reveal the name. This site is surposed to help people and warn people,something that he's not doing

If you give me some time I will

I would appreciate that

[Prophet 999]

Not been funny but this woman used you, yet you'll not name her and help fellow guys out,  who could end up in the same situation as you.

I feel admin should ban him if he doesn't reveal the name. This site is surposed to help people and warn people,something that he's not doing

And if anyone doubts my. I am happy for them to PM me and meet me

I am Birmingham based and will show them what transpired

I trust the forum members enough to ensure we at least as a group respect each other

Thank you

[Payyourwaymate]

Sorry Imp but I disagree.

Yes I gave too much info but with all due respect when I look back it I was fully exploited.

To the point on the first occasion when I ended it...she text me the very same day to say come see her.

She had by this point realised I was weak and used it.

As soon as she had the last bit of what she needed she went quiet obviously not answering etc etc

It may be attention seeking or just wanting some shoulders to lean on

This forum is to just to lawd our conquests...I thought we could share if deemed appropriate issues

She played me perfectly and without emotion as displayed by her cold approach thereafter

I may be an idiot for being exploited but i restate she knew what she was doing

Indeed she mentioned something about her flatmate .....

And she was always looking over her shoulder every time we left her flat...even late at night....I thought it was strange then but now looking back at it

Why would you be sooo paranoid.....perhaps someone who had suffered the same fate previously....

I don't know

I need to stop responding even it is negative towards me

And take time out

Apologies for the war and piece

You should out her or otherwise you just used this thread to vent out your frustations, throw a passive aggressive jab and hope she gets her due.... while she is still happily gallivanting taking other punters money and you are mourning the breakdown of your relationship with her. Even worse.... you said in an earlier post she is a member of this site, so she is a snake hiding in the grass preying on the weak and vulnerable punters susceptible to EAS. That's no good OP. Hope you get better.

[CheeseBoard]

You need to get over this mentally (come to terms with what has happened) and physically (sort out the damage (monetary and otherwise)).

Maybe go on the net and look for a counselor.  Spell out what happened, how you feel and work with them to put together a game plan to put your mind straight.

What's done is done, what matters is what you do from now.

You live and learn.  You have done one of them.  Move forward and do the second 

[Walsalllad15]

Least give us the area of the Midlands

[bonham]

He's seid he needs time i suggest give him that time this is not helping him specially with all the reveaws he gives us and what he puts into them

[Drexl Spivey]

gotta be sweet kitty. off the hot list she goes til the scammer is named and shamed on this currently useless thread

[Paris69]

gotta be sweet kitty. off the hot list she goes til the scammer is named and shamed on this currently useless thread

Might be a useless thread to you; but not to the OP. It allowed him to unload and clear his head a little. It also got him advice good and bad but thats for him to decipher.
But i bet he feels better emotionally for getting this into the public forum and feeling like he can talk about it....

[Prophet 999]

Might be a useless thread to you; but not to the OP. It allowed him to unload and clear his head a little. It also got him advice good and bad but thats for him to decipher.
But i bet he feels better emotionally for getting this into the public forum and feeling like he can talk about it....

Once again thank you for all feedback.

To reiterate none of the reviews I have done feature this horrible person

They were done as a means I thought to try and force my way through the mental trauma but they did not

I spoke to 2 WG's about my issues...both were very sympathetic

And both gave me great support I thank them

BUT I never disclosed this horrible WG's name.

Please give me time to get to a positive mental well-being position

FYI the two extremely helpful WG's were Nicole and Natasha

I thank them warmly

And I thank you all for your support but please do not lay any blame on the WG's from my reviews. They were professional and helped in their way

[Prophet 999]

Might be a useless thread to you; but not to the OP. It allowed him to unload and clear his head a little. It also got him advice good and bad but thats for him to decipher.
But i bet he feels better emotionally for getting this into the public forum and feeling like he can talk about it....

And to finally close the current chapter...last week was particularly bad for me....

I thought punting would help clear the anxiety I was feeling

I saw Mandy Foxxx for one hour last Sunday £180
And Wednesday I saw Vanessa Lush for 30min £60

By now despite these two both being lovely ladies I was doing it for the wrong reasons and hurting myself even more

Hence the reason for this thread

In time when I have recovered I will hopefully return to my best and post reviews for these ladies

[jeanphillipe]

Have to take umbridge with something you said. We dont all post reviews to "laud our conquests". I hate writing reviews but feel it's the done thing to "trade" info. As this Is a give and take forum. I'm extremely vanilla,  so I usually make extra effort to post reviews with SP's with no intel as I feel a TOFFT or negative points is where I can be useful to members.

[winkywanky]

So anyway, looking at Prophet's reviews one might assume a girl from the Midlands, around Brum/Coventry way?

[alabama1]

No shit Sherlock 

[winkywanky]

No shit Sherlock 

  ...just because I beat you to it 

[pbrown355]

Prophet, having benefitted from your reviews and had shared some interest in posts I feel compelled to comment on this one.
I should point out that I am not a psychologist so my advice may be flawed but I hope it helps.
IMO taking whatever break you are intending to take from UKP is not going to make much difference.
You need to go cold turkey on the WG. Hopefully you have already done this.
Secondly outing the event without outing the girl isn't going to help you. If you are ever going to out her you should do it now. Doing it later will not help you anywhere near as much.
As for UKP, we'll be ok whether you do it now, later or not at all. It's you who it will make a difference to.
I hope you take my advice, for your sake not ours.
Look after yourself.

[CheeseBoard]

I spoke to 2 WG's about my issues...both were very sympathetic

And both gave me great support I thank them

BUT I never disclosed this horrible WG's name.

FYI the two extremely helpful WG's were Nicole and Natasha

I thank them warmly

And I thank you all for your support but please do not lay any blame on the WG's from my reviews. They were professional and helped in their way

So you booked a couple of WGs to discuss your issues about another WG?     it would be cheaper to see a professional therapist.  If you have EAS, then they are the last people to see while vulnerable.

I have to say, my sympathy is waning...

Bit of advice (im not going to charge you £180 an hour for it)

Set yourself a date (say 2 days from now as an example) so you can lick your wounds and feel sorry for yourself.  Mope about, wallow in how you have been treated badly and you want the world to end, etc, etc.

At midnight of the date selected.  Thats it, you are done with that crap and now time to move on.  Make sure anything related is deleted, thrown away, etc.  Then share the name and thats it.  New date, new start.  Get some decent reviews on here and she can read them at her leisure knowing she's a bitch and everyone knows its her.

[seandana]

I would suggest you put your lucky PACMAN punting boxers on and sit down and type  the name of this nasty piece of work.
We will all feel better for it including you prophet 

[mrfishyfoo]

Yes..... but if named she might get angry and refuse another booking from him. 

Sooooo true !!! 

[southern boy]

Agree bet she cant believe her luck reading the thread and not being named and shamed shes probably targeting her next victem as we speak
If he feels so bad at what happened to himsf that surely be an incentive to save someone else

[oldmanking]

Prophet999...........  You gave LarinaXXX a negative review, despite not having a bad word to say about her in your review???  You sure are an odd one..... 

[Prophet 999]

Prophet999...........  You gave LarinaXXX a negative review, despite not having a bad word to say about her in your review???  You sure are an odd one..... 

It was.amended to negative after I was made aware that she was offering discounts for positive UKP reviews

I was not privy to this at the time of seeing her nor was given any discount

[RAJEC]

This guy sounds like he’s got serious issues and needs help.

Not sure how widespread eas is amongst punters, but if it’s a high number, then he’s doing a disservice to those fellow punters that are supporting him during his difficult time, by not naming her.

It’s practically the same as witnessing a crime and refusing to identify the criminal.

 

[southern boy]

Lets hope the next potential victim reads this and proceeds with caution and dosnt fall into the same trap not easy tho as he constantly refusals to name

[southern boy]

As you say its like a crime being commited and wont testify

[mr.bluesky]

Prophet999...........  You gave LarinaXXX a negative review, despite not having a bad word to say about her in your review???  You sure are an odd one..... 

This is what I thought when reading through his past reviews
 

[jay121]

Prophet sorry to hear that you been taken advantage of, but i do think as you mentioned in your post  thats its by a SP that alot on this forum know and use that you should name her. There may be others who are currently being taken advantage of in the same way that you have been.

[Moby Dick]

It was.amended to negative after I was made aware that she was offering discounts for positive UKP reviews

I was not privy to this at the time of seeing her nor was given any discount

So you were happy at the time of the review. Service and price?
So why then make it a negative based on rumours, someone else’s opinion, not yours?

[Wood2017]

Prophet sorry to hear that you been taken advantage of, but i do think as you mentioned in your post  thats its by a SP that alot on this forum know and use that you should name her. There may be others who are currently being taken advantage of in the same way that you have been.

+1.

Prophet i don't know you and i won't claim to & i sincerely hope you are getting back to your regular self (whatever that may be) as soon as possible.

What i feel compelled to say though if you're not naming this girl either now or in the future for hope of some form of reconciliation with the girl in question then i would strongly advise you to reconsider.  This girl has showed her true colours & her actions have clearly hurt you in some capacity. You need to cut your losses (no pun intended) and forget she ever exists. We on here don't know the ins and outs of what happened but she sounds like an arsehole. One you don't need around you.

I'd echo what others have said though & for all anyone knows she's targeting the next punter already. Particularly IF she's a popular escort & punters on here are unknowingly adding positive reviews for her and increasing her reputation & her bank balance whilst this is happening in the background. Your silence is only helping her.

[Prophet 999]

+1.

Prophet i don't know you and i won't claim to & i sincerely hope you are getting back to your regular self (whatever that may be) as soon as possible.

What i feel compelled to say though if you're not naming this girl either now or in the future for hope of some form of reconciliation with the girl in question then i would strongly advise you to reconsider.  This girl has showed her true colours & her actions have clearly hurt you in some capacity. You need to cut your losses (no pun intended) and forget she ever exists. We on here don't know the ins and outs of what happened but she sounds like an arsehole. One you don't need around you.

I'd echo what others have said though & for all anyone knows she's targeting the next punter already. Particularly IF she's a popular escort & punters on here are unknowingly adding positive reviews for her and increasing her reputation & her bank balance whilst this is happening in the background. Your silence is only helping her.

I understand I have upset a few of you and not my intention.
PLEASE give me some time. I am seeking help to get through this

Short insight

Last year she started saying she had health problems, issues with her house...

I arranged a house viewing for her
She asked for prescription drugs (birth control) but told me not to mention on UKP...that's when I got sight of UKP for the first time
She said she was not making enough...couldn't go home to see her family

I assisted....then she cut me off. It broke me mentally as NEVER let anyone get through my emotional barrier...she was the first one (personal reasons) in many many years

After chasing her as to why go cold after we had been "dating"...I finally got some control and messaged her to say look it's ok. Good luck for the future and goodbye

This was on a Sunday morning. I felt good. Strong. Like I had finally got over it....but then she messaged me back the same say to say come see her....and then I was truly suckered in

What followed was constant depletion of resources until she got exactly the figure she needed and then went quiet.

I admit I chased her. I couldn't understand what I had done wrong. It broke me mentally.

This year has been torment.

There is more. But I share this to a) get it out and I have tried and tried.

I don't seek a reconciliation. It's mentally fatiguing

I'm sure some will now say here he goes again....

I just wanted to use my peer group of OPs for advice and comfort. It's not something you can share easily

Give me some time. Thats all I ask

[MrMatrix]

Escorts are only interested in one thing- your money. I too have been conned, a couple of times. Not to the value you sound as though you have. Both times I retreat for a while, lick my wounds and get out after a few weeks. Life goes on irrespective of our drama. I'm also a lot wiser now.
Hope you find some peace of mind OP.

[southern boy]

Your sending the members of the site down the river  but thats on your conscience my friend

[MrMatrix]

Arguably without the name its a pointless thread. He's given very little detail as to what happen and whats he lost. But it does seem more a cry for help and theres little to go on. 

[southern boy]

I very much doubt your the only one who is being fleeced

[alabama1]

It was.amended to negative after I was made aware that she was offering discounts for positive UKP reviews

I was not privy to this at the time of seeing her nor was given any discount

WHAT ??? You changed a positive punt to negative because of a rumour ???    Doubt you will ever get a punt again if WGs discover who you are on here. You truly are a loose , and potentially dangerous cannon ! If i were you i would burn your pacman boxers too !

[Prophet 999]

WHAT ??? You changed a positive punt to negative because of a rumour ???    Doubt you will ever get a punt again if WGs discover who you are on here. You truly are a loose , and potentially dangerous cannon ! If i were you i would burn your pacman boxers too !

I am certainly not a loose cannon. What I was is naive and overly trustworthy. It's my nature

I was clearly an idiot too. My problem clearly is that I saw this WG as a route to some personal happiness

She saw my weakness and took advantage

My life, my career i run with clarity.
One dimension

Underneath Im struggling. Hence sharing with you

I take all feedback as healing. I needed to start the talking process. In time I will recover

I still thank you all for your feedback. Good and deriding.
I deserve it.

I shouldn't have such a fool.

Give me some time as I say.

[JontyR]

And yes credibility is to be gained by naming her

I know that EAS is a thing that you have sought to guard others against Prophet. Giving you some kudos points that you have pointed this out to those that you thought were vulnerable or at risk.

So I'll say this, for those hardnuts on here, exploited EAS isn't going to be an issue. For those who are the most vulnerable it is. It's not the EAS that's the issue per se. It's the exploitation of those which have become vulnerable that is.

Some poor sap may be being taken for a ride right now. You have the power to own the situation, take some pride and self respect and ownership of the situation back and help him in the process.

The only reasons why I think you wouldn't is either because you still have an attachment there, or to do so would invite a defence from the SP which may paint a different version of events.

[Prophet 999]

I know that EAS is a thing that you have sought to guard others against Prophet. Giving you some kudos points that you have pointed this out to those that you thought were vulnerable or at risk.

So I'll say this, for those hardnuts on here, exploited EAS isn't going to be an issue. For those who are the most vulnerable it is. It's not the EAS that's the issue per se. It's the exploitation of those which have become vulnerable that is.

Some poor sap may be being taken for a ride right now. You have the power to own the situation, take some pride and self respect and ownership of the situation back and help him in the process.

The only reasons why I think you wouldn't is either because you still have an attachment there, or to do so would invite a defence from the SP which may paint a different version of events.

I have no desire to reconcile

As to the wg...it transpired certain things later on which she told me. If she had been clear about these things from the outset I would never have entered into an attachment

Unequivocally no way would I have

I appreciate it's vague but she said he had to do something she doesn't offer on her profile. I was shocked

Instead of run the other way.. I paid her to not offer this service

Yes yes I know even more stupid of me.
But for me I was so hurt. She promised she wouldn't offer this anymore. Prior to saying she would quit being a wg

I continued lining and her family's pockets

I'm going to stop answering for a few days and take time out. It's taken a lot out of me.

I've had days, weeks go by where I have done fuck all in my depression . 

I understand some will judge me.
I still value your support

Just give me some time

[alabama1]

2 pages of total bollocks ! I suspect he is an attention seeking fantasist who is getting off on all of this. I for one will no longer give him any more of my time and i advise other members do the same. CASE CLOSED , and good night !

[Prophet 999]

2 pages of total bollocks ! I suspect he is an attention seeking fantasist who is getting off on all of this. I for one will no longer give him any more of my time and i advise other members do the same. CASE CLOSED , and good night !

That's fine I respect your feedback

I'm still greatful to be able to share

[Wood2017]

Prophet, i could be well wide of the target but within this thread you said she'd asked you to get her birth control & also that she'd said to you she was considering offering something she didn't list on her profile, which prompted you to pay her a significant amount so she didn't do it. I've assumed that to be bareback 

It might not feel like it now but i think you've maybe had a lucky escape. She sounds like a disaster all round to be honest. She's probably got other punters on strings too, or has a boyfriend already hence the birth control. Definitely one to avoid this one.

[Rangers54]

Thank you all. I understand the criticism and some is justifiably so

But my rapid reviews and at times erratic form was masking my mental anxiety. I've struggled with the aftermath

In the fullness of time I will name her

But I need time to deal with this

As for her. I can only rely on karma

I'll see you all hopefully next year

P

Awwww Fucking boo hoo quit with the bollocks  this isn't a fairy story its shagging prozzers. What's with the sweaty brow mentality. Name the thieving bitch and let us all know or go and lie in the corner of your room and cry over the stupidness of giving a prozzer your mortgage payment.

[binbag]

I sympathise with you being ripped off. However, whether you say you are a fool or not for being a victim, the fact is a WG deceived you and ripped you off. You can beat yourself up over it or you can shrug it off - either way, it's up to you. What is not up to you, or shouldn't be if you have any shred of decency, is to warn other people who are in danger of being similarly duped - ie, punters who use this forum. The very purpose of this forum is to spread info, good and bad, about working girls. In a case like this, feelings don't really matter. You either wish to help people who are in potential danger or you don't. The more evasive replies you post, the more evident it is that you'd rather indulge in self pity rather than give a shit about anyone else.  If what you say is true it's not "like" harbouring a villain, you are doing exactly that and thereby endangering fellow punters.       

[mr.bluesky]

Prophet 999 you say she told you she's not making enough money to go home to see her family so we can take it that she's Eastern European , (Polish , Romanian) or Thai. You could at least give us all a clue to her nationality 

[bonham]

I fall  I love with  Chinese girls alot when wanking me but when I cum all over her hands I go home  and can't remember who I seen   

[Moby Dick]

I fall  I love with  Chinese girls alot when wanking me but when I cum all over her hands I go home  and can't remember who I seen   

That’s the problem with Chinese.
You get your fill, feel satisfied, but hungry for more 30minutes later 

[watsey]

Prophet, having benefitted from your reviews and had shared some interest in posts I feel compelled to comment on this one.
I should point out that I am not a psychologist so my advice may be flawed but I hope it helps.
IMO taking whatever break you are intending to take from UKP is not going to make much difference.
You need to go cold turkey on the WG. Hopefully you have already done this.
Secondly outing the event without outing the girl isn't going to help you. If you are ever going to out her you should do it now. Doing it later will not help you anywhere near as much.
As for UKP, we'll be ok whether you do it now, later or not at all. It's you who it will make a difference to.
I hope you take my advice, for your sake not ours.
Look after yourself.

I have great sympathy with you but I've got to agree with pbrown355 on this. Outing the girl at a later date is just going to bring it all back again. If you are going to do it, do it now, get it over with and put it all behind you.

[petermisc]

So my recent activity is borne out of mental anguishafter being hurt and scammed.
I'm going to sign off for now to try and recover as it has affected me greatly. I wish you all the very best, a great Xmas and see you when I feel back to best
Adios for now.

And still he is posting, teasing us with more details....... but still he can't bring himself to name the scammer. 

My initial sympathy for Prophet's situation has totally evaporated by his continual refusal to out the scammer.  I can't see how he thinks delaying naming the girl is going to help him.  As others have said, better to get everything off his chest and move on.  As someone who has suffered from EAS in the past (but fortunately without getting royally stung), I can only conclude that despite his protestations he still has some feelings for her.   

IMHO, negative reviews are far more important than positive.  One man's meat is another's poison - just because you find a particular escort attractive and enjoy her services is no guarantee that I will.  Everyone's tastes differ.  However, if a girl is short-timing clients, not offering the advertised services, looks nothing like her photos, etc etc than that is important for everyone who is considering seeing her.  And deliberating scamming vulnerable clients is a big negative.  He has also implied that she was barebacking clients ("she said she had to do something she doesn't offer on her profile. I was shocked  Instead of run the other way.. I paid her to not offer this service") which again is another big negative.

Prophet is just an attention seeker.  By his own admission, he only came on here to brag about his exploits ("This forum is to just to lawd our conquests").  All his reviews have been positive (one since changed to negative only because he got criticised), yet somehow he failed to share on this particular girl who he was repeatedly seeing.  And now he is using the forum to try and garner sympathy from us.  This forum only works if people give, as well as take.  He seems to want our sympathy, while doing nothing to stop any of us falling into the clutches of this bare-backing scammer.

[winkywanky]

I understand I have upset a few of you and not my intention.
PLEASE give me some time. I am seeking help to get through this

Short insight

Last year she started saying she had health problems, issues with her house...

I arranged a house viewing for her
She asked for prescription drugs (birth control) but told me not to mention on UKP...that's when I got sight of UKP for the first time
She said she was not making enough...couldn't go home to see her family

I assisted....then she cut me off. It broke me mentally as NEVER let anyone get through my emotional barrier...she was the first one (personal reasons) in many many years

After chasing her as to why go cold after we had been "dating"...I finally got some control and messaged her to say look it's ok. Good luck for the future and goodbye

This was on a Sunday morning. I felt good. Strong. Like I had finally got over it....but then she messaged me back the same say to say come see her....and then I was truly suckered in

What followed was constant depletion of resources until she got exactly the figure she needed and then went quiet.

I admit I chased her. I couldn't understand what I had done wrong. It broke me mentally.

This year has been torment.

There is more. But I share this to a) get it out and I have tried and tried.

I don't seek a reconciliation. It's mentally fatiguing

I'm sure some will now say here he goes again....

I just wanted to use my peer group of OPs for advice and comfort. It's not something you can share easily

Give me some time. Thats all I ask

Reading between the lines it seems to be a foreign WG. Re: the comment about going home to see her family and the prescription thing. I'm guessing Romanian?

You gave her money and then she cut off all contact? She has clearly and cynically bled you dry. It's not a word I often use in relation to women, but this fucking bitch has taken you for a mug, bled you dry and fucked off. However emotionally tormented you may feel, you need to tell everyone who she is. Sorry to be so blunt.

This is for everyone else's benefit, but ultimately, also yours. You obviously still harbour feelings for her. If you tell us who she is you'll be cutting those emotional ties for good, and that's  very necessary because the ties go only one way.

I'm not saying any of this to be disingenuous to get her name out of you, these are cold, hard facts which you need to get a grip of  .

[alabama1]

And still he is posting, teasing us with more details....... but still he can't bring himself to name the scammer. 

My initial sympathy for Prophet's situation has totally evaporated by his continual refusal to out the scammer.  I can't see how he thinks delaying naming the girl is going to help him.  As others have said, better to get everything off his chest and move on.  As someone who has suffered from EAS in the past (but fortunately without getting royally stung), I can only conclude that despite his protestations he still has some feelings for her.   

IMHO, negative reviews are far more important than positive.  One man's meat is another's poison - just because you find a particular escort attractive and enjoy her services is no guarantee that I will.  Everyone's tastes differ.  However, if a girl is short-timing clients, not offering the advertised services, looks nothing like her photos, etc etc than that is important for everyone who is considering seeing her.  And deliberating scamming vulnerable clients is a big negative.  He has also implied that she was barebacking clients ("she said she had to do something she doesn't offer on her profile. I was shocked  Instead of run the other way.. I paid her to not offer this service") which again is another big negative.

Prophet is just an attention seeker.  By his own admission, he only came on here to brag about his exploits ("This forum is to just to lawd our conquests").  All his reviews have been positive (one since changed to negative only because he got criticised), yet somehow he failed to share on this particular girl who he was repeatedly seeing.  And now he is using the forum to try and garner sympathy from us.  This forum only works if people give, as well as take.  He seems to want our sympathy, while doing nothing to stop any of us falling into the clutches of this bare-backing scammer.

There is another scenario of course. That this story is a complete fabrication, and that everything he has ever stated on this site is a lie. Most of us on here (fewer by the minute though it would seem) have believed what he has been telling us without a second thought, well until lately that is.